Monogamous - ndani izi? kutanthauza

Monogamous - ndani? Ambiri amakayikira ngati anthu amenewa alipo. Izi ndi zimene tikambirana chiyani m'nkhani ino.

Koyamba, chirichonse lophweka: chimodzi mkazi munthu - munthu amene anathera moyo kukondana wina. Ndipo zikuoneka, izo nzabwino. Kukwatiwa munthu wotereyo - loto. Koma pena, ambiri kunyalanyaza chimwemwe iyi.

chikondi unrequited

Chabwino, ndipo pamene theka lina akukumana chimodzimodzi amphamvu kumverera kwenikweni ndi zoyenera. Koma zambiri zimachitika kuti ziwirizi monogamous chimodzi chokha. Ndipo pambuyo asiyane iye amavutika mumamva.

Monga ulamuliro, limodzi mkazi mwamuna ndi anthu amene anakulira m'banja lolimba osangalala. Posamutsa chitsanzo ichi chinsinsi, iwo simungathe kulingalira sizim'chitikira zotheka. Kusankha kwawo koyamba akhale yekha ndi oona. Choncho, chimodzi-mkazi munthu - mwamuna amene angathe kukonda bwenzi amene analibe ngakhale kumva iye ndi wachifundo kwambiri. Koma choyamba, nayenso, nthawi yomweyo safuna kuti amange ubale osiyana.

Ndipo komabe, kodi ndi - monogamous? Chodabwitsa weniweni kapena lembani?

Koyamba, zilibe aime. Kuzindikira munthu mayi munthu sangathe mwakamodzi. Koma pali zina zapadera:

• Kodi kukana chidwi cha atsikana.
• Adiresi nthawi zonse ntchito mawu abwino. Iwo eni lowopsya, ndipo Musatseke izo.
• Konse payokha. Ngakhale ulendo payekha amachititsa ululu komanso mavuto chifukwa kulekana pafupi.
• Sizigwirizana kuperekedwa kwa abwenzi ndi anzawo.
• Musalire mokweza za chikondi chake ndi kuonetsera zochita.

Monogamous - munthu amene n'zosatheka kusintha. M'pofunika kaya kutenga ndi kusonyezanso, kapena kusiya nthawi yomweyo.

Nkhani ya mkazi amene ali woona kwa munthu wokondedwa moyo wanga wonse, n'zosadabwitsa. Munthu munthu wina-mkazi chidwi.

Kugwirizana ndi akazi okongola

Izi zikutanthauza chimodzi mkazi munthu - Munthu? Choyamba, iye samasintha mkazi wake. Kachiwiri, ali yovuta moyo mfundo - kukhala okhulupirika, chikondi ndi ulemu kwa mkazi amakonda. Ngakhale pa nthawi yomweyo kuyang'ana pa kukongola anthu ena akhoza n'kutiuza ndi kusonyeza zizindikiro chidwi. Iwo yodziwika ndi mosalekeza mu zonse ndi zonse. Izi imakhudzanso ubwenzi ndi zinthu zakale zimene adagawana yovuta kwambiri.

Tsopano zimaonekeratu, izo zikutanthauza chimodzi mkazi munthu. Odzipereka kwa munthu mmodzi mpaka imfa yake. Koma mwatsoka, kulithetsa akutembenukira moyo wake sewero.

chikondi unrequited

Izi zimachitika kawirikawiri. Monogamous - lalikulu wolota, idealizing mnzake wokondedwa zimachitika iye yopanda wabwino. Ndipo hafu inayo wa iwo akhoza alibe konse. Koma kudzipereka kwambiri kotero kuti chimazilala onse pozungulira, ndipo palibe wina kumeneko. Ngakhale popanda reciprocity, munthu anapitiriza kudikira ndi kukhulupirira mu zozizwitsa. Ndipo izi Mukhoza kukoka kwa zaka.

Monogamous kukonda anthu ophweka, popanda reciprocity

Ndipo amenewa chiwembu. Pali zifukwa zingapo, kubwezera Mwachitsanzo, cholinga cha chikondi chake unrequited, monogamous wasankha yolumikizana likuwayenera ndi mlendo. Amene amam'konda. Izi si koipa-angakuchitireni. mabanja amenewa kulibe, ngakhale kukhala waubwenzi ndi amphamvu. Monga ulamuliro, ana akuthandiza apeze.

Kwa unspent, zaka kopivshuyusya chikondi iwo kwa ana awo. Angalambire, muziona, kuteteza, muwakhululukire iwo onse. Ndipo theka lachiwiri ndi wokondwa nazo. Kwa zaka zambiri, chimodzi-mkazi munthu anazolowera masitolo naye pa kukhulupirika yemweyo, ali kulemekeza chisamaliro.

Ndipo ndithudi, ganizoli adzakhala buku, pamene wina-mkazi munthu wakumana mtundu wake.

chokonda

Ngati nthano. Ndipotu, izi ndi kutha osangalala nkhani monogamous. Ndiko kulondola, amphamvu kwambiri wamphumphu. Okonda kwathunthu kwa wina ndi mzake, namiza mu chilakolako ndi mwachikondi.

Anabadwa kwa banja - linga, amene mipanda anamangidwira pa maziko a maganizo oona mtima, kudzipereka, ulemu ndi kumvetsa. Kuti wochezeka chodyera tebulo nthawi adzasonkhanitsa zambiri achibale ndi mabwenzi.

Monogamous wololera, maganizo oyenera kumlingo wodekha ndi phlegmatic.

M'pamenenso yodziwika

mbali zimasiyanitsa monga:

• Onetsani chidwi oona mtima ndi chisamaliro. Sindidzamwanso sikukutanthauza kugonana pa usiku woyamba. Ndipo chikondi si anawazindikira. Kwa zaka zambiri, iwo akhoza chete maganizo awo. Osati chifukwa cha callousness lapansi. Chifukwa chake n'chakuti iwo kusankha makina kamodzi kwa nthawi zonse, kotero kusankha mosamala.
• Ndi ukali titadziwa kuti anyamata, mwaulemu kwa akazi onse ambiri.
• Mulimonse mmene musataye chifukwa kukayikira yekha.

Kumene, ndi makhalidwe abwino. Monogamous koma ali zina zabwino. Tiyeni tione ena mwa makhalidwe oipa:

• Monogamous - sizitanthauza abwino. Monga wina aliyense, akhoza kukhala zolakwika kuti mosakayikira chikaonekera banja.
• Monga tanena ndi mwini. Izi zikhoza kukhala chifukwa nsanje, tingayambe kutsutsana kwambiri ndipo ngakhale asiyane.
• Mnzanga ayenera kukhala okonzeka kulamulira.
• Mu chochitika cha unaziri ife sitiyenera kuyembekezera kuti okondedwa zosavuta kutsalira.
• Inu nthawi zonse kutsatira ndi abwino penti, amene adakwera kudza ndi mwamuna-mkazi munthu.
• Ngati si inu odnolyubkoy sayenera mwina chibwenzi ndi munthu uyu, chifukwa pambuyo kulekana izo sangathenso kumanga ubale osangalala.

Choncho, pokhala ndi ufulu kukoma chilengedwe, inu sitiyenera kuyamba chibwenzi ndi chimodzi mkazi munthu. Ngakhale ndi kusankha chabwino kwa moyo. Anthu awa ali wokhulupirika, waulemu. Ngakhale pambuyo pa zaka zingapo, lidzachita inu ndi sizikakutherani chomwecho ndi chikondi amapatsa ndi Kuthokoza, sadzakhala kulabadira zofooka zina, adzapereka mphatso ndi maluwa.