Mungayankhule bwanji zokhudza? Chiphunzitso ndi machitidwe

Ndi umunthu kufuna ardently kulankhula ndi ena. Sitingathe kumanga popanda mogwirizana yoyenera kudzidalira ndi kumva kwenikweni zoyenera. Choncho, anthu amene amavutika anapatsidwa mgonero, ndimaona ngati olekanitsidwa ndi zina choncho wosasangalala. Kodi n'zotheka kusintha zinthu? Kodi kukambirana ndi anthu, kotero kuti asapita anali wabwino kwambiri?

chakuti zofuna zosiyanasiyana zosangalatsa kukambirana, kotero muyenera kulabadira chilichonse ndi zinthu flexibly. Malamulo si ambiri, ndipo ambiri amaona kuti iwo intuitively, ngakhale zolakwa amakonda kuchita.

Kodi kulankhula, kukhala zosangalatsa? Choyamba, nkhani zambiri n'kofunika. Kukhala yokwanira bwino - kuzindikira. Ndiko kuti, muyenera kuwadziwa bwino nkhani ya kukambirana. Zochita wanga uphungu, zinali choncho pamene mkazi mwadala kuwerenga tsiku lililonse anthu mzati kuti anatengera m'munda wa anzake kuntchito. Choncho kuyesedwa wokonzeka kuuza anzake kapena mabwenzi ake anali ndi chidwi kuyankhula kwa inu.

Koma chidwi Sichikupezeka chakuti mfundo zothandiza. Funso ndi momwe nsembeyi. Yesani maganizo anu maganizo, koma matupi dera ziyenera kulamulidwa. Unikani mawu chachikulu, mungathe kubwereza kangapo gawo lofunika kwambiri pa mawu ake. Kodi kulankhula zimakhudza mmene ankafunira? Izi mfundo kuphunzira kwa zaka mchitidwewu, koma ndi bwino kuyesa kwa maganizo nokha vuto la interlocutor lapansi. Komanso kumvetsa zimene mungathe mu izi nkhawa zinthu. Kodi kumukhumudwitsa zimene akufuna kuthetsa vutoli. Ndiye, pa angagwiritsire ntchito chidziwitso cha izi, kusunga diso pa nkhope ndi manja kusintha makhalidwe awo. Ngati inu kuphunzira momwe molondola ndikuganiza boma maganizo - udzapeza kwambiri bwinobwino zambiri kulankhula. Pakuti zolinga zimenezi, mungathe kugwiritsa ntchito mafilimu akale, iwo ali ochepa zotsatira wapadera ndi kuwerenga maganizo kwambiri. Ndiyeno zisudzo zofuna apamwamba kwambiri, choncho maganizo ndi makhalidwe ambiri molondola anasamutsidwa. Chikhale ntchito zonse Mwachitsanzo, cholinga chake kwa mafilimu osachepera awiri pa mlungu. Penyani maganizo ndi zochita za anthu, zikuthandizani inu mumvetsa ankafuna ndondomeko kulankhulana. Mwambo umenewu ndi wofunika kwa anthu amene amafuna kudziwa momwe angayankhulire anthu.

The njira anafotokoza kumathandizanso kudziwa mmene kumva pokambirana. Mudzayamba kumva mosalingalira, kodi nthawi muyenera kulankhula, ndi angati muyenera kaye kuti saletsa ndi mbali ina kufotokoza maganizo ake kupyolera.

Ngati inu mukudabwa momwe kuphunzira momwe angayankhulire anthu, kumbukirani - akulumikizana mwamwayi zofunika - sindikudziwa momwe kulankhula, ndipo kuti athe amamvetsera mwachidwi. anthu ambiri sakudziwa mmene, ndipo okha amakhala pofunafuna "makutu ufulu." Sizibwereza zolakwa za anthu ena. Kupereka munthu wina kulankhula bwinobwino, mungathe kaye akanachitira wake unali woyenerera.

Ponena za heckling. vuto angagone chakuti muli nazo ukugwirizana ndi makhalidwe zamoyo ubongo mkati osiyanasiyana yachibadwa. Zambiri angapezeke mu mabuku a Dr. Amena, chimene ine amalangiza kuti aliyense amene akufuna kusintha miyoyo kwa bwino.

Anthu amakonda pamene iwo maganizo awo kumva yofunika kwambiri, kukambirana zonse limatsindika mtengo ndi ulamuliro wa gwero lake, ndiye inu kuwaona ndi zambiri. Mudzakhala kwambiri wotchuka kwambiri NDIDZAKHALA kusangalala pa moyo wanu. Ndipotu, kupereka wosangalala kwambiri kuti achibale anu ndiponso anzanu.