Kodi yosungira chikondi kwa zaka zambiri?

Kodi yosungira chikondi? Kodi munayamba mwaganizapo za funso ili pachiyambi penipeni pa ubwenzi, pamene mphindi iliyonse, aliyense chachiwiri anafuna kukhala pafupi ndi mzake, pamene aliyense ganizo anali kokha pafupi amuthandize? Kodi kusunga chikondi mu mgwirizano ndi kaya ndi ofunika kuganiza za izo? Iwo ali odzipereka kwa nkhani yathu.

Chikondi Zikuoneka wosatha pachiyambi. Inu kuchita chirichonse, kuyesera kuti muyandikire kwa mzake, yesani kukwatiwa mwamsanga kudzuka m'mawa uliwonse pamodzi. Komabe, nthawi, pali kusadalira, omasukirana Mwamsanga, chikondi Mwamsanga ... Ndipo kamodzi ankaganiza kuti chopinga chofunika kwambiri kumbuyo kwathu, ndipo ndi ukwati, chirichonse adzagwera malo. Ndipo kwenikweni, nthawi likukhalira kuti mayesero kuyamba pambuyo. Kukhala ndi mwana, kusagona kusadalira, chopereka choyamba ... Onse awa, indedi, ndi chiyeso mphamvu ya chikondi. Ndipo nthawi likukhalira kuti amagwirizana kwambiri kuposa wokondedwa. Choncho, ngati inu mulibe mpaka Chrixitu, anayamba nkhondo chikondi chawo.

Kulakwitsa koyamba kwambiri yopita ku lingaliro la momwe chikondi, ndipo ambiri vuto wonse, ndi kuti anthu asangalale atakwatirana, ndikuganiza kuti chikondi tidzakhalabe ubwenzi yokha. Ndipotu funso la mmene chikondi cha munthu ndi kumupanga iye, amakhala okhudzidwa zaka ziwiri kapena zitatu atakwatirana.

Kodi waona banja losangalala, limene kwa zaka khumi? Musawafulumizitse nsanje, chifukwa iwo zapita zambiri mayesero, kuphatikizapo amene banja lanu akudutsa. Koma mmodzi wa iwo, ndipo mwina onse awiri anatha mu nthawi kuzindikira kuti zofuna chikondi kutetezedwa, aphunzira mmene chikondi pa ubwenzi. Banja Ndipotu ndi ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku amafunika kukhala osamala ndi khama.

Kodi kupulumutsa chikondi cha munthu, kodi kuchita kuti anayamba kuyang'ana mmodzi kumbali? Kumbukirani chiyambi cha ubale wanu pamene inu munali wamphamvu pafupi Anamupatsanso kumukumbatira, chikondi ndi chisamaliro. Ndipotu, inu mulandire chimodzimodzi kubwerera? Ndipo ndinaganiza za mmene chikondi, zonse kunapezeka palokha. Ndipotu, ngati inu kuwerenga malingaliro a wina ndi mzake, kugawana maganizo kwambiri. Ndiyeno chifukwa cha kuchepa kwa nthawi, chifukwa cha ana kapena nkhawa tsiku mkazi ikutha kulabadira kwa mwamuna wake. Yesani kupeza nthawi kuitana tsiku ndi kuwafunsa mmene zinthu anali kupita naye. Kapena kuphika iye khofi mu bedi, iye ndithudi zabwino. Mwachibadwa, ubale sudzakhalanso monga kale, koma ngati munthu akuona kuti iye ndi wokondedwa inu, ndiye funso la mmene chikondi ndicho kusiya kufunika kwake.

Yesani sindicho mwambo wa banja lanu. Mwachitsanzo, filimu madzulo, kukumbatirana pakama, m'mawa chakudya kapena kumwa khofi pamodzi, pocheza kumapeto kwa sabata. Komabe, kumbukirani kuti nthawi zina muyenera mpumulo Chrixitu. Zofunika kwambiri ndi mmene chikondi ndi mkazi kuti nthawi zina kupeza nthawi kwa inu nokha. Yesani kamodzi pa sabata amakakumana ndi anzawo, adzagona ndi makolo awo, kugula, etc. Makamaka malangizo awa kwa akazi, chifukwa nthawi zambiri, kuyesera kuti nyumba zonse anali angwiro, iwo anasiya ntchito, dziperekeni okha banja ndipo m'kupita asiye "Ine". Munthu amene woterewu, mulimonse mmene kukondedwa, kumakhaladi wotopetsa ndipo uninteresting. Kotero yesetsani kupanga chidwi mwamuna wake inu sanataye. Khalani wotakataka, musati zilolere chifukwa cha banja, kupita ku ntchito. Moyo pang'ono ndi nokha!

Khalani mzake, yesetsani kupereka mzake kwambiri tcheru, chikondi. M'malo kuthera nthawi kutsogolo kwa TV, kulankhula ndi mzake za mmene anakhala kutali. Yesani limodzi kuthetsa mavuto zing'onozing'ono za tsiku ndi tsiku ngakhale. Yesetsani chikondi, osati kukhala banja, kumene mkazi basi kupirira kuli mzake. Zabwino zonse mu ntchito yamphamvu ndi kuleza mtima!