Moral ntchito: zitsanzo moyo ndi mabuku

Kodi ndi udindo, mfundo kudziwika kwa aliyense wa ife. Komabe, sikuti aliyense amaganiza kuti chiri ndi chiphunzitso cha ntchito makhalidwe abwino. Choyamba si kudzipereka kwa munthu, koma udindo yekha - luso kuchita zinthu, ngakhale abwino omwe. Ndipotu kuyesetsa makhalidwe - ndi chiwonetsero cha mphamvu ndi khalidwe. Munthu wopanda makhalidwe ake, sangathe kukhala wachisoni, ndi chisoni, chisoni.

ntchito abwino

Ngati tikambirana mfundo imeneyi monzama, izo zikhoza kugawidwa m'magulu awiri - ntchito kwa malo amene munthu ali ndi udindo anthu. Komabe, zigawo ziwiri izi akhoza kugawidwa m'magulu. Udindo pafupi zikuphatikizapo ngakhale kanthu monga phindu payekha kapena munthu. Ngongole kwa anthu zambiri ena monga kudzipereka kwa gawo makamaka a gulu chikhalidwe. Mu moyo, pali zochitika zina pamene tili kusankha pakati pa udindo ndi chikumbumtima, nthawizina mfundo izi ndi thunthu kosagwirizana ndi vutolo. N'zosavuta kudziwa ntchito makhalidwe - zitsanzo moyo achuluka: pamene munthu anaukira ndi iye kusankha - kupha pofuna kuteteza kapena ayi kuwoloka pafupi makhalidwe abwino 'Usaphe ", tisachite zinthu zilili panopa. Si zophweka kusankha bwino pamene chibadwa cha zitetezeke zimakubanikitsani maganizo ena onse.

Cholakwika mtengo ... moyo?

Mwatsoka, moyo zambiri asinthe, kuchititsa munthu kuthana ndi maganizo otsutsana. Nthawi zambiri, zinthu ngati kuti m'pofunika kusankha pakati pa chilamulo ndi chikumbumtima. Nthawi zambiri ngati zimenezi adzapanga andale ndi asilikali. Kutenga lamulo lina limene phindu kwenikweni ndi anthu wamba, koma mphamvu ya osiyana Yofuna Ufulu Wodzilamulira kapena kuwombera munthu, chifukwa tiyenera - uyu anali ndi dongosolo - milandu onse, munthuyo kukwaniritsa udindo yake ya makhalidwe abwino, kuiwala kwa mphindi malonjezo akumusokoneza moyo chikumbumtima. Ndipo zimenezi ngakhale kuti, ngati maziko a dongosolo zachikhalidwe, ndi yodalirika ya tenet zofunika amakhalabe poitanidwa kuti "alibe vuto". Choncho likukhalira kuti mmene munthu analembetsa nkhani ina akhoza adzaweruzidwa pokhapokha nthawi zina.

Monga izo zimachitika

Zitsanzo za ntchito makhalidwe achuluka. Mwa chizolowezi pa TV anali muitana thandizo kwa munthu, kothawira pa ngozi ya galimoto ndipo anafa mu chipatala chifukwa chosowa magazi chifukwa magazi. Kangati sabata timamva bwanji zimenezi? Ife tikuwona iwo mu manyuzipepala? Iwo kalekale bwino. Koma monga theka la ola mu chipatala anachezeredwa ndi anthu oposa mazana atatu, amene sanadziwe woberedwa, anabwera kwa munthu mwayi kuti apulumuke. Koma chidwi kwambiri n'chakuti iwo, ngati si onse, pochita zinthu ndi TV kapena anthu ena achidwi sitidzazitamandira popitilira zochita zake, ndipo kusokonezedwa ndi njira muddled, angatsimikize kuti sanachite zachilendo kapena amunamuna. Apa ndi mosadzikonda makhalidwe udindo wa moyo, kumene kulibe malo apeze phindu.

Kodi izo - munthu wa mkati, woyang'anira wa?

Kusanthula zochitika zosiyanasiyana, Ndizachidziwikire kuti waukulu mkati owayang'anila anthu adakali chikumbumtima ndi ntchito makhalidwe abwino. Zitsanzo za Motelo makhalidwe a moyo osatha. Tingathe kukumbukira mmene kwadzaoneni anthu kudwala napangana naye kumpatsa ziwalo wathanzi anthu odwala, ngati anthu anathamangira mu madzi achisanu m'nyengo yozizira kupulumutsa atagwera mu ayezi, ndipo zilibe kanthu, mwamuna kapena chirombo.

