The vuto lalikulu kukula yaing'ono - mantha ana

N'chifukwa chiyani anthu mantha? Funso tinganene kuti losafuna, ndipo achindunji kwambiri. Mantha - mchitidwe wachibadwa mavuto zofuna yolimbikitsa pazipita. Pa nthawi imene pa mlingo maganizo, timamva mantha pa mlingo thupi ndi adamulowetsa ndi nambala yaikulu njira, kukonzekera thupi lathu kuti kuopseza zotheka. chikhalidwe ichi onse debugged ndendende, choncho kupindula mtundu uwu wa chikhalidwe ndithudi kumeneko. Ndicho, icho ntchito limagwirira chodzikanira, kusunga liziyenda bwino thupi lonse. Choncho tiyeni chimatanthauza: lingaliro la "mantha zoona" kwambiri makonzedwe - nthawi zonse ndipo kulikonse mantha chifukwa maonekedwe ake. Chinthu china ndi chifukwa chimenechi akhoza amamudziwa kuchotsedwa zikamera wa kumverera mantha.

Ndilongosolere zimene uli pangozi. Common mawu kuti "ife tonse tikafikira ku ubwana" iyiwalika ndi akulu, mwamsanga pamene pali zochitika iwo sakhulupirira. mantha A ana - ichi ndi chomwe amakhalabe mu chikumbumtima cha munthu kwa zaka zambiri, mwinanso moyo wonse. Ndipo izo zifika nkhawa mwana pa nthawi makamaka chifukwa ndi zimene zimachitikadi wawo kuona zenizeni ozungulira. Mwachitsanzo, kuopa pamwamba akhoza kuona kulephera pa dontho kuopa mdima - kukhala zoipa tulo, claustrophobia - kuchokera pomwe bwino osankhidwa pryatok (nduna anamenyetsa). Zonsezi kumaonekera chikumbumtima cha mwana n'kupitiriza kumeneko kwa nthawi yaitali mpaka vuto lililonse wopsinjika simudzaopa afotokoze zinthu mwa mphamvu. Nthawi zina mantha ana anga ndi akuluakulu. Izi wosatha "Usakhale - obozhzhoshsya", sapita - mudzagwa, "etc. kupanga syndrome mwana kupeza zinthu zinali zovuta zimene kuopa - kugwirizana naye odalirika, chifukwa amachenjeza ngozi. Ana akhoza kuona mantha ndi pamene kuonera TV, ndiponso kutenga nawo mbali kusalankhula mu igrah- "chowombelera" ndipo pamene akumvetsera kwa akulu kulankhula za kuopsa dziko lakunja.

Njira otsiriza ndi nthaka yachonde ya chitukuko cha zochitika monga mantha chikhalidwe. Izo nkhawa za kukwera mitengo, kuwonjezera chiwerengero cha uchigawenga, ankamvetsa nedovyplat, ambiri kuwonongeka kwa moyo. The Russian mantha chikhalidwe kale akusuntha mu misa psychosis - chifukwa ngati munthu wanena kuti akuchita bwino, nthawi yomweyo nazhivot gulu la adani, sitingathe nthawi ngati zinthu zikuyendere bwino. mantha Social kusokoneza chitukuko yachibadwa a anthu, kupanga nzika ndi maganizo kumbuyo. Pangani nkhawa m'dera amathandiza atolankhani: mwina iwo ali modzaza oponya voti mfundo m'miyoyo ya anthu otchuka (ndi kuganizira chifukwa wathanzi munthu lonse nkhawa mfundo bwino moyo wa munthu, ndi mlendo mwamtheradi?), Kapena ndikuuzeni mantha nkhani ya mtundu wachifwamba zimene zimachitika ndi zonse zodabwitsa mu malo athu dziko. Apa ndi wokonzeka mantha okhudzidwa: mumsewu sangatuluke - pali upandu olimba; bwino moyo ochepa, koma ife sitiri pakati pawo, chirichonse pozungulira zoipa ndipo m'pofunika kudikira nkhonyayo chotsatira kuchokera tsoka.

Ndipo zokongolazi: osiyanasiyana phobias, mantha chikhalidwe ochokera chakuti akulu amatchedwa "mantha ana." Kodi kuchita ngati kale?

Choyamba, kulenga wathanzi malo moyo wochezeka akuluakulu ndi ana omwe. Musaphwanye kuwerenga manyuzipepala (ine ndinayankhula za izi komabe, Professor Preobrazhensky - kumbukirani "Mtima wa Dog"). Ndikhulupirireni, nkhani zikuluzikulu ndipo mudzaphunzira kotero - kukhala lalifupi mowasungira uthenga midadada, Intaneti, potsiriza, anansi! Koma inu kutsimikiza nokha kuchokera wonyeketsa kuchuluka yaikulu mfundo zosafunika kwambiri. Komanso, sefa ayenera kuikidwa pa TV; upandu uthenga, bwalo Kuthi - osati kuona munthu wathanzi. Ndipo pamene kwanu adzalamulira akafuna malingaliro (! Kutali zedi, kumene), Kukhazikitsidwa ndi kufalikira maganizo abwino, mantha kuyamba abwerere - iwo samakonda malo abwino chitukuko cha umunthu zogwirizana lonse. Ndipo wina chida kwambiri kulimbana ndi mantha limafotokoza m'buku lakuti "Harry Muumbi": ngati mantha chinachake, kumaseka pa izo - ndi ana, njira imeneyi ntchito pa 95% (otsala kuchuluka - milandu matenda). Choncho kumwetulira, njonda! Kumwetulira!