Teenage Uchidakwa: bwanji kulimbana nacho?

Teenage uchidakwa ndi vuto wamba Masiku ano. Komabe, makolo ambiri n'komwe kuli matenda ana awo. Malinga ndi kafukufuku, pa zaka 50 zapitazi, magazini ino wakhala makamaka zogwirizana chiwerengero cha ana amene amamwa mowa mwauchidakwa, ndi kukula mofulumira.

Zimayambitsa uchidakwa amakonda kugona mu chilakolako cha mwanayo kwa wamkulu posachedwa. Ndipotu, ana adakali aang'ono akuona mmene akulu kumwa chinachake chapadera sangakhale izo. Mosakayikira akuchita chinthu choletsedwa chipatso, amene amafunika kuyesera. Anzanga mwana amamvera waphindu ngati angathe kumwa bolshespirtnogo. Izi zikachitika, n'zotheka ndi kuti muzindikire kodi mowa kudalira, umene patapita kudzakhala kovuta kwambiri kusiya. Pambuyo zakumwa kenako n'kukhala ndi cholinga limodzi ndi zofunika kwambiri m'moyo.

Nthawi zambiri, achinyamata uchidakwa imayamba ndi mowa mwakuwoneka wosalakwa. Makolo ambiri zimawavuta kwambiri kumwa, choncho amalola ana kuyesa. Koma ayenera kumvetsa kuti uwu uli m'badwo anapanga mfundo ndi maziko abwino a anthu. Pambuyo botolo la mwana mowa akuona zosangalatsa, ndi kuzungulira dziko zikuwoneka zambiri wochezeka. Choncho, mozindikira kuti pokhapokha kumwa moyo amapeza tanthauzo, zimakhala zovuta ndipo wopambana. Koma mfundo zenizeni - ndi banja, achibale ndi anthu okhala, chitukuko munthu. Ndicho mawonedwe muyenera kuphunzitsa ana kuyambira ndili wamng'ono.

Komanso, mu unyamata pali kadinala kusintha mu thupi zimene zimakhudza maganizo ndi makhalidwe a ana. Ambiri imakhudzana ndi makampani zoipa, ndi kusadziwa makolo kuyesera kuiwala bwalo, "okhulupirika" abwenzi ndi mowa kapena kapu ya mowa wamphamvu. Inde, ngati wamng'ono sindikufuna kuti kuganizira zotsatira zake, chifukwa moyo lonse patsogolo. Dziwani kuti matenda ndi oopsa kwa atsikana ngati ali amayi m'tsogolo, ndi mowa chimawononga kuti umoyo wa amayi. Kumwa mowa kumabweretsa kugonana oyambirira kugonana, kawirikawiri mosadziteteza, kenako mimba ndipo chotero mimba. Nthawi zambiri ndi kuchotsa mimbayo ali wamng'ono kumabweretsa osabereka, ndipo akhoza kusintha moyo wanu wonse m'tsogolo. Kuwonjezera kugonana izi chosaneneka ndi kusintha kuja mnzake kungayambitse kudziwika ndi matenda lowopsya - AIDS. Ichi ndi kukumbukira ndi kusamalira mwana mumaikonda ku zochitika zoopsa.

Dziwani kuli mavuto monga achinyamata uchidakwa ndi kovuta. Ndipotu makolo kutha kwa masiku kuntchito, osadziwa kuti pa nthawi ana awo akuchita. Nthawi zambiri achinyamata kuyamba zonse kujomba kusukulu, kupita ku makampani ndi kukhala kwaokha "kumasuka" mothandizidwa ndi mowa. Ndiyeno iwo kulankhula wamwano kapena kwathunthu amakana kulankhula nawo ndi makolo. Ambiri anatsutsika wolakwa pa kusintha m'thupi, koma ndikuganiza ndi ofunika. Ngati muli ndi kukayika kulikonse, kumbukirani kuti muyenera kuchitira uchidakwa nthawi yomweyo, chifukwa nthawi kuti awonetsepo nkhambakamwa sangakhale.

Thandizeni yekha dokotala wodziwa mungathe imeneyi. Akatswiri akudziwa kuti njira ya chithandizo cha achinyamata osiyana ndi anthu akuluakulu, monga ana kupitiriza kukhala ndi matupi awo ali pa siteji zoyambirira. Choncho, mankhwala amphamvu akhoza kuwononga thanzi. Pofuna kuiwala za matendawo muyaya, tiyenera kutembenukira ku chipatala apadera ndi kubatizidwa mu mtima mankhwala, komwe ntchito zovuta zichitike. The yofunika ankaimba ndi zamaganizo monga akhoza kupeza njira yoyenera achinyamata ndi wokhoza kufotokoza momwe kwambiri mavuto cha kumwa mowa pa funde wochezeka.

Kumene, kupambana achinyamata uchidakwa nthawi zina osati pansi mphamvu. Koma chinthu chachikulu - kuti asataye mtima osati mtima. Ngati mwana adzamva thandizo ndi chikondi cha makolo, iye adzasankha njira ina ya moyo - popanda mowa.