Oseketsa sizichita nawo pa ukwati

Inu ndimalota kutembenukira chikondwerero zanu Motani Zimene Zimakhala Zofunikadi zodabwitsa, wodzala ndi zodabwitsa ndi zinthu zachilendo? Ndiyeno mvetserani kwa angapo nsonga ...

Ukwati - tsiku avundulidwe kwambiri ndi wapadera mu miyoyo ya mabanja m'chikondi. Komabe, si kofunika kutembenukira chikondwerero mu chochitika chimatsogoleredwa kwambiri, chifukwa ndi tchuthi ndi holide muyenera kusangalala. Palibe cholimbikitsa kudzalulutira pamene oseketsa Tilandire pa ukwati. moni izi sizidzakumbukiridwa kwa nthawi yaitali achinyamata, monga adzakhala kwambiri choyambirira ndi zachilendo! M'munsimu mukhoza kuwerenga oseketsa Tilandire ukwati ndi kupiphatisa congratulation ngati n'koyenera.

Mwina aliyense wa ife anaona kuti nthabwala za mabanja wodala zambiri. Komabe, wina wapezeka. Kamodzi munthu wina anamufunsa iye momwe moyo ndi mkazi wake wokondedwa. Iye anayankha motere: iwo ankakhala mosangalala openga kwa zaka twente-faifi, iye ndi iye. Ndipo kenako ... naye, ndi chirichonse chinali chosiyana!

Sizichita nawo ku ukwati wa mboni ayenera kukhala wosaiwalika kwambiri, chifukwa umboni ndi lachiwiri lofunika kwambiri munthu pambuyo latsopanolo pa ukwati. Izo zimatengera iye kwambiri: ndi maganizo a alendo ndi njira ambiri a ukwati ndi kugwira nawo mwakhama mpikisano.

chidwi kwambiri ndi losaiwalika nthawizonse kukhalabe Tilandire ku ukwati m'mawu anuanu. Ngati anakhumba, mukhoza kukumbukira mfundo zina zosangalatsa ku moyo wa mkwatibwi, amenenso angathe kupanga Tilandire, yocheza pa m'mbuyomu. Apa ndi mkate wina zodabwitsa prose, amene anganene mboni. Tilandire Izi Sikuti kuloweza, zokwanira basi kuwerenga izo kamodzi ndipo olembedwa mofotokozera, koma nthawi zonse kuchokera pansi pa mtima.

"Ndife tonse boma amazipanga chisoni chomvetsa chisoni ndi chakuti a kulekana amakakamizidwa kwa mnzathu. Komabe, ife, mabwenzi ake kudziwa zimene zinachititsa kutha kwa bwenzi: izi kubedwa amazipanga kukongola kuwala mngelo, ndipo tsopano akubwerera ku adzatichezere kwa tsiku kuonetsetsa kuti tinatha kuona chimwemwe chawo. Ndi anthu ochepa kugwa ndi mwayi wapadera kukumana ndi mngelo uyu mu moyo wanga. Ndipo ife, abwenzi anga, amazipanga mwayi. Ndipo mngelo patsogolo pathu: mkwatibwi okongola kuti wokhulupirika athu ena wothandizira, phungu tikiti paradaiso wosatha wa chimwemwe m'banja. Ndicho chifukwa chake ife bondo chakuti tataya bwenzi, chifukwa ife izo cholengedwa wokongola kwambiri ndi zabwino padziko lapansi. Iwo kuphimba mtengo njira ya chikondi izo, muziona, muziona. Ndipo ndikuona kuti ray bwino chiyembekezo ndi chimwemwe mngelo anakhetsa pa ife. Tsopano ife otsimikiza kuti mnzathu sanataye, ndi wamphamvu kwambiri! Inu, abwenzi, kwezani magalasi wathu thanzi ndi chimwemwe cha mngelo, mkwatibwi okongola! "

Osangalatsa amenewa, akunjenjemera mawu sadzasiya osayanjanitsika osati mkwatibwi kapena mkwatibwi! Nawa ochepa chidwi Tilandire, yodzala ndi tanthauzo, nzeru ndipo, ndithudi, nthabwala.

"Tsiku lina tchire anafunsidwa wabwino, woona ndi amphamvu ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi yankho linali: pamene mkazi sakuona zimene mwamuna, ndipo mwamuna alibe amve chimene mkazi wake akuti Nkhaniyi kutsatira Tilandire ubale wa wabwino pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi. ! "

Kenako congratulation wamng'ono nzeru zaumunthu, chimakupangitsani kuganiza ndi kuganiza. Iwo umapita motere. "Aliyense akudziwa kuti mawu" ukwati "ali ndi matanthauzo awiri oyamba -. Okwatirana, wachiwiri - Lisweka mankhwala Mwatsoka, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mfundo yachiwiri adzabwere tanthauzo la Koma poyamba, mosakaika, ukwati si ukwati .. ngati maziko ake ndi chikondi akufuna latsopanolo. ndi kuteteza limodzi amphamvu m'munsi ndi banja popanda kukwatirana! "

Musati muyesere kuloweza kapena mkate wina, usaope kulankhula mumtima mwawo. Kuikapo iwo onse mantha ndi maganizo ofunda kwa achinyamata, chifukwa iwo ndi chiyambi chabe!

Oseketsa Tilandire ku ukwati umene adzakhala yapadera pa mwambowu, yomwe adzalenga m'mlengalenga zosangalatsa kugwirizanitsa alendo adzakumbukira kwa nthawi yaitali. Aliyense ali ndi oseketsa Tilandire nthanthi ganizo, izo ndi zofunika kuziganizira. Choncho monga kudzayamikira msungwana, akumamuuza sizichita nawo oseketsa kuti ukwati! Pachiyambi, wapadera, zosangalatsa! Kusangalala pa chikondwerero kuti ngakhale Toastmasters sanali mutope wanu!