Kambiranani: msholimstvo - ndi tchimo, ndipo ndikunyoza kwambiri

Ngakhale osakhulupirira nthawi zambiri amazindikira zowona zauchimo. Pamapeto pake, mabuku ndi cinema nthawi zambiri amatchula. Komabe, anthu amakonda kuiwala kuti machimo sali okha kwa anthu - ali ochulukirapo kuposa asanu ndi awiri, ndipo machimo oterowo amaonedwa kuti ndi olondola. Chinthu china n'chakuti mavuto omwe amabwera chifukwa cha iwo ndi ocheperapo ndipo nthawi zambiri amaperekedwa ndi wochimwayo yekha, choncho malingaliro oipawa amawoneka kuti ndi "ofunikira" pang'ono. Panthawi yomweyi, zifukwa zoterezi zimatsutsidwa ndi tchalitchi, osati chifukwa chachabechabe. Zina mwa izo pali mtundu wa "mzheloimstvo" - ichi ndi tchimo, ndipo, poyamba, ndizoopsa kwa munthuyo mwiniyo ndi anzake apamtima kwambiri.

Kodi mawu awa akutanthauza chiyani?

Chiyambi chake chikugwirizana ndi mawu achi Slavonic akale "mshani". Pali matanthauzidwe angapo a izo. Chinthu chofala kwambiri ndi chinthu, koma nthawi zina chimachiritsidwa kwambiri, ndiye chimatanthauza katundu. Mpingo umatanthawuza mwa mawu awa makamaka phindu, phindu ndi phindu. Kotero, zikhoza kunenedwa kuti mshoydomstvo - ndi zinthu, kudalira pa zinthu, kufunitsitsa kuziunjikira, kusonkhanitsa ndi zina zotero kuti zisatayike (mwa njira iliyonse: osagulitsa, palibe mphatso, kugwiritsa ntchito ngakhale kutanthauza, chifukwa kuchokera kwa womaliza chinthucho chimabwera Zopanda phindu, ndi malemimets omwe sali nawo).

Mitundu ya tchimo

Mpingo wophweka komanso wopanda vuto umatanthawuzira ngati chiphuphu. Muyiyi, wochimwa amatenga ziphuphu ndi zinthu (chitsanzo chotsatira ndi "ana a greyhound"). Chotsatira ndicho kusonkhanitsa mphatso, ndipo zimasungidwa, ngakhale ngati sizikufunikira kwenikweni. Munthu amayamba ngakhale kupempha kapena kutulutsa zinthu kuchokera kwa opereka, ngakhale atapeza zowona zabodza. Komabe, njira yovuta kwambiri, pamene mshoydomstvo - ndi kusonkhanitsa kodabwitsa kwa zinthu zonse motsatira, kukoka m'nyumba ndi kusungirako zonse zomwe munthu angakwanitse. Mu Soviet nthawi imeneyi khalidwe lotchedwa "Plyushkin's syndrome".

Poyamba mseloimstvo - tchimo, womwe unayesedwa kwa amonke, kusonkhanitsa zinthu m'maselo, sanagwirizane ndi mndandanda wamtendere. Makamaka zimakhudza zinthu zomwe sizimagwira ntchito yamtengo wapatali, kapena zokongoletsa mosafunika, zinthu zokongola za tsiku ndi tsiku. Komabe, kuyambira apo lingaliro la miscegenation lapangidwa mwinamwake ndipo linatanthauzira kwatsopano.

Ndipo nchifukwa ninji ndizochimwa?

Abambo auzimu amapereka zifukwa zingapo zomwe zimakhala zovuta ngati zolakwa. Zambiri mwazo ndizo kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu pofuna cholinga chawo. Pambuyo pa msewu wonse - ndizo kusungirako zinthu zomwe zinagulidwa, zogulidwa kapena zoperekedwa kuti zithandize anthu. Kuphwanya cholinga ndiko kunyalanyaza malangizo a Ambuye. Chotsatira: zinthu ziyenera kugulidwa ngati kuli kofunikira, osati n'cholinga chokhutiritsa chizoloŵezi chowawa. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri - munthu amakhudzidwa ndi zinthu, amayamba kuwatumikira ndi kunyengerera kwake, ngakhale kuti ayenera kutumikira Mulungu. Apa ndi koyenera kukumbukira za "musadzipangire nokha fano", ndipo kusungunula kotereku kumakhala kofanana ndi kupembedza mafano okongoletsedwa.

Khalidwe loyipa kapena matenda?

Mankhwala amakono amayamba kukhulupirira kuti mossiness ndi chimodzi mwa mitundu ya matenda a maganizo. Ndipo ilo lagawidwa mu angapo subtypes. Mmodzi wa iwo ankatchedwa kuti syllogism. Amakhudzidwa ndi matendawa, anthu amapeza zinthu zambiri zomwe samazigwiritsa ntchito. Ndipo kutayidwa kwa malo kumapita kutali kwambiri moti anthu okhalamo sangathe kuyenda mozungulira nyumba, kapena kukhala ndi moyo wabwinobwino: malo onsewa ndi ophatikizapo zinthu zina. Chizindikiro china cha nthambi imeneyi ndi kusasintha kwa zinthu zomwe zimapezeka mu muluwu.

Komabe, iyi sindiyo yokha fomu imene imasakanikirana. Tanthauzo la liwu limeneli limasiyana mosiyana ngati munthu sakusonkhanitsa zinyalala, koma amazigula. Chokhumba chofuna kugula nthawi zonse chimatchedwa "shopaholism" mu dziko lamakono. Mu mankhwala, mtundu uwu wa mashing umatchedwa "oniomania." Ndi iye, ziribe kanthu kwa munthu, ndikuti, ndi chifukwa chiyani kugula, kungochita izo. Kawirikawiri, kugula sikugwiritsidwe ntchito patapita nthawi. Koma shopaholics akhoza kukambirana za iwo kwa maola ambiri, pamene akudziwa m'masitolo ndi nthawi yanji zomwe zogulitsidwa, ndipo iwo nthawi ndi nthawi amadabwa kuti adagula chiyani.

Mwachiwonekere, kukankhira sikumba, osati kupha, osati chigololo ... Komabe, kukhala ndi munthu wolemedwa ndi tchimo lotere kumakhala kosavuta, komanso kosasangalatsa, komanso kosautsa. Choncho ngati mukukunyengerera kuti mugwiritse ntchito ndalama kapena kubweretsa kunyumba chilichonse chimene mungathe kuchita, taganizirani: kodi mukufuna kukhala mzheloimtsem? Monga momwe zilili ndi chizolowezi chilichonse, zidzakhala zovuta kuchotsa izi.