Lopanda mu moyo, kusungulumwa - chiganizo kapena ndalama?

Mungathe kufika pamwamba m'madera ambiri osiyana a moyo: malonda, banja, ndale, etc. Only anthu awa sichikwiya wosangalala. Lopanda mu moyo, chisoni, chisoni, chisoni - pafupipafupi "alendo" wa mtima wa munthu. Kodi Mukusowa chiyani? Chindiletsa moyo mwamtendere komanso mosangalala? Yankho ndi banal - alibe kudziwa za moyo wake ndi kukhazikitsa mipherezeroi kwambiri.

Ena lotayirira njira ya moyo, kuyesera "osangalala" pansi pa botolo kapena zosawerengeka "amorous" zosaiŵalika. Koma iwo kukhala okondwa? Lopanda moyo yekha limakula.

wachabechabe wauzimu zambiri ankaona yomweyo pambuyo akudzuka. Ngati muli ndi banja kuti ayenera kumwedwa kusamalira ndiponso ali munthu kuti chinachake akukankha patsogolo, ndipo ngati ndi ayi? Iye akhoza kuyankhula zokongola, kukambirana nkhani za chipembedzo, koma amapezeka lopanda, makamaka kachidindo iye yekha yekha. Mavuto kuntchito, mikangano banja, matenda kapena mavuto ena akhoza kuswa munthu kuwononga Kusakhazikika dongosolo la makhalidwe , ndi mwa mzimu wa achabe.

Ambiri mwa ife chowakonda chachikulu posankha ntchito - ndalama. Pamene kafukufuku asayansi osati anakwanitsa tikupeza ubale ndalama ndi chimwemwe. Mu nthawi kuchokera 1957 mpaka mu 1990, kuchuluka misinkhu ndalama anati mu United States kawiri. Koma ziwerengero Kafukufuku anasonyeza kuti mlingo wa chimwemwe sichinasinthe, pamene chiwerengero cha maganizo chawonjezeka tenfold. Ife tonse tikudziwa mmene kupulumuka, koma mmene moyo samadziwika ndi anthu ambiri a ife.

Kwa kanthawi, anthu akamagula chingatilimbikitse Taonani kugula galimoto yabwino, nyumba, mudzatha kumasuka ku madera okongola kwambiri a dziko lapansi, ndipo Ine ndidzakhala wokondwa! Man umalandira anakhumba, koma amapeza chimwemwe. Iye anakumana ndi wachabechabe. Munthu umakhala bwino ndi kuchangamuka si anati. Safunira onse masewera atsopano ndi watsopano, akukhala tsiku lonse kuonera TV kapena masewera a pa kompyuta, poganiza kuti abuluke maganizo ogwetsa. Koma kokha chikulimbira. Ena ayamba kuganiza zambiri za chipembedzo, koma utatha iwo yokha kwa kanthawi.

N'chifukwa chiyani zonse zolimba? Zimayambitsa boma angakhale angapo. Mmodzi wa iwo - chosowa patsogolo watanthauzo cholinga m'moyo. Aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi cholinga. Aliyense amene akudziwa "chifukwa" moyo, adzapulumuka aliyense "momwe."

Tsiku lililonse tiyenera kukhala chitukuko: wauzimu, kaonekedwe, nzeru, ndipo izi ndi zofunika kwambiri kuposa kugula zovala zatsopano kapena magalimoto. Mwachitsanzo, wokhulupirira konse kumverera ali yekhayekha mu moyo ndi mtima. Pa nthawi ya "chilala chauzimu" iye aliwonse mu Lemba, monga mvula yamkuntho ndi utawaleza. Kuti ndiwo, wokhulupirira zathandiza wamphamvu, wanzeru kwambiri kusintha tikakumana ndi mavuto ndi mavuto m'moyo. Kupoletsa zoipa mu mtima zabwino, iye amakwaniritsa mu mtima wake chimwemwe ndi chidaliro bwino. Ndi pafupifupi sangathe kuthyoledwa, palibe chochitika moyo.

Luso kuugwira mtima wawo, okha, chitsanzo chawo - ndicho chinsinsi cha chimwemwe.

Lopanda mu moyo - mnzake wokhulupirika wa kusungulumwa kuti tonsefe nthawi zina. Anthu ambiri akuyesa kupewedwa izi mantha kukhala ndekha ndi nokha, ndi maganizo ako, m'maganizo ndi dziko. Ife titembenukira pa TV, wailesi, kuyesera kuganizira ndekha ndi chinachake choti tichite, koma safuna kumva zimene zikuchitika mwa ife.

Koma kodi loopsa kusungulumwa? Ndipo kaya kupewedwa?

Kusungulumwa - njira yabwino kumvetsa nokha.

Chikukanika mu mtima wake - chikhalidwe kumene moyo wang'ambidwa kufunafuna zoona zenizeni za moyo. Ife anayamba kumverera wachabechabe, pamene mulibe kupeza mayankho a mafunso waukulu wa moyo, kapena wotchuka musati kumatikhutiritsa.

munthu ndi ofooka kwambiri ndipo nthawi zambiri Rute wa maganizo a anthu olakwika, kukhala ndi moyo si moyo wake, kuiwala zofuna moyo wake. Achithupithupi zosangalatsa ndi chilakolako kubisala kwa ife choonadi yosavuta. Zimalowera ndi mkangano zosafunika Kusiya kuti moyo weniweni. Ndipo pamene adakhala pa yekha ndi iwo, Willy-nilly, kuganiza za izo.

Mu mphindi kusungulumwa, wachabechabe kunyong'onyeka Nkofunika kufuna kumacheza ndi zosangalatsa, osati zimalepheretsa okha ndi makalasi kanthu, ndipo yesani kuyankha nokha pa nkhani yofunika ya moyo.