Kulowa nyumba pa tsiku loyamba la woyendera nthambi?

Sikuti kusiya m'ndende, aliyense akhoza kukhala kumeneko kwa maola ochepa, masiku kapena miyezi, tiyeni iwo, ndi kuyan'anila zazing'ono. Kulowa m'ndende - nthawi zovuta munthu wosadziwa, chifukwa miyambo ndi chikhalidwe akaidi ndi osiyana mwachizolowezi. Koma nkhawa yoyamba ndi yachiwiri motere: kulowa kanyumba mu woyendera nthambi, kuti kusokoneza kuona nokha tsiku loyamba? Zone - malo simukhululukira musanyalanyaze, ndipo bakhalani komweko akhoza kuvutika molakwa mawu kapena kanthu zosayenera. Choncho, woyambitsa sizingatiletse ena kudziwa mmene kulowa kanyumba mu woyendera nthambi. Tsiku loyamba mu ndende, m'ndende kulembetsa - kuti kugwirizana woyamba zochitika zonse wotsatira. Zimene simuyenera kuchita kapena kunena kuti akagona ndi akaidi zitayenda bwino?

Khalidwe Wolakwayo aumbike kuyambira mphindi pamene ndi loya wake, zikuonekeratu, zimene yomwe inakonzedwa chipinda chisanadze mayesero. Anthu ochepa amene amakomana naye iye - "achinyamata", "anaumitsa zigawenga" - kosavuta ndi. Kutchinjiriza zimasonyezanso payekha mtheradi, kodi zina n'kotheka kukambirana ndi Ofufuza lapansi.

Pakhomo ndi moni

Musanayambe kulowa m'nyumba mu woyendera nthambi, m'pofunika kukumbukira kuti za mukudziwa kale pafupifupi chilichonse, kapena msanga fufuzani ndi kudzionetsera momveka bwino, komanso kuwonjezera choonadi chilichonse zosayenera. Quality zofunikira kuti zidzafunika - ndi maluso, ulemu, kudzidalira. Choyamba muyenera maphunziro pulayimale: pakhomo moni anthu. Koma ngati inu adzakhala "zasiyidwa" mwa akaidi, kukhala pafupi ndi iwo mu mawu anthu kulumikizana chiwerengero chawo. Kuti ndi "moni dziko" sizigwira ntchito. Mpofunika zosankha zabwino moni: "Ine moni anthu", "kucheza". Fotokozani andende, "anthu" - osati mawu oyenera kutsindika malire pakati pa Yofuna Ufulu Wodzilamulira ananyozedwa ndi mutu aulemu, kunathandiza fufuzani udindo wa "munthu" analowa. Dzanja ndi pervohodom si kunena moni, sizinathe anatsimikizira ake "chiyero."

Article, kuphunzira, dzina

Anaponyedwa pa mapazi a chopukutira, poganiza za chowunikira kudzidalira - si mapeto a chikondi, ndiye zogwirizana funso lomwelo onse: momwe angalowere mu nyumba woyendera nthambi, popanda kukopa tcheru zilakolako zoipa? "Kodi ine atsoka?" "Kodi anali?" - mafunso awa ndi kuyankha anafika Nkhani chiwerengero, popanda kubisa zililidi, ngakhale kusalakwa lapansi. Funso: "Kodi iwe ndiwe ndani?" kapadera mayankho - "Kunkapezekanso" - mphamvu kukhala kumbuyo mipiringidzo nthawi yoyamba, "munthu" - munthu amene alibe "oversights" kuthengo, kapena - ". waponya munthu" Inu sayenera kupita kwa akuoneka bunks ufulu. Pakuti pervohodtsev zambiri kukhala mabedi, yomwe ili mu ngodya. Phindu angaitanidwe ku gome (wamba ndalama), kumwa tiyi, ndi adamfunsanso kuuza mwatsatanetsatane, zomwe ndi amene waweruzidwa. Ngati inu sanalowe mu chokuchitikirani, ndi bwino kunena kotero - anakumana Mulimonsemo, kuwerengera zomwenso chanu choona. Kusadziwa malamulo a moyo mu khungu, ayenera ananena za izo, monga, ndi kuti litsatidwe awo ndi chilolezo lofotokoza. Ndi bwino chete za udindo ndalama kapena kulenga kuganiza kwa munthu wosauka zolimbitsa.

Dzina - kufunika amene mukhoza kusankha pa nzeru zawo, kapena kumene ake anthu monga mbali ndi khalidwe mkaidiyo. novice akhoza kuvomereza kapena kukana nicknames achipongwe adayankha "sizimadya" kapena mosinthanitsa, "njira".

