Pessimist - ndi amene: a realist kapena woluza?

Zinthu oipa monga inu mukhoza kulingalira, zonse ndi woipa kwambiri ... Izi si nthabwala koma ndi zenizeni zimene zingafunike anasintha anthu zonse wozingwa-apamwamba. Chifukwa chiyani? Tiyeni kuthana: a pessimist - ndani? Realist, amene maganizo limveke, kapena woluza chisoni, kuika ndodo wapakamwa pa gudumu onse amene anayesa kuchita kanthu?

Kuyamba kufotokoza maganizo oti "pessimist". Ndani uyu? Man ndi mbali khalidwe ndi makhalidwe omwe yafotokozedwera maweruzo kwenikweni zoipa zokhudza zochitika m'moyo. Chinenero cha Chirasha, mawu wabwera kupyola Latin. Pessimus amatanthauza "koopsa."

Mtima woipa - tione moyo pa ena, yopapatiza ngodya maganizo, pamene chitukuko chilichonse chikuchitika, monga munthu pa nkhani yachisoni kwambiri.

Pessimists yodziwika ndi kukayikira, kuopa kulakwa apa - mtima wotsutsana zochita za anthu padziko iye, maganizo pamalo a. zizindikiro zimenezi ndi kudziwa ndondomeko maganizo a munthu amene anatsogolera anthu pa zochitika za munthu. Pamene munthu akhulupirira kuti vuto iye - zochitika ku gulu la "nthawi zonse" ndi kupambana - "konse", kuwachitira mmene zinthu yokhalitsa, umenewu ndi wa pessimist. Ndani angatsutse mwina chabe mwakhalapo mu maonekedwe oipa, koma kodi mumayenda amavomereza izo.

Kulephera pessimists kupereka, monga adafuchita, kufotokoza iliyonse chilengedwe, pamene tsoka chinachitika kwathunthu mu malo ena. Mwachitsanzo, chinachake chonga: "Ndinadziwa izo, ine nthawizonse zonse zimapita cholakwika, mwinamwake iwo sakanakhoza kukhala ...".

Asayansi, palibe vuto kuti: pessimist, amene - ndi realist kapena woluza. Uyu ndi munthu amene alidi zambiri kuthana ndi mavuto, koma ndi zosayembekezereka mbali bwino.

Ndi, choyamba, ndi maganizo amene ankabwerera pessimist sadzakhala kugwedezeka, koma chifukwa cha munthu amene amakhala ndi nkhawa nthawi zonse. Kachiwiri, negativistov, kaya iye ndi wanzeru, zambiri kovuta Mokhumbira malonda aliyense kucitika. Zolephera chigawo chachitatu pessimist - zotsatirapo za zinthu za m'mbuyomo. Kusokoneza wamanjenje dongosolo ndipo amadwaladwala ndipo mwina woipa kuposa munthu akhoza kukhulupirira.

Ndichiyembekezo mtima woipa mwapadera njira thanzi. A anthu oipa okonda 70% sitichedwa mtima kuposa optimists lapansi. A kufa msanga - 60%. Mwa zina, mtima woipa okhazikika kulimbikitsa aliyense, ngakhale lightest wopsinjika zinthu zinali a m'nthawi yake yonse. Ndipo ndi m'malo njira amanyansidwa amakhudza umoyo: mu kochulukira kuchuluka m'magazi anaponyedwa kunja ndi mahomoni tochepa ndi zikuwonjezereka masiku ano, womwe amatsogolera ndi kuwonjezeka mu magazi ndi magazi kukhuthala. Ndipo kuti preconditions pa chitukuko cha matenda a mtima.

Kusuta pessimist n'kovuta kwambiri kuposa optimists, kuti inunso sizimapanga anthu abwino ndi athanzi.

mtima woipa anthu, monga, kumathandiza kukhalabe Kuzindikira ena. Koma mbali pepala la ndalama, komanso ambiri a nzeru zapamwamba munthu sizikuyenda bwino, si ofunika mtengo, kuika kumbuyo kwake. Choncho muyenera kutenga mwayi wa ntchito zawo poyerekezera ndi kuganiza luso chifukwa zawo phindu - chidaliro khalidwe ndipo ayenera kuphunzira pa msinkhu uliwonse.