Monyoza Kodi

Kodi mawu onyoza? Funsani funso ili anzake angapo, ndinapeza mayankho ofanana kwambiri - kupanda Olemba, ophimbidwa nthabwala pa chosowa munthu wina. Inde, chifukwa ife, sizimadya mkate, chimakakamiza "pini" ndi interlocutor, ndipo ife ndife okhoza mosavuta kukhumudwa mawonetseredwe monga mwa malangizo athu?

Asayansi asonyeza kuti pang'ono chabe Monyoza ndi wofunika chifukwa amathandiza ubongo wathu kuti ugwire ndipo inali ndi nthabwala cha mtima kwenikweni zoipa kwa munthu wathu.

Monyoza Kodi amene nthawi zonse amachita? Mwina njira akuti, njira adzauka, manyazi ndi zina, koma akuyang'ana pa izo si mu kuwala bwino. Pali kale akulankhula zamaganizo - iwo amalangiza tcheru amene ntchito deta kalekale zida ngakhale kangapo patsiku. Anthu ambiri awa ndi maofesi kuti si nthawi zonse osangalala wokha, ndi kuti palibe wina anaona, kulankhula. Monga amadziwika, chitetezo bwino - kuukira.

Tanthauzo la mawu onyoza chimatanthauza - akumwetulira zoipa umalimbana kulimbitsa kusiyana kuonerera ndipo anapempha zenizeni caustic. Mwa njira, pa Intaneti anthu ambiri kulemba pa maonekedwe kuti gulu ili si nthawi zonse zoipa, nthawi zina zosangalatsa ndi yosangalatsa - kuwuseleula ena, ndi zina zotero, chotero mnyozo mbali zonse.

Kumene, pali kuchotserapo, makamaka malamulo muli mabwenzi apamtima, zimene mukudziwa pafupifupi chilichonse, akuseka Nthaŵi makamaka mu moyo - si chifukwa amanena okha kuti gulu la anthu, omwe unalembedwa. Nthawiyi, zamaganizo akulangizidwa okhwima kuti muzu ndi aone katswiri chifukwa ena, ngati u mukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito lilime zochepa zoipa, kuti sangakwanitse. Nanga mawu onyoza? A mtundu winawake wa chizolowezi.

Nthawi zambiri, ndi Izitu n'zovutitsa ndi amvekere ntchito pa zolankhula zathu n'chimodzimodzi, koma zimenezi si zoona. Kodi monyoza, ife tadutsa kale asanaganize, koma muyenera kumvetsa mmene kumasiyana ndi Izitu n'zovutitsa. Izitu n'zovutitsa, monga ife tikudziwira, nthawi zambiri amapezeka mu mabuku, ndiko kuti, ndi njira kuuza owerenga chinachake chosakondweretsa, koma popanda kuvumbula mu kuwala negative.

Kumene, amvekere kumangwiritsidwanso ntchito ndi olemba, koma Mitundu zosiyana. Olemba ambiri, olemba ayamba chida ichi mu nkhani zawo kuti muzitsutse zenizeni, kuwulula choonadi, mwina pothawa owerenga.

Mwa njira, posachedwapa pa bwanji wailesi inapatulidwa ndi phunziro lathu "amvekere -? Ndichiyani", zomwe anthu analankhula ambiguously. Ine, monga wolemba ndi, chidwi, ndithudi, maganizo a m'maganizo, koma mtsikanayo, timakhulupirira enieni, ngati zambiri.

Choncho iye anandiuza kuti ena phunziro lathu, zamaganizo zoweta anaganiza recreate vuto linalake limene anthu ongoyendayenda mavuto osiyanasiyana a m'maganizo. Pomaliza kunapezeka kuti mosinjirira ankachitira awo "anzake" mu tsokali pamene zochita zawo anapangitsa ovuta kwambiri maganizo.

Akatswiri, tsiku lino, anaona kuti kuseri kwa achilungamo amvekere zambiri chabe abisa udani omwe gwero (munthu) amayesetsa mosamala amabisa nthabwala. Iwo likukhalira kuti amvekere - ndi mkwiyo ndi negativity. Koma kwenikweni, ndi bwino kuganizira chifukwa tanthauzo la mawu akuti "amvekere" mu nkombero wa abwenzi, ife mwina kusokoneza kumasulira Izitu n'zovutitsa. Komabe, ndi anthu zochepa zabwino kungakhale kovuta chinenero. Phunzirolo lili ena choonadi.

Kuti adzimvera. Monyoza chiri, ngati choyipa akumwetulira, umalimbana mizere kunsi zolakwa munthu winayo? Mwina kusewera pa osiyanitsa ntchito ndi olemba, andale ndi ena ambiri kutsogolera kanjedza anthu kuti akonze bwino kuti losaiwalika kulankhula. Sankhani aliyense wa ife pa mlingo zomwe ndi zimene ntchito zida zoopsa zimenezi, zomwe ngati ntchito molakwika, ngati si zinadzala ndi mikangano, kusamvetsetsana, ndi chakukhosi chobisika.