Colin monyang'ama, "kwakukulu chikhululukiro": ndemanga pa njira ya

Kumbukirani zopeka filimu ndi Arnold Schwarzenegger amatchedwa "Total Kumbukirani"? Tayerekezani zinthu n'zosiyana - inu kuiwala zinthu zonse zoipa zimene zinachitika pa moyo. Kodi moyo wanu kusintha? Ndithudi, iye akanapeza nthawi yabwino. Inu sangayembekezere njomba moipa anthu akhonda mantha kukhumudwa, osati zowawa nkhawa zolakwa tsogolo ndi ndifotokoze mavuto.

Kodi n'zotheka? Buku la "kwakukulu Kukhululuka," wolemba ananena kuti izo ndi zenizeni, izo mungafunire. Pomaliza, zonse zofunika - ndi kuwerenga ntchito, amene analemba Colin monyang'ama. "Kwakukulu chikhululukiro 'umafuna pochitika masitepe khumi ndi zitatu, ndiyeno inu kukhala munthu wosiyana. Njira imeneyi si achipembedzo, maganizo kapena esoteric kolowera. Sitepe ndi sitepe, akuyendayenda chakukhosi wanu amachititsa pokhala ndi olakwa maganizo, mudzatha polekanitsa ndi maganizo zosafunika ndi inu kukhala mfulu.

The archetype a wovulalayo

Kodi mukuganiza kuti zochitika zimene zidachitika m'mbuyomu, layering ena amaonekera pa lerolino? Mwachitsanzo, munthu anathyola mwendo wake. Mafupa zinaphatikizidwa, koma anakhalabe limp, nthawi zina kumaonekera. Komabe, ngakhale kuti thupi mwina zokumana nazo zathu zauzimu kukhoza kukhudza kwambiri pa moyo kuposa thupi.

Malinga ndi wolemba ganizo Colin Tripping, aliyense wa ife amanyamula kuda chakukhosi zinthu zonse moyo. Aliyense ali ndi archetype a wovulalayo. Ziribe kanthu momwe amphamvu mwina ena yekha, wotengedwa chifukwa chokumbukira ubwana cha zisalungamo za ena.

Chipongwe pa makolo, aphunzitsi, aphunzitsi, anzawo, abwenzi amasonkhana ngati katundu wolemera. Kodi ndi katundu zenizeni akhoza kukhala pa twente munthu? Pa zaka makumi anayi? Choncho kwakukulu chikhululukiro ndi njira yokhayo ufulu wa katundu ndi Musalole kuyang'ana pa moyo ndi maso atsopano.

Ndani ayenera kukhululuka?

Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti muyenera kukhululukira, chifukwa m'pofunika olakwa wathu. Koma wina anati monyang'ama. "Kwakukulu chikhululukiro" kudzatithandiza mu malo oyamba kwa inu. Aliyense chiyani kadzakupwetetekani inu, mwina zana nthawi kale anaiwala za izo ndipo anasamukira ku mzinda wina kapena dziko.

Kudana kulibe kulikonse kupatula mu malingaliro anu. Likukhalira, ngati simungathe n'kuiwala munthu, kunyansidwa adzakhala nanu ndi kutenga mphamvu zanu, chimene chikanakhoza kudza imathandiza.

Zoipa kwa munthu amene amapatsa chokhumudwitsa

Tiyeni tione moyo wanu. Ngati ndinu mwamtheradi osangalala munthu amene amakhuta zonse ndi zonse zachimwemwe, ndiye m'nkhani ino, komanso buku lotchedwa "kwakukulu Kukhululuka," Sikuli kwa inu.

Koma munthu wotero akukumana lero pa yabwino zikwi. The ena zimene tili nazo? Makolo losazindikirali, mokweza chonyansa anansi, ya iwo amene adakunyoza anzake, bwana-wankhanza, aphunzitsi opusa. anthu onsewa, ayi, ayi, inde, ndi kuponyera mmwamba zokumana nazo maganizo. Mukhoza mlandu mu mavuto awo, koma mosavuta kukumba mu ndekha kupeza mphamvu zokhululukira wopalamulayo, ndi kuyamba wina watsopano, si wolemetsedwa ndi moyo chilichonse. Chotero kodi muyenera kuchita kuti ayeretsedwe zolemetsa zosafunikira mu masitepe 13?

