N'chifukwa chiyani anthu amanama: Mnzanu Dr. Lightman

Monga amakonda kunena za ngwazi ya m'modzi wa otchuka kwambiri TV mndandanda wa zaka khumi zapitazi, ndi eccentric dokotala Gregory House - "Aliyense mabodza." Kodi izi ndi zoona? Kafukufuku akusonyeza kuti ngakhale anthu ambiri oona mtima ndi lotseguka nthawi kunena zoona kwa ena. N'chifukwa chiyani anthu amanama , ndipo amakankhira iye izo?

Chifukwa chiyani?

Pali zifukwa zingapo waukulu kukankha munthu kuchokera kuimira mwaimvetsa mitundu chosiyana kapena kubisa zina. Nthawi zambiri munthu wagona, pamene:

• kuwakhumudwitsa kapena kupweteka munthu, amene anafuna ichi kapena zina zomwe;
• mantha kuti padzakhala penapake kapena aphedwe, safuna kuti alangidwe mulandu uliwonse wake (monga mwana, inde :));
• Mbidzi kusonyeza lokha kwambiri, kuposa izo kwenikweni.

More kawirikawiri, komanso chifukwa zotheka chifukwa munthu wagona, angakhale m'maganizo wabwino ndi kulephera kusiyanitsa nkhambakamwa kuchokera ku chenicheni.

Kodi kudziwa?

Za kuzindikira lagona pa cues sanali (mau chinenero thupi, manja, etc.) zalembedwa nati kale kwambiri. Komabe, kuli anakhudzidwa ndi nkhani ya mmene kumvetsa mmene munthuyo ndi mochenjera, m'mawu ake. Ndipo komabe, ngakhale inu kuiwala chizindikiro chilichonse si mawu, mmene munthuyo amalankhulira, mudzatha yosanthula mu njira iliyonse.

1. Funsani mafunso. Monga zambiri zambiri, anthu ogonana kuganizira kwambiri zimene iwo akunena, osati mmene. Choncho, zikuoneka kuti munthu amene anali, popanda kuzindikira, funso lanu ndi mawu amene ananenedwa ndi inu masekondi angapo apitawo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufunsa, "Kodi inu anathyola kompyuta?" Ndipo mudzamva poyankha chinachake monga, "Ayi, ine sindinali anaswa kompyuta" - Ndi chimodzi cha zizindikiro zoyamba pamaso panu ndi wabodza.

2. Nthawi zambiri kugona kudziwika amachitidwa pa mayendedwe ndi intonation wa kulankhula. munthu, amene anakakamizika kupita kubwera ndi mfundo, adzalankhula pang'ono pang'onopang'ono kuposa masiku. Ngati iye anali nthawi kuti abwere ndi "alibi", ndiye zambiri, zidzakhala pang'ono msanga (kumene, muyenera kukhala ndi nthawi kunena pamaso ine ndayiwala!). Munthu wagona, izo zambiri zidzawonjezedwa kwa nkhani yake chiwerengero chachikulu cha zinthu zazing'ono ndi moperewera.

3. protracted kaye mawu ndi ziganizo grammatically yolondola, nthaŵi zambiri akubwereza - wina chizindikiro cha kunama.

4. Ngati inu zasintha phunziro, ndi interlocutor amachirikiza uyu ndithu omasuka - motero cholinga chakale anali zosasangalatsa iye. Zikuoneka kuti sanamve mawu onse a choonadi kwa iye.

5. Yesani kufunsa interlocutor kulongosola zochitika kuti iwowo. Ngati munthu akunena zoona, n'zosavuta kuti achite izo. Koma wabodza amayamba kusochera ndi mantha.

m'malo epilogue ndi

Tidapeza zifukwa zikuluzikuluzo chake munthu wagona, komanso njira zingapo kuyesa moona interlocutor wake. A lalikulu kuchuluka kwa mfundo za bodza mu mawonekedwe ake onse, etc. akhoza kuwapeza pa intaneti - kuyesetsa kuona zipangizo pa zoterezi mutu chidwi ngati polygraph bodza.

Komabe, kuti mukhale konse kupeza chifukwa chomwe munthuyo anali atagona, ndi kuganiza mmene angachitire ndi ichi - yesani kuchita nthawi zonse kukhala oona mtima kwambiri ndi anthu ena. "Monga kuitanako, kotero Echo" - musaiwale mfundo imeneyi!