Kunyada ndi Tsankho: njira opusa moyo

Izo si dzina ntchito zabwino English mabuku. mutuwu ndi matenda a anthu, ndi matenda amenewa ndi mbali ndi mbali, kukhala zosayembekezereka kawirikawiri anthu athu. Nthawi zambiri, ngakhale pa siteji ya chibwenzi, tikufuna mpanda okha ku munthuyo. Kunyada ndi Tsankho kuphunzitsidwa ndi anthu ndi kaonedwe anapanga. Komabe, kaya anthu amakhala osangalala ngati kupita ndi otaya ndipo umakhala ndi zambiri snobbish?

Choyamba, tiyeni tikambirane za kunyada zomwe. Kunyada sikunapite pachabe ankaona kuti choopsa wachivundi tchimo. Chifukwa iye ali mwa magawo atatu a angelo kutsogoleredwa ndi Lusifara kukhala zolengedwa wowopsa? Osati chifukwa iwo ankakonda okha, kudzikonda chikondi chachibadwidwe ndi zachilendo kwa zolengedwa zonse. zoona zake n'zakuti iwo anasiya chifukwa Mulungu. Mulungu anali apamwamba mlingo zolemba. Ndiko kuti, napereka 'kuyang'anitsitsa review ". Ndipo iwo sakanakhoza kuchita makhalidwe oipa a.

Tangoyeserani inu mumuwona munthu amene amabwera mu dongosolo Mwachitsanzo, ntchito gulu ndi moonekera akulengeza kuti ali wanzeru, bwana wa Iye 'nyali, "ndipo malamulo ambiri sanalembedwe. nthawi yaitali bwanji adzakhala mu dongosolo? Ayi, dongosolo adzataya izo, kuti ntchito kale kapena pambuyo kuchotsedwa. Mfundo si kuti iye amayamikira chakuti iye sayamikira ubale pakati pa zinthu za dongosolo. Izi yopapatiza kupanda tsankho ndi gordost- kunyada.

Tsankho - aulesi kwambiri ndikuganiza, ngati chitetezo zambiri. Komabe, ngati mfundo samabwera ku mlingo woyenerera, munthu sangathe kusankha bwino zochita ndi adzitsitsa. Choncho amanyoza anthu amene amadzipatula. Kumbukirani "munthu mlanduwo." Kudzitukumula ndi kusankhana kuwononga moyo wa ophunzira ndi zambiri munthu positive.

Inde, zitsanzo moyo kudutsa osiyanasiyana. Kunyada amadzibisa pansi masks osiyana. Books akuyesetsa kukhala ndi makhalidwe monga "kunyada mkazi" Zikuoneka kuti tikulankhula za kudzidalira. Ndiko kuti, phindu. Koma munthu sangathe mokwanila imawunikidwa kudziwa mtengo anthu kwa munthu anapatsidwa kapena anthu angakhoze kokha munthu wina kapena kampani imene ziyenera wapangidwa. Ngati tikukhulupirira kuti kufunika saganizira kuyang'ana kwa amuna kapena akazi ena kapena kusintha anthu, izo kusintha kudzidalira ndi omasuka. Ngati mkazi alibe mwayi kukwatiwa, koma linatha ake kuti akhale oipa, iwe uyenera kutaya kuzikonda ndi kuyesa kupulumutsa banja lake.

Tsankho - ziri monga crutch, amene anazolowera kudalira. Aliyense kukhazikitsa adya kotero kwambiri kuti si kuwunikira, kenako adalenga ngati amamva fyuluta. Iye salola mokwanira ndi bwino kupenda dziko, ife mukhoza Pre-kukhala amakonda kuona anthu osaphunzira ndi zoipa nthawi yomweyo, maganizo kudwala - oopsa, ndi amayi - apamwamba. Ndi chabe ya olakwika otchuka. Only atalandira zinachitikira anyamata, munthu wayamba mwadzidzidzi anayamba kuona bwino ndi asinthe maganizo awo.

Kunyada ndi Tsankho kwambiri kapena zochepa wamba onse, ndipo sikudalira chuma chawo. Ndipo pakati pa anthu a magulu apamwamba makhalidwe amenewa, mosiyana ndi zimene anthu ambiri amaganiza, osati kwambiri. Makamaka anthu wamba amene utakwaniritsa kwambiri paokha. Sakanakwanitsa kuchita zinthu modzikuza, kuti n'kupanda nzeru. Choncho, kudzitukumula ndi kusankhana pakati pawo n'zochepa. Koma anthu okhala nyumba limodzi lingakhale tione mwapadera pa tokha ndi dziko, kunyada kwake - ndi chifukwa iwo sangathe kufika pamodzi.

Mu English, pali mwambi chidwi, kwenikweni, kunyada akubwera patsogolo kugwa. N'chifukwa chiyani onse onyada amalangidwa? Inde, iyi si nthawi zonse mavuto a moyo, izo zimachitika, mosimidwa ichi kapena kusungulumwa. mfundo ndi yakuti kunyalanyaza dongosolo wapamwamba itha zoipa, ndi chilamulo, osati wa dziko cholinga, koma za anthu. Pasanapite nthawi yaitali, zinachitikira zonse zomvetsa chisoni limaphunzitsa kuti ubwenzi anthu ndi machitidwe kunyalanyaza zoopsa zathu. Ndipo onyada kale mtendere yaitali maganizo, pozindikira, potsiriza, kuti kudzitukumula ndi kusankhana - matenda a mzimu ndi malingaliro. Iwo salola kuti tikakumane, kuphunzira ndi chikondi.