Zizindikiro 9 kuti mwakhala "munthu woopsa"

Tikulimbana ndi chikoka cha "poizoni" cha anzathu ndi odziwa nawo miyoyo yathu. Komabe, anthu omwe akuchita nawo nkhondoyi, n'zovuta kuzindikira zolakwa zawo. N'zomvetsa kuvomereza kuti timapanga zovuta zathu. Ndipo pambuyo poyang'ana choonadi, tikhoza kusintha. Pali zizindikiro 9 za poizoni pamaso panu. Tengani zinthu izi muziyendetsa, ndipo mukhoza kusintha nokha.

Mumakonda kuimba ena mlandu pazovuta zanu

Kwa nthawi yayitali mumakhala opanda masewera, koma mumayesetsa kuti mulangize munthu wina pavuto lililonse. Koma ngati pali kusagwirizana, maphwando onse omenyana ali olakwa, wina wamkulu, ena mpaka wamng'ono. Sikoyenera kutenga psychology ya ana, kuyesera kuti apeze choyambitsa chachikulu cha zovuta zonse ndi kusunthira udindo kwa zomwe zinachitidwa kuchokera kumapewa awo kwa alendo. "Anthu oopsa" amakonda kuyesa ntchito ya wozunzidwa. Khalani anzeru ndipo phunzirani kukhala ndi udindo pa zochita zanu.

Kukambirana kumbuyo kwanu

Chizoloŵezichi chimatenganso mizu yake mu ubwana wathu, pamene tinkafuna kugwirizanitsa magulu ang'onoang'ono ndi chiwembu choyipa kwa amzawo osakondedwa. Miseche ndi mbali ya chisinthiko chathu, kotero sitidzachotsa chodabwitsa ichi. Komabe, munthu aliyense asanakhale ndi chisankho: kukhala wochitapo kanthu mwa miseche, kapena, ngati n'kotheka, kuti asasunthike. Kulankhula koteroko kungawononge munthu wina. N'zosatheka kuti mukhale okhudzana ndi zolakwika ndipo mumakhala mbiri yoti ndi miseche.

Inu mumatenga zambiri kuposa zomwe mumapereka

Moyo sungakhale ndi holide yokha komanso chikondi. Nthawi zina nthawi zimabwera zomwe sizikhoza kugonjetsedwa popanda kuthandizidwa ndi achibale ndi abwenzi. Koma ngati zopempha zopanda malire zakhala zachizolowezi kwa inu, nthawi yayandikira pamene muyenera kusintha chinachake. Malinga ndi malamulo a kukonda chuma, ndizosatheka kutenga zambiri kuposa kubwezeretsa. Bwanji osadzipereka nokha chithandizo kwa iwo omwe akusowa?

Mabwenzi adasowa m'moyo wanu

Pamene kuyankhulana ndi munthu kumayamba kulemera, anthu amatha kupulumuka ku chiyanjano "chakupha". Monga lamulo, "sitimayo yakumira" imachoka mwakachetechete, popanda zopanda pake zosafunikira, kuyesera kuti asakope chidwi chawo. Dziwani kuti palibe amene amakana ubwenzi popanda chifukwa. Pali zifukwa za chirichonse. Eya, ngati abwenzi anu, ponyengerera, atachoka pa phwando lomwe mwakonzedwa ndi inu nthawi isanakwane, mulipo mwayi wopita nawo. Khalani owona mtima ndi inu nokha ndipo pezani zifukwa zomwe anthu apamtima amapewa kukhudzana ndi inu.

Moyo uli wodzaza masewero

Tanena kale kuti palibe amene ali ndi nthawi yovuta pamoyo. Kodi munthu wokwanira amachita chiyani pakakhala zovuta? Amayesetsa kuti agonjetse mwamsanga mzere wakudawu, popanda kuulingalira kwa nthawi yaitali. Anthu owopsa amazoloŵera sewero ndipo amayamba kulima.

Inu simukudziwa momwe mungalole kuchoka kwa cholakwikacho

Zimakhala zovuta kusunthira pamene mnzanu kapena okondedwa anu akukukhumudwitsani kwambiri. Kodi mukukonzekera kuti mulowe nawo gulu la masochists, mukupitiriza kulankhulana ndi omwe akukupha pang'onopang'ono? Kuti asakhale "munthu woopsa", munthu ayenera kuphunzira kusiya anthu omwe amachititsa ululu.

Kutentha kuti zikhale zolondola

Dzifunseni funso limodzi losavuta: Kodi ndikufuna kuti nthawizonse ndikhale wolondola kapena nthawi zonse ndikhale wosangalala? Zingakhale zabwino ngati zingatheke kuphatikiza ziwirizi. Komabe, izi sizichitika, ndipo pochita ndi anthu ena muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungaperekere. Apo ayi mutakhala munthu wosasangalala kwambiri.

Inu mukuyang'ana pa zolakwika

Zolinga zabwino ndi zoipa zilipo nthawi iliyonse. Kodi ndinu mmodzi wa iwo amene amakonda kuganizira zachinyengo? Ndithudi, kuyembekezera sikuli mfundo yanu yolimba. Komabe, khalidwe ili lingathe ndipo liyenera kufunafuna. Tikukulangizani kuti mumadziyandikire ndi makhalidwe abwino ndikulemba diyamiko.

Mumayambitsa zokambiranazo

Ndi liti pamene mwamaliza kulankhula ndi mnzanu nthawi yotsiriza? Mwinamwake, kuyankhulana kwanu kwachepetsedwa kukhala koyendetsa ndi chilakolako cholamulira. Molakwika kwa ena, mwadzikweza nokha ku udindo wapadera, ndipo zokambirana zonse zimamangidwa kuzungulira zosowa za umunthu wanu. Uthenga wodzikonda wa zokambirana zanu ndi wovuta kwambiri kwa anthu ena. Chitanipo kanthu ndikupereka anzanu 50 peresenti ya "nthawi ya mphepo".