Izi si kophweka unyamata

Posakhalitsa kapena kenako makolo onse akukumana ndi mavuto a maphunziro a mwana wake, makamaka pachimake ndi anamvera pamene kupanga kukhalapo kwake anamva unyamata mwana.

Umayamba iyi si nthawi kosavuta kwa pafupifupi zaka khumi akale. Ana pa m'badwo uno kukhala "zachiwawa" komanso muzisowa, kotero ndikofunika kuti athe kuzindikira mavuto a mwanayo ndi kumupeza njira.

Tikumbukenso kuti akatswiri kusiyanitsa unyamata oyambirira, amene ali ndi makhalidwe komanso ndi chizindikiro choyamba makolo kuti mwana wawo ali pa kwa kusasitsa ake. Nthawi imeneyi, mavuto waukulu anati wophunzirayo kuphunzira ndi achinyamata.

Zonse izi analumikiza ndi isanayambike angapo unyamata pakati, ndipo zaka 12-13. Ngakhale kuti bwino akachitika nthawi imeneyi sitingakhoze, chifukwa sikudalira pa zaka kalendala, ndi makhalidwe munthu wa chamoyo ndipo zokhudza nthawi wachinyamata msinkhu.

Thupi la mwana kumachitika kusintha zosaneneka kuyambitsa kusintha thupi thupi. Nthawi imeneyi pali maganizo ndi thupi kuvutika munthu. Akamakula, monga ulamuliro, yodziwika ndi kuchuluka excitability ndi kupsya mtima. Achinyamata mu nthawi ino amakonda maganizo kulongolola kwa okha ndi maonekedwe awo, chifukwa mu adatchithisira kudzidalira.

ana oumirira kukula ndi mabanja awo, kotero khalidwe lililonse zimayambitsa pafupi kukhumudwa awo ndi mkwiyo, chifukwa cha ichi kusagwirizana kukula ndi mikangano pafupipafupi.

Mu achinyamata, pali kutsutsana mkati, zomwe chokhudzana ndi mismatch wa chenicheni ndi dziko mumtima mwake. Iwo likukhalira kuti iye mwathupi wakucha ndi kukhwima ndi udindo wake m'banja ndi sukulu sanasinthe, kotero achinyamata kuyamba nkhondo zawo ndi kufuna kumveredwa, mawu maganizo awo ndi kukhala zofunika kwambiri. Komabe, iwo akuyesera kuti apindule njira zawo, monga Zikuoneka njira woona.

Unyamata anyamata anawonetseredwa mu kwambiri kupulupudza mwanayo. achinyamata ambiri amayamba kusuta, chifukwa ichi ndi chizolowezi wamkulu, malingana ndi iwo, kuwapanga iwo palokha ndi akulu. Pa nthawi yomweyo ndi msinkhu pakubwera chilakolako kuyesa kugonana, makamaka ngati pa mtima wachinyamata anakakhala chikondi choyamba, chomwe nthawi zambiri kwambiri mayeso ovuta kwambiri, ngati osakondwa.

Achinyamata kubwera pamodzi ndi kulenga kampani ndi zofuna zofanana, pa nthawi maguluwa akhonza apasuke, ndipo mwina ndi maziko olimba ubwenzi zina, zovuta kunena pasadakhale. Kumulakalaka mwanayo ndi kusankha kampani kungakhale chinthu china mikangano ndi kusamvana pakati pa iye ndi makolo ake.

Pa nthawi imene unyamata mwanayo akudutsa pachimake, pa mwana anaonekera masewera, kumene iye wapeza kubwereketsa weniweni. Conventionally, masewera izi zikhoza kugawidwa mu mitundu itatu:

- ozindikira ndipo zokongoletsa amakopeka (radiotiehnika, music, mbiri zithunzi, etc.);

- masewera chokhala (kusonkhanitsa ma CD, masitampu, autographs nyenyezi , etc.)

- eccentric (wachinyamata akufuna kuti akope tcheru yekha ndipo amasangalala wamatama kavalidwe, inakwaniritsidwa mumaganiza mafashoni wokonzeka, emo, etc.).

Nthawi imeneyi n'zotheka kusintha asapita ndi mwana ndi kukwaniritsa kumvana. Kulemekeza zofuna ndi zokonda za mwana pa m'badwo uno lilili kumva kufunika ndi ulamuliro m'banja.

Unyamata - uwu si mayeso ophweka, osati kokha kwa mwanayo koma makolo, chifukwa nzeru ndi kulemekeza Atakula yozungulira mwana wa mmene lidzachita okha, ena ndi zolinga tsogolo moyo ndi kuphunzira.