Kawirikawiri kuyang'ana anafuulira malamulo mumtima, kuphwanya chimene kulangidwa makamaka kwambiri. "Ndimenyeni," ndipo kwenikweni mawu, m'pamenenso woyambitsa, ndi lophweka. Ngati muyenera kukumanizana mkwiyo gulu, kutuluka mu gaffes chikomokere, ngati njira ochiritsira ndithu, akaidi amakakamizidwa kuchita "kulenga njira" kupulumuka, ndi vutoli lithe.

"Non-chikhalidwe" njira

1. Kuti ndilengeze njala kuponya ndi nkhani ya loya ndi kusaina kulengeza kwa mabwana kuti, kuyambira wozenga ikuyang'anira kapena kuposerapo.

2. Funsani ankati bwino wapezeka matenda monga matenda amtima inatsekeratu, kapena ngati, zomwe zingathandize kupita kuyang'aniridwa ndi dokotala, ndipo nthawi zina kupereka mwayi yomenyera. Koma nkhani ya kupikisana ndi anthu odziwa, ponamizira matenda achilendo, si koyenera: kukhudzana mwina zodula.

3. Palinso njira kumene mkaidi Mwamseri imatiuza wapolisiyo za kukayikirana wake kuti cellmate analozera cholinga mwapang'onopang'ono pa ulemu wake, ndi kuti kufuna chitetezo zingayambitse thupi zoipa oskrobitelyu. Nthawi zambiri chosankha kuika newcomer yandekha. 4. Ndi bwino kuti akakhale mu chipinda, kumene ophwanya adzakhala nawo nyumba, amene nkhani Usawasimbire kuti makamaka manda - achifwamba avariyschiki. Ndiyeno vuto mmene kulowa m'nyumba, okhala m'deralo, monga, m'posavuta kuti tikhalebe sinadzatengedwe ndi achibale. Koma kuti kuchititsa wa kulibe populata selo, osachepera, n'kofunika kuti tikhalebe kulemekeza opera, ndi Woyang'anira ovomerezeka.

5. Nthawi zina, anakwanitsa kulipira kwa zinkafuna kukhala mu chipinda wamba.

6. "kulembetsa" angapewe okalamba, odwala, amene amanena pakhomo, amene anayenda kulipira "mu thumba la ndalama" ndi ntchito momwe izo ziyenera kukhalira.

ndi "zogona" n'chiyani?

Ngati kamera ndi zigawenga sanathe kuzipewa, kukhala "kulembetsa" ndi kukhala pa zinthu zinazi.

Poyamba, palibe kukhazikitsidwa kuvutitsa woyamba, koma palibe amene akudziwa zimene mtundu wa munthu ali kutumikira m'ndende, kulankhulana ndi kugwirizana kwa nthawi yaitali. Choncho, yokhala yogona - mayeso mawonekedwe a mafunso zosamvetsetseka monga momwe mwamsanga kuphunzira cellmate, kumvetsa zimene ubale woyenera kupatsidwa okha.

"Mumakhalako amalola" anakhala ngati mwambo wina akatiputa kutenga mithunzi osiyana. Choncho, woyambitsa ndi sadziwa zingathandize kudziŵa kulowa kanyumba mu woyendera nthambi. Tsiku loyamba m'dera ukusonyeza akamanena za munthu ndi mosasintha wavala iye manyazi, ngakhale cholinga kulembetsa - kufufuza, ndi woipa kuchititsa. Yankho mungachite woona yekha, palibe bodza pamene wapezeka sadzakhululukidwa.

Nthawi zambiri, muyenera kupanga kusankha yachiwiriyo unwinnable, koma yankho kuti amapewa makhalidwe zina kukhala okhutira. Ayamikira mmene kulowa bwino ku nyumba woyendera nthambi, yafupika ndi kuuma prinitsipakh ndi ambiguity mayankho imene Komabe, kunena njira aumunthu.

mafunso zotenga newcomer

1. Funsani kusankha mmodzi wa munda domino: pamwamba asanu kapena asanu. Pa gawo la akaidi ZISANU zogwirizana ndi munthu ayanjane ndi Six - wamiseche. Koma ngati yankho limene anasankha "hyphen" pakati pa minda, mayankho kwenikweni si zoopsa. Ophiphiritsa mwa mfundo izi zinthu zina amapha, monga "mwachisawawa" kusakhulupirirka monga malo yekha pamwamba asanu akwanira, kapena ntchito chinthu kuti woyamba angabwerenso chimandipweteka n'zongochedwetsana angathe.

2. mafunso The zotenga limodzi ndi zochitika zimene zimafunika mayankho yomweyo ndilipo, zikhoza kuwoneka ngati izi: "Ngati nyanja lamanja ndi lamanzere - nkhalango kuti adzasankha, ukutsika ndi parachuti?". Pakuti kusankha kulikonse kudikira imfa, koma zokolola - mu Baibulo kukonzedwa: "M'zonse nkhalango pali kudula, ndi m'nyanja - chilumba", ndi zina zotero.

