Ntchito nkhondo, zaphindu ndi zowononga katundu

Nkhondo - ozoloŵereka ndi bwino kuti mfundo zonse, chifukwa aliyense wa ife ndi vuto nkhondo pa moyo wawo, kuntchito, pa msewu, etc. nkhondo ndi amatipeza zogwirizana ndi mafunde mofulumira kutengeka ndi nkhawa, choncho nthawi analemba yekha zowononga zowononga katundu. Komabe, zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti mbali zonse za kusagwirizanako: mthunzi ndi chenicheni. Kusiya pambali ntchito zoipa mikangano mu moyo wa munthu ndi iwonso mbali zonse zabwino.

Kapangidwe ka mkangano

Choyamba, mkangano - ndi zokoma chitukuko. mawu imeneyi imagwira ntchito mikangano chikhalidwe. Ndipotu, ngati inu mukuganiza chiyani za izo, ndi kukangana ndi otsutsa gulu lotchedwa, monga ulamuliro, magawano mkati ndi mikangano, ndi iwo, motero, nthawi zonse, ndi kuwalimbikitsa kuti mpikisano ndi chitukuko cha luso.

Nkhondo - ndi zokoma kusintha. ntchitozo angatchedwe mbendera nkhondo. N'zofunika kuti ndizipange izo mu nthawi yoganizira zotsutsana ndi, kuyesa kuthetsa vutolo pamaso kumakhaladi insoluble ndi "zowononga". Awa "kuyitana" mu ubale lotha ndi mikangano woyamba ndi kusamvetsetsana pakati pa anthu a pabanja, makolo ndi ana. Ndipo sibwino kuzamitsa pa anayambika zinthu waliuma ndi kuumirira, ndi kusonyeza komanso kumvetsa zimayambitsa mikangano ndi kusamvana, koma iwo amakhala chizindikiro cha kusintha ndi kupeza njira zatsopano m'banjalo.

Komabe n'zotheka kuonetsetsa mikanganoyi ntchito zabwino monga binder ndi kulankhula. Nthawi zambiri chifukwa cha mkangano, zikubweretsa nkhondo ndi kutineneza ndi ubwenzi maganizo. mwakuwoneka banal zinthu komwe osadziŵika mpaka mapeto a kumverera "adzasiyidwa" mawu, phindu lomwe si bwino anafotokoza mu kukambirana, ndi zotsatira zoipa kwambiri, kusagwirizana mu banja kapena pakati pa anzawo. Koma nthawi zambiri chabe kukambirana moona lomwe limakhala "yojambula" timakhala, atsegula mfundo zatsopano za umunthu, sankadziwika, ndipo akutitsogolera kuti rapprochement ndi mlingo watsopano ubale.

mbali zabwino za nkhondo wakhala anamaliza ndi kuthekera "kuchira" ubale ndi kutsegulidwa kwa ena atsopano, panobe osadziwika chikomokere palokha potency (ichi likukhudza kwambiri choyamba kubadwa kwa nkhondo intrapersonal). Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zambiri ndi akatswiri mu kukambirana ndi wodwala amagwiritsa chipangizo utithandize zinachitikira ndi kukulitsa ndi kale kwambiri zotsutsana mkati, "akugwera" umunthu ndi kuyambitsa nkhondo mkati. Amachititsa munthu kupitirira zochitika maganizo amene ali chimodzimodzi zowononga ndi kufunafuna njira, nthawi wopita ku anapeza mwayi. Komabe, timawauza kuti phwando ndi wochepa yekha kwa akatswiri odziwa, ndikofunika kuti malire ndipo musati agwera munthu wovuta boma maganizo, imene sangathe kupeza kubwereketsa zaphindu.

Inu kusankha zinthu zabwino nkhondo chikhalidwe. Izi makamaka ntchito malo osonkhaniranapo gulu (makamaka chidani vuto magulu ena okhudzidwa). mukakhala mikangano nthawi zambiri chifukwa kulenga mu coalitions gulu limene limalimbikitsa kulolerana mu ntchito wamba gulu la anthu onse timu ndipo amapereka aliyense mwayi woonetsa luso lawo.

Komabe, sitiyenera kuiwala za ntchito yoipa ya nkhondo, makamaka pamene intrapersonal ndipo kumaphatikizapo zomwe zimakhudza chitukuko ndi zhizneosuschestvlenie adalinso. Pa udindo zaphindu nkhondo akhoza kungolankhula pamene chifukwa cha kumvetsa zimayambitsa, ndi kugonjetsa mavuto chifukwa cha iwo, munthu amakhala odziwa zambiri ndi okhwima, more "anaumitsa" ndi chikhalidwe ndinazolowera, wokonzeka kuchita watsopano ndi ntchito. Izi ndi zowona poyerekezera mikangano mu timu. The gulu cohesion, ndi lalikulu kwambiri akhoza kunachitika nkhondo, kotero kuzindikira zimayambitsa awo ndi bwino Maganizo a nkhondo vuto - ichi ndi njira yokha kupulumutsa gulu ndi ntchito yake udindo.