Ndi zochokera cholinga chotani? Pofuna kukwaniritsa chinachake mu moyo, ife ayenera kukhala ndi zolinga ndi ntchito kuti iwo apite, ngakhale mavuto onse amene anakumana panjira. Mukuuzidwa zachabechabe - ndi wabwino kwa bwino mu moyo, chifukwa munthu wotero zonse zofunika umboni wakuti iye ali bwino kuposa ena. Koma n'chifukwa chiyani zili choncho, chipembedzo atsutsana ichi makhalidwe? Ndipo kuyamba ndi kuyamba, kodi zachabechabe?
Tanthauzo la mawu ndi kusiyana kwake kutchuka ndi kunyada
Malinga ndi dikishonale, zimasonyeza ubwino wa kufunika anthu kufuna kutchuka ndi kupambana ndi ludzu kuzindikira ndi moyo wokongola. Monga mmene taonera, ndi tanthauzo, ndi achilendo kwa anthu onse, okha amakhala osiyana. Mawu akuti "zachabechabe" amatanthauza kuwala ndi mbali mdima wa khalidwe la munthu. Pa dzanja limodzi, akhoza kuchititsa munthu kuti kudzuka pabedi, kuyamba chinachake yogwira kuchita. Koma pa dzanja ena, anthu pachabe kawiri kawiri amayesetsa ngati kuposa kukhala. Izi zimachitika milandu iwiri: ngati iwo anatha kukwaniritsa chinachake mu moyo kapena M'malo mwake, mu sizinatheke. Pankhaniyi, iwo anabwera ndi chowiringula, ndi kuyang'ana pansi pa okhulupirira mu chosaneneka wake. Zachabechabe - khalidwe nthawi zambiri limodzi ndi kutchuka ndi kunyada. Kudziwika akusonyeza kuti akufuna kukhala ofunika kuposa ena, ndi kunyada amakhala munthu kumva bwino kuposa ena, kaya akhale a boma lenileni la zochitika. Monga mukuonera, mulingo woyenera kuchuluka kwa makhalidwe amenewa ayenera aliyense.
Zachabechabe - iyi ndi imodzi mwa machimo oopsa?
Monga ife kumvetsa, khalidwe limeneli lili ndi mbali zambiri zabwino, bwanji Chikhristu zikuimirira kuthetsa makhalidwe amenewa Makhalidwe? Komanso mwapadera, tanthauzo achabechabe woyenera awiri machimo akufa: kunyada, zomwe zimachititsa kunyoza ena ndi kukweza okha, ndi kukonda ndalama, mwachitsanzo, kukonda moyo wokongola. Zachabechabe - ndi khalidwe khalidwe kuti ayenera nthawi zonse kukhala pansi pa ulamuliro, chifukwa mzere pakati zotsatira zake zabwino ndi zoipa ndi woonda kwambiri. Ngati kuthandiza anthu, amayembekezera kutamanda ndi zambiri ndi zambiri kukhumudwa ndi kutsutsa, kukhala osamala kuti khalidwe limeneli a khalidwe lanu kuti kungasokoneze maganizo.
Mitundu waukulu zachabechabe
Zamaganizo apeza njira ziwiri khalidwe limeneli Makhalidwe anthu. Aluntha zachabechabe - ndi azidzidalira kudziwa awo a anthu, omwe nthawi zina amafika poti wa absurdity. Iye sangakhoze basi amavomereza kuti anali olakwa, ndipo amakonda kulankhula za chilichonse, "Ndinadziwa ine!". Palinso zachabechabe wauzimu, amapezeka anthu amene asankha okha kutenga njira ya kukula mwauzimu. Angayambe kuona kuti kudziwa yekha njira woona choonadi. Mu mutu ndi simungathe kudza, kuti mwina sapita njira yolondola, ndipo kwa nthawi yaitali munakhala kwinakwake pachiyambi. Komanso, monga moralizing "psevdopravednikov" akhoza ulesi kuyesera kukhala bwino ndi thandizo la chipembedzo munthu aliyense.