"Mkazi uyu," kapena kamodzinso za kuopsa molakwa

Ndi kangati pa moyo ifenso timalimbana ndi olakwika? Inde, pafupifupi tsiku lirilonse, ora. Iwo ali mu malingaliro athu, nzeru zathu, monga mwa unsembe wa khalidwe ndi maganizo - monga ena, ndipo tokha. Kodi tikuphunzira chiyani ana? Bwino mbali zawo. Timauzidwa: "mwamuna weniweni sachita kulira," "mkazi weniweni kudzisamalira, wa m'nyumba ya mwamuna wake, ana" ... ndipo ife tokha pa adakali mu ukapolo wa zithunzi yachilendo.

Kumbukirani kangati chabe atatopa tsiku ndi ntchito, kupanga ntchito koyenera, ndipo komabe kuchita zinthu pafupi. Iwo safuna kudzuka m'mawa, ali m'tulo, kuti aphike chakudya kwa banja lonse, kwa "mkazi weniweni" kotero Kodi ... Tili odzipereka kutenga ngati kuli kotheka, tikufuna zifukwa Nekrasov "asiye kavalo akuthamanga" ndipo pa nthawi yomweyo tiyenera kukhala osalimba ndi chitetezo. Ndipotu, kangati tamva - kuchokera mayi mpongozi, mwamuna wake: weniweni mkazi - wofatsa ndi wachikondi wokhalapo, homemakers, wamuyaya chachikazi, ndi zina zotero, ndi zina zotero ... Ndipo timayamba suffocate mu zoimira yachilendo. Inde, pamaso pa zofunika otsutsana - "kukhala amphamvu" ndi "ofooka", "kuphunzira kuyima pa mapazi okha" ndi "kuvala mwamuna wake" - kugawanika kutsitsimuka. Ichi ndi chabwino kwambiri likuoneka ife gwero lachisokonezo. Mu koipa - kumabweretsa pa unagawanika mabanja mpaka cha uchidakwa wamkazi, ubwenzi pathological. Tiyeni tione zinthu za akazi masiku ano anthu ambiri bwinobwino. Osachepera titayesa.

Ngati ngakhale 100-150 zaka zapitazo, chinthu chachikulu chinali maphunziro a ana ndi ntchito yokonza nyumba, koma tsopano udindo umene anthu amaika pa akazi, utachepa. M'malo mwake. Pakuti tsopano iye azichita, nanga "mkazi weniweni" sayenera anakonzekeretsa, ophunzira, mwaukadaulo ophunzitsidwa palokha. Nanga bwanji m'banja? kangati pakhala zoikamo nkhondo? Mosalekeza ... Mwachitsanzo, imeneyi banja la makolo anaona maphunziro ndi ntchito. "Mkazi uyu," sankhani changa, kuti dipuloma, kutsata sayansi. Ndipo mu banja mwamuna wake, pa mwake, apongozi ntchito njira zosiyanasiyana m'moyo. Kwa iye "mkazi weniweni" - ndiye amene ali mwana amatipatsa zosowa zake zonse, pamene kuiwala za nokha. Kodi n'chiyani chikuchitikira psyche, ngati munthu afika mu mkhalidwe wa totere dissonance chidziwitso? Chikakusowani. Ndipo mkazi sangathe kumvetsa zimene kwenikweni ankayembekezera achibale ake. Ndipo mmene osagwirizana ndi chiweruzo chilengedwe kungakhale - kuntchito, mu bwalo, ku sukulu ya mkaka, pamene ife kuyendetsa ana ... Ngati timaopa maofesi awo ndi mavuto, chophweka njira - kuwapeza ena ndi kutsutsa. "Kodi mayi", "inu mukuona mmene mongokhala," "iye amangokhala kunyumba," kapena "si ntchito ndi maganizo" - monga zambiri timamva miseche yoteroyo ...

Timatengera olakwika anthu ena mosadziwa, Subconsciously. Koma ngati ife ndife wokhoza kuyang'ana nokha, mukudziwa moyo wanu - tikuzindikira kuti chikugwirizana maganizo athu ngati ife sitili a ufulu wa blinders pa maso. Ndipo ngati tikadali amakonda kwambiri za moyo, kufunafuna kudziletsa kuzindikira, tidzatha kuchotsa iwo. Ndipo kumvetsa kuti kwenikweni mkazi weniweni - ndi amene amadziwa sangalalani ndi ufulu. Ndipo sayenera iliyonse kwa munthu aliyense. Iye anadza ku dziko lino kuti moyo wanu - wapadera - moyo. Ndipo musakhale "wangwiro awiri", "zabwino mayi", "womvera mwana wamkazi" .... pozindikira kokha ichi, tingaphunzire kuvomera nokha - motero ena - monga ife kapena ali.