Mawu a anthu zokhudza chikondi - mawu kuti inu kuganiza

Mawu a anthu zokhudza chikondi - chinachake mantha ndi bwino mumadabwa. Kodi mutu angakhale ambiri? Ndipotu, ngakhale momwemo ... Mutu wa chikondi - kosatha. Timanena za izo zaka mazana asanu zapitazo, m'zaka otsiriza, lero. Ndipo adzapitiriza kulankhula.

Makhalidwe koposa china

Si chinsinsi chimene zambiri akalambula athu akhala odzipereka akatswiri makhalidwe ndi ulemu. Ndi maganizo omwewo anali wamkulu Anton Pavlovich Chehov. Iye anati kufunika kukwatira chikondi. More ndendende ayi - si koyenera, koma chidwi. Iye ananena kuti akwatire mtsikana chifukwa cha maonekedwe ake - ndiyo njira yomweyo, ngati inu kugula pa msika chinachake zosafunika, koma wokongola. Zimakupangitsani inu ndikudabwa. Ndipo, zikuoneka, vuto la ziyenera anthu maonekedwe ake panali masiku amenewo. Ndi palibe chinsinsi kuti chinthu choyamba kulabadira maonekedwe, koma mfundo zimene anthu kwambiri chikondi kutikumbutsa kuti, kuwonjezera pa maso, muyenera ndi kudalira maganizo ndi dziko lamkati. Ndi khalidwe la munthu wanzeru ndi wamasomphenya.

Ponena za mawu anzeru a anthu zokhudza chikondi, tisaiwale kwambiri mawu Ioanna Zlatousta. Iye ananena kuti chivundi si. Iwo ubwera yekha ku kupanda chikondi. Ichi ndi choonadi. Inde, pamaso pa kumverera uku mkulu makhalidwe oipa alibe mtima wofuna.

Kusagwirizana ndi chikondi unrequited

Quotes ndi mawu a anthu aakulu chikondi osati kuuzira ndi kuwalimbikitsa. Pali mawu zambiri zimenezi, zomwe Zikubisa choonadi chisoni. Mwachitsanzo, Shevelev ananena kuti kwa anthu ena banja pobisalira mavuto, koma kwa ena - ndi zamasewero ku nkhondo. Mwatsoka, izo ziri. Anthu ena kuthamangira kunyumba mwamsanga akukumbatirana mkazi wake wokondedwa, pamene ena yochulukirapo yaitali kuntchito kapena zitsulo, koma si munthuyo, moyo umene uli chabe kosati, ndi zonse mawu ake - kukangana.

Dostoevsky, nayenso, anati chinthu chimodzi chabwino: "Tiye chikondi - chikondi sizikutanthauza mukhoza kugwa m'chikondi ... ndi kudana." Musaphwanye ndikuganiza yaitali kuzindikira - tikulankhula maganizo sanali reciprocal. Nthawi zambiri za iwo kulemba mawu za chikondi. Mawu, ogwidwa, mawu kuwerenga pa sanali reciprocity, zimakhudza pafupifupi aliyense. Ndipotu, pafupifupi onse amadziwa kuti ali ndi chikondi unrequited. Ndipo champhamvu koposa kotero kuti mungathe kuyamba kudana ndi mtima wanga wonse chinthu chilakolako chake. Dostoevsky ankadziwa za izo ndi ndinamverera chinachake ofanana.

Chikondi - mankhwala

Great Nietzsche ndinaganiza za apamwamba mu njila yabwino. Si mawu onse a amuna lalikuklu la chikondi inali yowala kwambiri. Iye anati: "Pali njira ziwiri zokha kuchotsa mavuto mwina imfa ya msanga kapena chikondi mpaka kalekale.". Ndipo Nietzsche - si yekhayo amene amaganiza choncho. Osati kanthu chifukwa pali mawu - ". Paradaiso lokoma, ndi mu hema" Pamene munthu amamva ofunika ndi okondedwa, ndi kumverera kuti ndicho, ili bwino kanthu. Inde vuto ndi mavuto pafupifupi imperceptible opanda pake. Kapena iwo kukhala kosavuta kutenga.

Padziko tanthauzo lofanana ndi ophatikizidwa mu mawu kumachitika mu mwambi wa m'Baibulo: "Ndi bwino chakudya zitsamba ndi chikondi ndi izo, kuposa ng'ombe ndayima kaye ndi udani."

Kodi amakhala ndi moyo kosatha

mawu otchuka a anthu wamkulu wa chikondi akayikire, chikhulupiriro, kukhumudwa, iwo angalimbikitsidwe ndi kupeza mayankho a mafunso. Short koma amphamvu m'lingaliro oti akhoza kusintha dziko. Nditawerenga zina, munthu kudabwa - koma ndi zoona! Kotero basi ... wolemba Viktor Krotov a mawu otsatirawa: "Chikondi - ndi Msonkhano wa moyo." Ichi ndi choonadi. Ife tonse tikudziwa izo, koma mwa njira nkomwe aliyense akhoza kupanga ake m'mbuyomu. Ndipo limakhulupirira Gorky ananena kuti chikondi - ndi wofuna kukhala ndi moyo. Ndipo, aponso, iye anali kulondola. Inde, ngakhale mu mtima wa munthu pali kumverera (chinthu chachikulu - mwagwirizana), ndi chifukwa chomwe - kapena kani, amene alipo.

Ponena za mawu a anthu zokhudza chikondi, tisaiwale chidwi akuti: "Goni chikondi ngakhale pakhomo, iye kuwuluka pawindo." Adzaupereka Prutkov - ndi pseudonym umene lofalitsidwa Alexey Tolstoy, abale atatu ndi Alexander Zhemchuzhnikov Ammosov. Sizikudziwika ndendende amene ananena izo, koma amagwira anali m'magazini yotchedwa "Contemporary", wathuwu m'zaka 19. Koma akuti izo zonse nzabwino. Kodi anthu amasiya chikondi, ziribe kanthu momwe iye ankafuna kugwa m'chikondi, kutaya m'mutu Wake, anavutika (ambiri mantha chifukwa cha zimene mupewe mphamvu mkulu) - lidzatero m'njira iliyonse, popanda kupempha. Monga mwa buluu, pamene inu m'pang'ono izo. Ndipo ili liyenera kuchita kanthu.