3. Mafunso kufaniziritsa yankho categorical: "Kodi inu muchita ngati zinthu wosimidwa ayenera kukhala mayi kugulitsa kapena alola?". Yankho: "Mayi anga si zogulitsa, ndiponso (ngati otchulidwa) a mbali thupi osati mmalo."

Ngati "kulembetsa" ali sichimaperekedwa

Kuti kusinthitsa zogona mwayi kubwereza izo kachiwiri, motsutsana ndi "adatchithisira", m'munsili cholinga cha miyambo ndi mawu, kawirikawiri ndi kuthira ndowa. Ngati kulembetsa anali sanaupereke, newcomer mphamvu kupereka kulowa "zisanu" kapena "zisanu ndi chimodzi". Zimenezi zikhoza kupewedwa, kupepesa, kupereka monga njira ina m'malo malipiro kapena kuwatsekela.

Ena sindimakonda zigawenga m'ndende

Asanalowe m'nyumba Kudera kukonzekera chakuti ndende si lofanana ogwiririra, molesters mwana, amuna.

Ngati adzakhala wodziwika kuti mkaidi adzaperekedwa ndi mnzake, chifukwa iwo anali mu ndende, yomwe iye sanaiwale kudziwa chiŵerengero yoyenera.

Sovran angaletse, ndipo ngati Pop onyenga, izo likukhalira kuti mkaidi anali chete za a "adatchithisira" atakhala ndi akaidi anzawo ndi maulamuliro pa tebulo Komabe, sakhululuka.

Zimene muyenera kupewa

1. Popanda kudziwa malamulo si kofunika mwachimbulimbuli kwenikweni kumvetsa mfundo iliyonse Mwachitsanzo, kusewera makhadi "chifukwa chabe": mungapeze woona mtengo m'dera la mawu akuti, ndiyeno - kwa chatsopanochi ngongole.
2. Pali mawu enieni, ndipo iwo ayenera kudziwa asanaloŵe chilindo cha zone Mwachitsanzo, mmalo mwa "kodi n'zotheka kufunsa" ndinene "akhoza ndifunse", "kufunsa" - pakati pa andende ndi mthunzi wa kufunika ndi udindo.
3. Ndi bwino kupewa kulumbira mawu, Kutentha zinkakhalira kale maganizo katundu, iwo akhoza kutanthauziridwa ambiguously ndi onse afunika kuyankha. Lonjezo "kuti ..." imatengedwa ndi chipongwe lalikulu limene limathandiza kuti nkhanza. mnyozo wa munthu yoletsedwa, ndi nkhanza ku ndende kungakudyereni moyo.
4. Iwo ali osavomerezeka kulengeza minofu ndi luso nkhondowo - zonsezi ndi zonyozeka ndi dera akaidi.
5. Sikutheka kusonyeza kuti ankadana zinthu onse amoyo - mata pansi ndi asasokonezeke, kusokoneza mpweya, ndi zina, kodi kumenyedwa.
6. Musakhudze zinthu anthu ena, chifukwa angapemphedwenso.
7. Asanalowe chilindo cha woyendera nthambi, ndipo zitatha izi, simungakhoze kuchita popanda mfundo zikuluzikulu za ukhondo. Inu simungakhoze kunyalanyaza ukhondo, chimene chimadalira khalidwe la miyoyo ya akaidi ena. Mutu nsabwe - mliri wa mabungwe amenewa, ndi amene wolemekezeka okha pankhani imeneyi, mumbali ndi wodziwikiratu wotchedwa "chortom".
8. Kulankhulana pafupipafupi ndi cholinga wofu- kuganiza za "lipoti mfundo," sayenera nkhanza.
9. Kunena za mfundo, kutali kumvetsa chenicheni, kuyambitsa mavuto ndi zimene muyenera kusamala kwambiri.
10. Lamulo lomweli kwa amene akufuna kuti achoke, mpaka adzamangidwa.

Kodi kucheza ndi ubwino

Asanalowe chilindo cha woyendera nthambi, inu muyenera kuganizira za chibwana yako, ndipo mwina ntchito awo mwayi - chifukwa chololera chitukuko kapena china chirichonse. M'ndende zambiri, kusuta, chakudya komanso si bwino quality, koma amakhalabe kuthekera nezi tsiku kapena ntchito, komanso palokha thupi maphunziro. Ndi bwino kutenga mbali mu zochitika, kupita kokayenda, kusamba, kusamalira kutali zedi pa thupi, usapeputse n'zotheka kuphunzira zina mtunda kumalimbikitsidwa m'ndende. Ngati m'ndende ali laibulale ndipo okonzeka ndi malo ntchito - lili ndi ubwino psyche ndi Iyamba pa nthawi.