Gawo 1 ndi 2 - ife kufotokoza ndi pano

Mu stepi ino, muyenera kulankhula mokweza kuti zimene zimakupangitsani inu amphamvu maganizo. Fotokozani osati Machitidwe anachita ndi inu ndi Wonyoza wanu, komanso mmene kuti mukukumana ndi nkhaniyi.

Tangoganizani chokhumudwitsa mu mawonekedwe a ululu kuti chimamangirira penapake pa thupi lanu. Tsekani maso anu ndi kuyesa kumva, kumene zimapweteka. Ikani kwa pachikhatho cha.

Gawo 3 ndi 4 - kufuula ndi kudziwa

Chachitatu - Musamangocheza. Kulira, kulira ngati ndikufuna - kulankhula mwachipongwe. kwakukulu chikhululukiro luso sakhala wangwiro kusonyeza maganizo awo.

Chinthu chachinayi - mfundo imeneyi. Kodi mukuganiza kuti zonse zochitika zimene zimachitika mu moyo, mwangozi? Zipangizo zoyendera magetsi kwakukulu chikhululuko kuchokera Colin monyang'ama atakupatsani kuzindikira kuti ngakhale zinthu ngati zosasangalatsa monga nkhanza ndi chipongwe anthu ena, simuli mwamwayi. Kumvetsa ndi kuvomereza mfundo kuti ndi chifukwa wanu wauzimu, ndi kukula.

Mfundu 5 ndi 6 - kumvetsa ndi kuvomereza

Kuyankha sitepe wachisanu ku funso lotsatira: "Kodi mukuona kuti chakukhosi mumalephera moyo?" Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa mbali yofunika kwambiri ya dongosolo monga kukhululukidwa kwakukulu. Herman Semeniuk ukadaulo wake lilinso kuyankha funso ili. Kuzindikira izi zikuthandizani inu msanga mukufuna kuchotsa maganizo osafunika.

Chotsatira - kusiya chiweruzo. Kuiwala zoti dziko zoipa ndi zabwino. Chinachitika - chabwino, izo zinachitika, tsopano chinthu chakale.

Gawo 7 ndi 8 - kusaweruza nokha

Nthawi zambiri, ndikuganiza za nkhanza awo, anthu anauza ndekha: "Chabwino, amuchita ine kulondola, chifukwa ine sindiri kutali woyera. Choyenera ine izo! "Bola ngati inu simukhululukira nokha, inu simukhululukira anthu ena. Kumbukirani, inu ndi chiyani.

Ngati mukufuna kusintha, chonde, koma kuvomereza nokha, chikondi ndi kukhululukira. Kusaweruza nokha ndi kuunikira. Making akutembenukira masitepe onse 13 kukhululukidwa kwakukulu, kupereka ulemu wapadera kwa sitepe chiwiri. Akhululukire onse awo. Ichi ndi theka nkhondo.

sitepe ndi chitatu kumagwirizana ndi chiwiri - ngati inemwini pamene ine ndikupepesa. Inu ndinu chuma chachikulu mu dziko ili, ndipo ndinu woyenera chikondi mu malo oyamba yekha.

9 ndi 10 sitepe - wosalungama wanu ndi Mphunzitsi wanu

Tsopano inu mukhoza kuganiza monzama kwambiri. Kudana ndi wopalamulayo alowe mmoyo mwanu, osati kuti kubweretsa inu mmene zoipa. Zinali phunziro kuti mukhale anzeru, ndi munthu amene wakulakwirani - mphunzitsi wanu. Mukhoza, monga mwana, kupitiriza sulk ndipo akhoza 'kukula' ndi kuona zinthu lonse kuchokera kunja.

Pano pali chitsanzo. Nthawi zonse kupeza otsutsa kwa bwana. Ngati zonse zabwino kuntchito, ndipo malipiro ndi yabwino, ndiponso ubwenzi ndi anzake, koma wamkulu monga mumamva. Simuli mlandu, inu mukudziwa kuti inu muli basi wantchito wangwiro. Kodi kukhala bwanji kukhululukira bwana? Monga kumasula zinthu. Ndikuganiza, osati chizindikiro cha kaya nthawi inu ntchito, kupeza latsopano kumvetsa bwana?

