Chiwerewere moyo, pa zobvuta ndi kupitirira

malamulo a makhalidwe abwino a chikhalidwe chilichonse wapangidwa kachitidwe koyenela ndi kulolerana wa iwo. Komanso kukhala ndi njira loipa simungathe ngakhale kukana malamulo wamba osalembedwa, koma si koyenera iwo pa maganizo awo ndi mfundo moyo. Choncho, onse moyo wanga sanamumvetse kuwapatula ndi angati anzeru olemba ndi amisiri ndi masomphenya yakeyake zilandiridwenso. Komabe, chiwerewere zingafanane ndi njiru kugonana ndi owopsa kwa anthu ena.

Mfundo za chiwerewere ndi kuphwanya khalidwe

Lingaliro la makhalidwe sangakhale chimodzimodzi kwa anthu onse, kotero angapeze m'mayiko osiyanasiyana, kudutsa maiko, simungathe ndithandizeni osati malo enieni komanso wabwino kuchuluka kwa makhalidwe oyenera. Koma ndi lingaliro lonse. Mawu zina za malamulo abwino unazunguliridwa mu microsociety imene anthu nthawi zonse zimayenda. Aliyense wa ife ali ndi "dongosolo" monga a m'malire a osachepera awiri - panyumba ntchito (kuphunzira).

Personal amaonera makhalidwe abwino amalenga chilengedwe cha nthawi ziliri pa munthu. Iwo akhoza kukhala ndi muyezo wa khalidwe zoyenera Russia amakono alenga munthu otukuka mwapamwamba m'zaka XVII mu France. Zili cholakwika ndi kusamutsa lingaliro lathu cha kudzichepetsa yaikazi panopa anthu Muslim, kumene ngakhale mkazi kuwerenga mabuku ena pa anazindikira khalidwe loipa.

Iwo akunena kwenikweni za misa mfundo za makhalidwe abwino. Ndi kulibe tanthauzo lililonse kukana, monga anthu yomweyo linaŵerengera mabungwe ake anatsutsana ndi cholekanitsa izo. Kuyeza kutchinjiriza Pankhaniyi akutumikira monga ndende, psycho-ubongo kuchipatala, woyang'anira gulu la akuluakulu supervisory, ndi ena. Pankhani yabwino kwambiri, munthu chabe kuwoloka kuchokera mndandanda ndi chikhalidwe kupatuka abwino.

Chiwerewere mfundo malamulo

Palibe kukaika kuti njira amoral wa moyo kukhoza kukhala kosavuta osowa zosayembekezereka, ngati miyezo choletsa milandu muyezo wa khalidwe loipa, omangika osachepera kwa anadzudzula anthu, omwe si nthawi zonse. Nthawi zambiri hooliganism mwakuwoneka chabwinobwino amalima mitundu chachikulu kulanda, chiwawa, kuba (kuba) chifukwa cha connivance pa mbali ya "wolemera" anthu.

The palibe mulandu wachifwamba kanthu ambiri chiwerewere kumapangitsa nzika akumenya ndikuyenda chiwerewere, kumva ndi otetezeka. utumiki Community, ndalama ndi ziletso zipatalazo kawirikawiri tikwaniritse zotsatira kuyembekezera, ndipo kokha anakankhira chozama umunthu akusochera mu kuwawa ndi zimadalira chikhalidwe chathu cha khalidwe.

makhalidwe oipa m'banja

Ovuta kwambiri mtundu wa achiwerewere, imagwiranso ntchito pa zipolowe za kwapakati pa-khalidwe. Mu sitampu "mavuto" adzakhala basi kutenga makolo komanso kulephera kulimbana ndi nkhanza za ugliness makhalidwe mmodzi wa akazi ndilo kupanda makhalidwe. Ngati bambo zakumwa ndi akulola kusokoneza moyo ndi thanzi la anthu mabanja ndi akulu akulu ena akuvutika, ndiye mfundo za makhalidwe abwino ndipo ali wofooka.

Zimakhala zopweteka zochitika komwe ndi achiwerewere a makolo zowawa zazing'ono. Nthawi yapadera ndi pansi pa maso a yachilendo (aphunzitsi sukulu ya mkaka, oyandikana nawo), boma amamvetsera mabanja ena ndi amakhazikitsa kuyang'aniridwa pa magulu chiopsezo. Ngakhale kawirikawiri kwambiri mupewe ana ochokera m'mabanja, koma izi zimachitika pokhapokha umboni wokwanira wakuti m'nyumba ya mwana moyang'aniridwa ndi banja zingawononge moyo wake ndi makhalidwe abwino.

Kusokonezeka kwa anatengera zachilendo chikhalidwe cha mwanayo si kuopseza mwachindunji thanzi lake thupi - maphwando mozungulira anakhudzidwa ndi lingaliro lake la mwakale, osati zochepa zofunika. Izi otchedwa "kuthamanga" wa makolo umalimbana ndi mzake - ndi zoipa zonse, chiwonetsero, nthawizina - poyera ndi poyera anasonyeza atate wake ndi amake kumbali kugwirizana.

Makhalidwe ndi zoipa za ana a m'mabanja osokonekera

Woyamba maganizo adaponya opangidwa ndi mwanayo mwambo mpaka kalekale nawo ngakhale unwitting pankhondo banja kapena kuonerera khalidwe lake loipa limene makolo - ndi mantha, kusamvetsetsa, chikomokere sakhulupirira zimene zikuchitika. Izi ndi magawo otsatira analilumpha, choncho ngati azungulira mwana akangobadwa. Kenako, pamodzi ndi kutaya pakubwera chilakolako kubwezeretsa chidziwitso pakati pa makolo.

Siteji yotsatira - ndi chiyembekezo, zimene (monga chotsatira cha mtundu wa mwanayo) mungapite: waukali, udani kapena aloofness yagoletsa. Pa nthawi imeneyi, ana aang'ono kukhala satha kulankhula bwinobwino, pali akuchedwa chitukuko, khalidwe kusintha choyipa. Ana okulirapo kusiya banja, akuyesa kuti adziphe. Pafupifupi nthawi zonse pali "kukhulupirira" - monga mwayi makolo mwayi wina kuti maganizo ake, koma nthawi zambiri ngati zisankho zomwe sakufuna kutha kulira.

Lilime ziwerengero youma

Pokhazikika T. N. Kurbatovoy (St. Petersburg), VK Andrienko (Moscow), A. S. Belkina (Ekaterinburg) ndi olemba ena, matenda kuphunzira ndi ndondomeko yophunzitsa mabanja, tinganene kuti pali zinthu wamba kaphatikizidwe vuto banja.

Chiopsezo maganizo olakwika a mwanayo makhalidwe ndi makhalidwe abwino, banja kupeza:

• kuphatikizapo kholo limodzi ndi mwana;
• mlingo wochepa maphunziro a makolo onse;
• pamene wachiwerewere wa mayi kapena bambo chinthu okhazikika;
• ndi wopanda wathunthu wakutemwa, ndi kunyoza Zamakhalidwe khalidwe;
• kumene imodzi ya makolo ali chidakwa, ndinali MLS ndi ena.

kuwirikiza kawiri uyu ali ndi khalidwe generic ndi Mulimonsemo silili.