Ndi kudzipha, zimayambitsa Kodi

Mwatsoka, chodabwitsa kudzipha, limapezeka pa nthawi zambiri zokwanira. Pankhaniyi, anthu ambiri kudzipha okha, malingana ndi kuwerengera, mu unyamata. Mukudziwa zomwe kudzipha ndi chimene chimachititsa izo - n'kofunika kwambiri, makamaka kwa anthu amene amagwira ntchito ndi achinyamata (aphunzitsi, akatswiri a maganizo , etc ...), komanso makolo.

chifukwa kuti nthawi zambiri achinyamata mwadala kumana okha a moyo ndi m'badwo uno khalidwe Kusakhazikika kwa psyche, kudzikonda kufufuza cholinga cha kukhalapo kwake, maganizo amphamvu (kuphatikizapo okhudzana ndi ubale lotha). Komabe, akulu adziphe, makamaka chifukwa mavuto akutulukira kuti ngati n'ngosathetseka (mangawa, chilekano, ndi zina zotero. D.). Nthawi zina, kudzipha singalifotokoze matenda mwapang'onopang'ono maganizo kapena zochita zinthu psychoactive.

Ziyenera kukhala pang'ono tione mawu. Pansi kudzipha kumvetsetsa osati walekana ndi moyo wake, koma anayesa zinalephereka (zamaganizo kuzitcha izo chosakwanira kudzipha). Onani zimene anthu ali kwenikweni wokonzeka kudzipha, ndi kovuta. Kuti timvetse zimenezi, munthu ayenera kudziwa zimene zimayambitsa kudzipha. Ena mwa iwo ndi imfa ya munthu wokondedwa, achipembedzo tsankho, maganizo. Mu achinyamata nthawi zina ngati chinthu chaching'ono monga chikondi unrequited kapena kukangana ndi achibale awo. Zikatero, iwo Choncho kuyesera kudzatunga chidwi pa anthu, kuti "kulanga" iwo, kusazindikira mpaka mapeto a amene achita, kapena kuyembekezera chipulumutso.

Izo ziyenera ananena kuti woonekeratu kudzipha. Ndi ulendo wa walekana ndi moyo, zomwe kawirikawiri anakonza njira kuti akope tcheru, nthawi zambiri, si anabweretsa ku mapeto. Anthu reshivshiesya zimenezi, nthawi zambiri amayamba kulankhula za kudzipha, kuyesera bwino kwa anthu ena amene anaima, kuti kuwaletsa. Nthawi zambiri, chifukwa cha kudzipha kuno ndi mtundu wa "akuyendeni pansi". Choncho, achinyamata akhoza kunena kuti makolo: "Musapereke (kulola, kugula ...) Ndine ichi kapena icho, ndidzadula woimbayo wake ..." Inde, pa dzanja limodzi, tiyenera kukhulupirira kwambiri mawu amenewo, koma Komano, munthu amene analankhula mawu amenewa, osati kupeza kufunika, kwenikweni kuyesera kuchita chirichonse iwo.

Kupewa kudzipha lero zogwirizana kwambiri ndipo umachitika mu sukulu ndi chikhalidwe, makamaka pomwe pali chimadalira pa chiopsezo. Ukugwira ofuna kudzipha kwenikweni zamaganizo, azamisala, komanso aphunzitsi. Kota a milandu walekana ndi moyo anachita atamwa mankhwala psychoactive, n'kofunika ntchito kuti kupewa mankhwala osokoneza bongo pakati pa achinyamata.

Kuyankhula za kuwerenga maganizo kudzipha, ziyenera anati, ndicho kudzipha yodzibisa. Mu mawu amenewa amatanthauza odzipha khalidwe la anthu, ndipo tingayambe imfa ya moyo. Zikuphatikizapo galimoto kudya, ntchito mankhwala, waukali, ndi zina zotero. D. Childs, anthu awa kutsatira makhalidwe zoopsa, chifukwa cha zomwe izo zikhoza kuchitika ngozi chifukwa mu imfa. Izi zikhoza kukhala chiwonetsero cha kusafuna chikumbumtima moyo.

Mukudziwa zomwe kudzipha ndi chimene chimachititsa izo - n'kofunika kwambiri chifukwa kupewa vuto limeneli. Izo analimbikitsanso kuganizira ziwalo za khalidwe la munthu amene angasonyeze chilakolako chake kudzatsiriza moyo wake. Childs, woona kudzipha kuti zochitika wanga kuti, nthawi zambiri amayamba kunena za imfa, abwela kuti adzaone okondedwa ake, ngakhale sikokwanira kulankhula. Powona machenjezo, achibale ndi mabwenzi ayenera kulankhula kwa munthu, kuyesera kuti ndikulangizeni iye kufunsa akatswiri a zamaganizo, kudziwa zifukwa zomwe kumukankha iye paulendo, kuyesa kuthandiza athetse vutoli.