N'chifukwa chiyani Ine alibe chibwenzi ndi chochita kuti zizioneka?

Vuto la kusungulumwa ndi zogwirizana kwambiri kwa anthu amakono. Onse tikufuna Mokhumbira, kawirikawiri m'madera angapo moyo. Timanyamula moyo wauzimu chidwi kwambiri ndi wolemera, koma apo pakubwera nthawi, ndipo inu mukuzindikira kuti awiriawiri onse, ndi inu mwanjira sizinatero. Ndiyeno mukumva theka anadabwa manyazi - chifukwa sindikuzifuna ali ndi chibwenzi, Ine ndine wabwino? Tiyeni yesetsani kuthetsa vutolo.

Kodi pali kuti omuzungulira madona mwayi?

Ngati ndinu wotsimikiza kuti vuto ndi chikhalidwe ndi khalidwe inu simutero, kuyesera rationally kuunikira moyo wawo. kangati muli m'madera mukhoza kukumana ndi kucheza ndi anyamata kapena atsikana? Kapena nthawi yanu ufulu kuchita mumathera kokha "mwamuna" zofuna ndi inu sangathe nthawi yoti iye akudziweni? Nthawi zina yankho la funso "N'chifukwa sindikuzifuna ndi chibwenzi" banal: inu nthawi ndi malo kukumana ndi kulankhula. Kuthandiza mu zoterezi mungathe Intaneti. Kapena Lowani ulamuliro: kamodzi pa sabata kutuluka kwa madansi, mu cafe kapena kwinakwake kumene mukhoza kukumana mnzake moyo. Pafupipafupi komanso zochitika komwe wachinyamata ali ndi zofuna kwambiri. Ndipo basi osati zindikirani yonyansa, mu maganizo ake, sikokwanira kapena atsikana anzeru. Kumbukirani, inu wina anasonyeza mwapadera posachedwapa? Ngati mukukana dona akutiakuti, n'zosadabwitsa kuti, kuti anaona kukuchititsa zimenezi, atsikanawo posachedwapa apitirira Kukhala proactive poyerekezera ndi inu.

Mwina ine kuti chinachake cholakwika?

"Ngati Ndilibe atsikana zokwanira kwa nthawi yaitali, mwina kwa ine kuti chinachake cholakwika?" Zomveka kuganiza. Ambiri analakwitsa anyamata lero - kulephera kulankhula ndi kupanga chidwi atsikana. Wina mu nkhani atsikana wataika ndipo wayamba kubala zamkhutu wathunthu, pamene ena M'malo mwake, iwo akufuna kuti ngati "mwankhanza" ndipo kanikizirani. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri - kukhala zachilengedwe ndi omasuka, chidwi kulankhula. Tsatirani mumaganiza mafashoni, kuphunzira kusunga kukambirana ndi mitu yosiyanasiyana. Ndiyeno inu simudzakhala nawo kuti: "N'chifukwa chiyani sindikuzifuna ndi chibwenzi"

Kusungulumwa - nthawi chitukuko

Ambiri mwa atsikana masiku ano ophunzira ndi nzeru zokwanira amaopa anthu anyamata amene ku mphindi zoyamba za kulankhulana ayamba kulankhula za ubwenzi. Anthu ena amalemekeza ufulu, ena, ngakhale akudwala kusungulumwa, koma sindikukhulupirira basi malonjezo aliyense pambuyo anzawo. Pa msonkhano woyamba mwachilungamo ponena mthupi mwawo - inde, ndilibe mtsikana. Koma musandiwuze mnzanga mochuluka bwanji mukufuna kupeza izo. Yesani kulankhula ndi salabadira chilichonse mtsikana amene satsutsana pamodzi kwinakwake kupita kapena kulankhula ngati angathe theka lachiwiri. Tiyeni ubale kukhala mwachilengedwe, chifukwa choyamba muyenera kudziwa kwambiri za mnzake, kupeza zinthu wamba. Ndipo mwina posachedwa kudzakhala mumtima, ndipo sakufuna kuti tiziwononga nthawi yanga munthu wina kuposa inu. Ngakhale kufufuza yogwira, inu nthawi yokwanira kuti adzakhale mosangalala, amaona ndi kuphunzira ndi kudzikonda kusintha. Tiyeni tipite kukhumbitsa kwanu obsessive kuti wophatikizidwa ndi munthu, ndipo posakhalitsa zonse zidzachitika mwa wokha, ndipo udzatha kusamalira za funso lakuti: "N'chifukwa chiyani sindikuzifuna ndi chibwenzi"