Yemwe ndine Psychology

Yemwe ine ndiri kwenikweni

Funso lakuti "Ndine yani?" Munthu aliyense amadzifunsanso yekha kamodzi kokha m'moyo wake. Chaka chachitatu, pali kufotokozedwa ndi kugonana. Ndine yani - mnyamata kapena mtsikana? Zaka zambiri pa 10-12 tikuyesa kupeza yankho la funso lakuti "Kodi ndine mwana kapena wamkulu, ndikhoza kuchita chiyani?" Ndipo pofika zaka 16 funso lalikulu ndiloti "Ndine yani? Kodi njira yanga ndi iti? ". Ndi nthawi ino imene munthu ali ndi tanthauzo pa mfundo zotsatirazi: 1. Kupeza zogonana; 2. Ntchito zamalonda; 3. Kudzikonda.

Mu psychology, yankho la funso lakuti "Ndine ndani ndi ine" ndilo tanthauzo la lingaliro loti "Ine" -kuphunzira ("Ine" -chipepala, chithunzi cha "I"). Ili ndi dongosolo la kudziyimira kwa munthu payekha, mbali yodzidzimutsa, yosasinthasintha ya umunthu. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti malingaliro ameneŵa paokha okha ndi ochepa ndipo amakhala ndi bata.

Choncho, lingaliro la "I" limatsimikizira osati zomwe munthuyo ali, koma zomwe amalingalira za iyemwini, momwe amawonekera pa mfundo yake yogwira ntchito ndi mwayi wa chitukuko m'tsogolomu.

Mwachizoloŵezi, zidziwitso zamaganizo, zowonongeka ndi zokhudzana ndi khalidwe la "I" mimba zimatulutsidwa.

Gawo la chidziwitso ndilo lingaliro laumwini payekha, chikhazikitso cha makhalidwe omwe iye akuwoneka kuti ali nawo.

Kulingalira ndi momwe munthu amawerengera izi, momwe zimakhudzira nawo.

Makhalidwe ndi momwe munthu amachitira.

Zonse zomwe zanenedwa pamwambapa ndi chiphunzitso. Ndipo momwe amachitira? Dziyeseni nokha tsopano kuti mudziwe nokha - ndine yani?

Mukuyesera izo? Ndipo chinachitika ndi chiani? Ndizinthu zingati zomwe munali mukutanthauzira kwanu nokha? Awiri-atatu? Kapena zambiri? Inde, ndi zovuta ngakhale kwa ine ndekha kunena za ndekha popanda kukonzekera. Zikuwoneka kuti mumamvetsetsa kuti ndi ndani, ndikuti ndiwe wokongola bwanji mwanjira ina. Ndipo monga chirichonse chiri chowonekera ... Kodi ndi zomveka? Ngati simungathe kuyankhula m'mawu?

Tiyeni tikonzekere yankho ili, pochita zochepa (koma osati zosavuta) kuchita. Bwerani ku kukwaniritsidwa kwake mwachidwi, pokhala ndi zongopeka.

Kotero, ife tikupitirira. Gawani pepala losalemba muzitsulo zitatu.

Woyamba adzatchedwa "Ndine yani". Lembani mmenemo maina khumi ndi awiri (15-20) omwe mumadziwika nokha. Mwachitsanzo, munthu, mwamuna, wamagetsi, ndi zina zotero.

Gawo lachiwiri lidzatchedwa "Chimene ine ndiri". Momwemo, lembani ziganizilo khumi zomwe mumadzifotokoza. Mwachitsanzo, wokondwa, wanzeru, ndi zina zotero.

Ndipo gawo lachitatu lidzatchedwa "Kodi njira yanga ndi yanji, kapena cholinga changa". Padzakhala njira zokwanira 5-6. Pano iwe uyenera kulemba zomwe zikutsogolera pamoyo wanu, makonzedwe anu, ndi zina. Mwachitsanzo, chikondi cha moyo, chikhulupiriro mwa Mulungu , ndi zina zotero.

Kenaka, chotsani pa ndime yoyamba 10 malingaliro osasinthika, kuchokera pa yachiwiri - 5, kuchokera pachitatu - 3. Kuchokera m'khola yoyamba, chotsani malingaliro ena asanu osapindulitsa. Kotero, mu ndime yoyamba tidzakhala ndi mawu asanu, muchiwiri - komanso 5, pachitatu - 3

Kuchokera m'mawu otsalira timapanga ziganizo zitatu motere kuti chiganizo chilichonse chiphatikizapo mau a 1-2 kuchokera pazitsulo zoyamba ndi ziwiri ndi njira imodzi kuchokera pachitatu. Ngati chirichonse chiri chabwino ndi tanthawuzo la wekha, ndiye kuti mupeze malemba atatu-motto omwe adzakufotokozerani inu njira zitatu, zomwe: 1. Kugonana; 2. Ntchito zamalonda; 3. Kudzikonda.

Zibwera bwanji? Kodi mumadziwona nokha? Kodi mumakonda nokha? Kapena kodi pali chinachake choti mugwire ntchito? Ndiye mwayi!