Kodi kupezerera anthu: zinsinsi malonda

Munthu aliyense amene amayesetsa Mokhumbira mu moyo ndi ntchito, kaya bwino kapena Subconsciously akufuna kuphunzira mmene kupezerera anthu amakhala osiyana. Kodi kusintha anthu kuti akakhulupirire kuchita chinthu chabwino kwa inu? M'nkhaniyi tiona kudzakuthandizani kuzilingalira izo.

Choyamba, munthu ayenera kusankha zimene akufuna kukwaniritsa, zimene chifukwa cha mpheto, iye akuyembekezera. Pa cholinga kutanthauza yozungulira.

Chotsatira mmene kupezerera anthu, ndi kusonkhanitsa waukulu zotheka kuchuluka kwa mfundo za munthu amene mukupita kusintha. Muyenera zambiri zokhudza zotheka za zofuna zawo, zokonda, chikhalidwe bwalo - Mwachidule, mfundo iliyonse zothandiza kuti akhoza kukuthandizani kupezana ndi peculiarities wa khalidwe lake. Kumbukirani kuti pakumva za allegiances, mungachite mwangozi kupanga kuthekera kapena kulankhula pa phunziro ili. mtundu uwu chidwi adzakhala odzipereka ndi kupanga mumalankhula pafupi ndi zofewa.

Kuti mudziwe kupezerera anthu, kuwerenga maganizo sayansi likufotokoza nwandondomeko yomveka kwambiri. Akukhulupirira kuti munthu ayenera kaye chisamaliro chifaniziro chawo ndi maonekedwe. Pamene iwo amati, "nawo zovala ...". N'koyenera, kuyambira chidwi ya gwero ovala bwino ndi kowala. Mukatero kuona kuti ndi diso pa maonekedwe. Choncho dzisamalire!

Tsatirani funso lanu za mmene kupezerera anthu, musaiwale kuti aliyense amafuna njira munthu ndi njira yeniyeni. Choncho, monga zanenedwa, choyamba timudziwe bwino pafupi ndi "wovulalayo", makamaka absentia.

Tsopano, kutolera mfundo, muyenera kuphunzira kulankhula, kutumiza interlocutor m'njira yoyenera. Kudziŵa mmene kusintha anthu, akhoza kuthandiza malangizo awa:

1. Chinthu chovuta mu zikugwira sayansi - ndi, oddly mokwanira, kukhala odziletsa kuti okha ndi maganizo awo. Phunzirani mmene angachitire zimene cholandiridwa ndi tisataye bizinesi itayamba, osati kuchibweretsa icho mpaka mapeto.
2. Kulankhulana ndi kofunika kuyamba ndi zopempha yaing'ono ( "Bweretsani, chonde ..." "Open, ngati inu chonde," etc.). Kamodzi gwero wakwaniritsa zimene anapempha, zikomo iye ndi kuthekera okhudza kukoma mtima wake. Nthawi zonse kutsatira imfa ya zopempha Kuthokoza. Ndi iwo - chida sioneka kuti anati munthu kudzimva kufunika, ndipo amayesetsa kuthandiza inu.
3. Kumbukirani kuti muyenera kulankhulana bwino za anthu amene amayambitsa muli maganizo amenewa. Ndi mosemphanitsa. Man ndi njira yakuti, kuyamba kulankhula za munthu wabwino pamaso pake, nayamba Subconsciously kuyang'ana amalakwitsa. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kukhazikitsa wina ndi mnzake, akulankhula za otsiriza kuposa nkhani zosangalatsa ndi zabwino, za zipambano ndi luso lake.
4. Mu sayansi ya mmene kupezerera anthu, wapatali kusewera yaing'ono "ntchito zabwino" Bweretsani kuno zina mwa mbali ina ndi khofi ndi mkate kapena kum'patsa ntchito iliyonse zofunika trinket a. Izi kutembenukira munthu mu angakuthandizeni. Kumbukirani kuti anthu nthawi zonse iwo amene ali abwino kwa iwo, ndipo Subconsciously kuyamba kuganizira anthu abwino ndipo zabwino.
5. Kulankhula kulimbikitsa interlocutor anasonyeza mawu maganizo monga "Wabwino", "Wabwino lingaliro!", "Angamvetse izi ndani!", Etc. Izi kuwonjezeka mlingo wa anthu ofunika ndi kudzidalira. Ndiye, mokoma maganizo anu, mukhoza kale kutumiza malangizo mukufuna, ndipo iye angaganize kuti mfundo kotheratu wake.

Pomaliza, masekondi makumi atatu munthu akhoza kuganizira chinthu chimodzi kuti pazipita lapansi. Ndiye, ngati izo si naye, iye anazimitsa chinthu china. Choncho, nkofunika kwa inu mu theka miniti kuti chidwi ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zake zonse: maonekedwe, kukambirana, nkhope. M'tsogolo bwino kungakupatseni.