Kapena pano ndi chitsanzo china. Ndinu wotanganidwa kugwira ntchito zapakhomo, mukutha moyo wake onse mu ofesi yokambirana ndi madokotala. Ndiyeno inu mudziwe kuti mkazi wanu wokondedwa wasintha. Kodi kuchita, mmene kumukhululukira? Osati chifukwa ngati zinachitika kuti sanali kulabadira kwa izo? Chifukwa pachiyambi inu zasintha ndi ntchito zawo?

sitepe chakhumi - ndiko kuvomereza mfundo yakuti wosalungama wanu - anthu olemekezeka amene basi udindo wawo kusintha moyo wanu. Ichi ndi chimene amapereka Colin monyang'ama. "Kwakukulu chikhululukiro" - ichi ndi pulogalamu limene likuyenda kokha pamene inu osati angathe kukhululukira anthu oipa, komanso kuzindikira kuti iwo ndi moipirapo kuposa inu. Inde, iwo achita mbali zoipa mu moyo wanu. Koma osati chifukwa ngati munayamba bwino, mphamvu lero? Kodi inu kukhala ndi chimene chidzachitike kwa inu, inu sadzapulumuka kamodzi nthawi yobvuta?

Khumi ndi sitepe akhumi - inu kuchira

Pa sitepe khumi ndi kuvomereza chakuti mu chochitika chilichonse ngakhale akumane kwambiri, ndi Divine kapena Apamwamba chiwonetsero cha nzeru ndi chikondi. Chilichonse chichitike - choncho m'pofunika choyamba inu. Popanda vuto limeneli, inu sadzaona kuwala, anzeru, bwino, braver, wamphamvu.

Yankhani funso - Kodi mumaona kuti chakukhosi ukuchoka kuti kumva bwino, n'kosavuta? Ichi ndi chinthu akhumi cha pulogalamuyi "kwakukulu chikhululukiro." Reviews a anthu wodutsapo msonkhano pa monyang'ama wa amanena kuti yankho likubwerera mosavuta. Ndipo yankho - "Inde." Mukaona zinthu maso osiyana, kusiya ziweruzo zawo, chirichonse zikuwoneka osiyana. Ndi osalungama, ndi maganizo anu pa nkhani imeneyi. Mukhoza kumvetsa kuti zinali osati mwachisawawa, ndipo ngakhale yovomerezeka, zochokera chakuti anali kapena zinthu.

Chinthu chomaliza ndi chakhumi ndi chitatu

Chinthu chomaliza amapezeka palokha. Inu monga mukudziwa kuti chinachake mkati inu zasintha bwino, monga anasintha malangizo ake otaya mphamvu. Pa gawo khumi ndi chitatu wa mbiri yakalekale amapita kuti m'mbuyomu, limayenda mu chisokonezeko. Mphamvu mumathera pa mavuto kutafuna, kumvetsa ake, akumasulidwa. Ndipo tsopano, taonani, latsopano mungathere wanu ufulu nthawi chilengedwe, chilengedwe, maloto.

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Kuyambira ndili mwana, ambirife anasonkhanitsa resentments. Ngati ife kulingalira chikumbumtima chathu monga kwapadera malire, ife pafupifupi tsiku lililonse kuwonjezera wachikulire, njenjete zinthu, zidole wosweka, sitifunanso mfundo ndi zinyalala.

Penapake nduna ya mabuku, zodzikongoletsera, zovala zatsopano, koma pakati pa ichi "zinthu" zonse zimene mukufuna, ndipo sanapezeke. The njira ya "kwakukulu chikhululukiro" amapereka kwa bwino kuchotsa zinyalala ndi kupanga malo okha ndi moyo achimwemwe. Musafunse mafunso okhudza amene akumufuna, kuyambira ndi zofunika.

olakwa wanu - osati anthu oipa, kapena ngakhale mphamvu. Ayi, awa ndi anthu amodzimodzi, monga inu, monga kwa iwo udindo wapadera - kuphunzitsa inu chinachake. Kumene, kuphunzira akhoza kukhala ndi "karoti", koma ngati muli ndi ana kapena ziweto, ndiye inu mukumvetsa kuti "ndodo" nthawizina mosalephera. Choncho, musaweruze choipa mwa anthu anu, sindikufuna zisoni zawo - n'zofunika kwa inu zosachepera anzanu. Pamafunika phunziro, ndi olakwa, kupweteka ndi kuwononga mtima wanu wonse basi apite. Ndi yosavuta kuchita, ndi masitepe 13 kwakukulu chikhululukiro pulogalamu Colin monyang'ama.