Monga pa nthawi ya mphunzitsi uchigawenga anabisa ana okha aphedwa ku ankhondowo zipolopolo. Beslan (sukulu kuzinga), Volgograd (kuphulika pa okwerera sitima), mabomba mu sitima ndi kulanda ndege, nkhondo, kugwa pa chifuwa grenade wake kupulumutsa anzake - mu zonse zimene anali anthu enieni kukwaniritsa udindo wawo abwino. Mwatsoka, anthu opanda masiku ano, kuti makhalidwe abwino ali si kokhaku, komanso alendo.

zitayimbidwa ndi ndakatulo

Ndakatulo za mibadwo yosiyana atayimba ntchito antchito abwino. zitsanzo zambiri zikhoza anathamangitsidwa mabuku, kuyambira pa ntchito analembedwa zaka zambiri zapitazo. m'ma chakhumi ndi chisanu ndi chiwiri - Jean Racine, "Phaedra ndi Hippolytus." Mu chikondi ndi akulera ana opeza ake stepson ndi kuyesa malo ake, koma anakana. Kukwiya mkazi amatsanulira matope mnyamata, kumubweretsera kudzipha, ngati mnyamatayo ntchito makhalidwe saloledwa kulowa kulankhulana ndi mkazi wa bambo ake. M'ma chakhumi ndi chisanu ndi chinayi - Nikolai Leskov, "Munthu pa koloko." protagonist ali pakati pa zilakolako awiri - kuthandiza Munthu amene wamira mdzenje, kapena kukhala mu positi mogwirizana ndi wake ntchito ya usilikali. Chifukwa, msilikali abwino kuposa, amene anali kenako kulangidwa ndi lotsatira nkhanza.

Kodi postulates makhalidwe

Pa nthawi, mfundo za makhalidwe abwino wasintha kwambiri. Zitsanzo za ntchito makhalidwe tinganene kuti kuyambira kale, pamene opareshoni Taleon bwino. Mpheroyi chakuti anthu kubwezera kwa upandu wankhanza, mmene lamphamvu ilo linali. Komabe, kugwiritsa ntchito ufulu ngati akanatha ndi anthu ammudzi ena.

Kenako anayamba kugwiritsa ntchito golide ulamuliro - khalidwe ndi anthu njira mukufuna ndipo iwo akuchitireni inu. Lero, ife kunadetsa kubwera chakuti makhalidwe - kusafuna kubweretsa ululu kwa ena, kutsutsa uku choipa chilichonse, ndi kukana kwathunthu kwa opotoka ndi ponseponse ubwino. Aliyense wa ife ayenera kukhala wotsimikiza kuti kuchita chinthu chabwino (osati monga yabwino yekha, ndicho molondola mwachibale kwa ena) ndi kwathunthu disinterested.

Anthu ndi makhalidwe abwino

Akuphedwa ntchito pamoyo (m'mabuku ife anapereka zitsanzozi) zambiri zingaoneke wokwera, ankawaviika ungwazi ndi kukonda dziko lako. Komabe, siziri choncho. mfundo ndi yakuti anthu amene ali okhoza kukhala ndi khalidwe limeneli, amafuna kukhala mu mithunzi, osati kulima nokha mu masamba a manyuzipepala ndi kunja kukuzizira mu mapulogalamu TV ndi mapulogalamu a pa TV. Tikhoza kukhala kwa zaka ndi munthu amene kamodzi anapulumutsa moyo wa wina, ndipo sakudziwa izo.

Izi ndi khalidwe lina labwino singasiyanitsidwe - kudzichepetsa. Ndipotu, amanyadira athandiza munthu wina, mu Ndipotu amapangitsira tanthauzo wonyada, ndipo sayenera mu makhalidwe maphwando amenewa. Ndipo komabe makhalidwe abwino ayenera kukhala mumtima mwawo, koma malinga ndi wina kuchokera kunja. zosavuta kuti chikhulupiriro mwa munthu nkhawa, atacita ambiri amapha zolakwika pambuyo. Nkofunika kudziwa kuti makhalidwe abwino - ndi dongosolo ubale mgwirizano, anamanga maganizo oona mtima ndi zikhumbo dyera.