Chitani zosatheka, kapena ndemanga za cholinga

Anthu opambana nthawi zonse anayamba ndi maloto. Kulota za chinthu chosatheka, chosatheka, chowala ndi chosatha ndicho choyamba pa njira yowakwaniritsira zokhumba. Chinthu chachikulu ndichokuti malotowo amakhala cholinga. Monga D. Leopardi anati: "Ngati munthu alibe cholinga, sadzapeza chimwemwe mu ntchito zina." Ndemanga zokhudzana ndi zolinga zimatsimikizira kuti malo ake ndi ofunika kwambiri pamoyo wa munthu komanso chifukwa chake zikufunikira.

Kuti mukwaniritse zomwe mukufuna

Denis Waitley kamodzi adanena kuti: "Anthu ambiri samapindula ndi zomwe akufuna okha chifukwa samaika zolinga zawo poyamba." Katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi mphunzitsi ankadziwa motsimikiza kuti popanda aspiration ndizosatheka kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna. Mukhoza kuthamangira mozungulira, koma kuchokera kwa munthuyu amangotaya nthawi. Polemba za cholinga cha olemba omwe sakudziwika bwino, wina angapeze mawu otsatirawa: "Munthu wopepuka kwambiri, ngati ali ndi cholinga, amamufulumira mofulumira kuposa amene akuyenda mosavuta." Choncho, imodzi mwa ntchito zofunika kwambiri pa moyo wa munthu ndiyo njira yowunikira zokhumba za munthu.

Njira zoyamba

Koma mu moyo, sizinthu zonse zomwe zimachitika monga momwe tingafunire ... Ambiri a ife timangopita ndi kutuluka, kutsogoleredwa ndi kupanga zisankho m'makhalidwe abwino ndi zolakwika. Izi zinanenedwa ndi Seneca: "Pali anthu omwe amakhala opanda cholinga, kudutsa m'dziko lapansi, ngati tsamba mu mtsinje: iwo samapita, iwo amanyamula iwo."

Belinsky kamodzi adazindikira kuti chinthu chachikulu kwa munthu ndiko kupeza malo ake m'moyo, izi zidzamupangitsa iye chomwe ayenera kukhala. Ichi ndichinthu chodziwikiratu cha kukhalapo kwaumunthu. Koma ngakhale kuti muthe kutsata ndondomeko yoyenera, ndikofunikira kuti muchite khama kwambiri, ndipo ndemanga za cholinga ndi chitsanzo chodziwika bwino ichi:

• Honore de Balzac: "Kuti tikwaniritse cholinga, tifunika kupita koyamba."
• Ralph Wald Emerson: "Kuti mugonjetse chandamale, muyenera kuchilemba pamwambapa."
• Winston Churchill: "Musamawope zam'tsogolo. Iyenera kuyang'anitsitsa mosamala, koma kuti usaope. Dzulo ndinayang'ana padombe lakutali ndipo ndinadzifunsa ndekha chifukwa chake sitimayo imadula mafunde ndikuyandama kumalo kumene kuli kofunikira, chifukwa pali mafunde ambiri, ndipo iye yekhayo? Chilichonse chinali chosavuta: chombocho chinali ndi cholinga, ndipo mafunde akungozungulira nyanja. "

• Arnold Schwarzenegger: "Yambani ndi yaikulu ndipo mukwaniritse zambiri. Musayang'ane m'mbuyomo ndikupita mopitirira malire. "
• Mohammed Ali: "Ogonjetsa ndi masewera sali m'magulu. Choyamba, munthu ayenera kukhulupirira maloto ake, kusintha kuchokera mkati ndikuwonetsa bwino kupambana kwake. "

Ndemanga pa cholinga ndikuwonetsa chinthu chimodzi: chinthu choyamba kuchita ndicho kusintha nokha kuchokera mkati, kukhulupirira maloto anu ndi kuyesetsa.

Zolinga zimakwaniritsidwa bwanji

Mu moyo, ndemanga za zolinga zimakhudza kwambiri munthu. Iwo angapeze malangizo ambiri ndi zothandiza zothandiza momwe mungakwaniritsire zomwe mukufuna:

• Eleanor Roosevelt: "Tsogolo ndi la omwe amakhulupirira maloto awo."
• Alexander of Macedon: "Ngati izi sizingatheke, ndiye kuti ziyenera kuchitika ndithu."
• Haruki Murakami: "Chinthu chachikulu chidzakhala cholinga, ndipo mndandanda wa zoyesayesa ndi zolakwika zidzatsogolera zotsatira zomwe zikufunidwa."
• Juliusz Vontroba: "Chikhulupiriro chimamuthandiza munthu kupeza maluso omwe sankadziwapo."

• Henry Ford: "Ngati munthu adziuza yekha kuti akhoza kapena sangathe, ali bwino pazochitika zonsezi."
• Will Rogers: "Ngati munthu akupita kukwaniritsa zolinga zake, koma akungoyembekezera mwachidwi, adzangomva chisoni."
• Fyodor Dostoyevsky: "Paulendo wopita ku cholinga, munthu amaima pang'onopang'ono kuti agwetse mwala ndi kumugwedeza."

Chilamulo cha kusinthanitsa kofanana

Ndemanga za cholinga ndi cholinga cha moyo nthawi zambiri zimagwirizana. Cholinga - ichi ndicho tanthauzo, njira yomwe munthu angapite chifukwa cha zomwe akufuna. Munthu ayenera kulota, kukhazikitsa zolinga zabwino ndikuyesetsa kukhazikitsa. Pomwepo ntchito yake idzadziwika. Ngakhale mu miyoyo ya anthu akulu, ndemanga za cholingacho zinakhudza zomwe apambanazo. Monga momwe Einstein adayankhulira kale, "Ntchito yaikulu ya malingaliro ndikutembenuzira chozizwitsa kukhala chinthu chomveka bwino."

Panjira yopita kukwaniritsa zokhumba zokhumba pali zovuta zambiri. Koma musatembenukire ku nyenyezi yanu yotsogolera, kuyang'ana pa sitepe iliyonse yomwe yatengedwa, simuyenera kudalira njira zosavuta ndi kukana makhalidwe. Mumoyo pali lamulo lofanana: Ngati mukufuna kulandira chinachake, muyenera kupereka kenakake. Mfundo imeneyi ikugwiritsidwa ntchito pa zolinga: Posachedwa ntchito zonse zidzapindula, ndipo zosatheka zidzakhala zowona. Zitsanzo zabwino zimatha kuthandiza Henry Ford, Marilyn Monroe, Jim Carrey ndi ena ambiri otchuka, omwe mayina awo amadziwikanso kwa achinyamata.