Mtundu wa boma "kuthamanga": ndi zothandiza kapena ayi?

Kumbukirani ngati mwana amayi anga akanati, "Musati kuvala chipewa m'munda? - osati kugula inu maswiti" Mwina siziri chimodzimodzi ichi, koma ndi zinthu zofanana anakumana ndi aliyense wa ife ali ana. Kotero kuti pali ubwana - ku sukulu ya mkaka, kusukulu, kuntchito, atsogoleri athu okalamba nthawi zambiri amachita akuyendeni pansi chotero, chomwe chiri bwino kwambiri wotchedwa kuthamanga. Njira imeneyi zimathandiza kukakamiza munthu kuti achite zimene iye akufuna. Koma kaya ndi ogwira ndi kupambana kalelo ngati chinthu kuthamanga?

Anzanu kuntchito

Munthu - munthu chikhalidwe. A chitsanzo ufulu kwa anthu - ndi Mowgli, koma ngakhale iwe unabadwa pa chilumba chipululu ndipo uli ndi makolo, Mulimonsemo mudzakhala kuleredwa anthu wapangidwa ndi makolo anu. Ubwenzi uliwonse, posapita nthawi vuto n'lakuti pamene chipani chimodzi akufuna chinachake kwa mzake. Ndipo ngati nkhani si anatsimikiza mwamtendere, chipani mphamvu zambiri agwiritsa ntchito njira imeneyi chikoka monga kuthamanga. Izi ndi mawu achilendo n'chimodzimodzi ndi Russian "kuthamanga" kutanthauza kuti munthu kapena anthu ena kuthamanga kukwaniritsa cholinga ankafuna. Anzanu kawirikawiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito atsogoleri a zamalonda kuonjezera zokolola za ntchito ya atumiki - ndipo tisaiwale, ndi othandiza kwambiri. Koma kodi zotsatira zokhalitsa?

Anzanu Mwachangu - nil

Ndipotu kuthamanga ndi ntchito pokhapokha Ngati munthu - ngati ubale ndi munthu amene ali opanikizika, kwa kanthawi kochepa. Ngati mukufuna kukhala pa ubwenzi wabwino, makamaka pankhani malembedwe aantchito anzawo - ndi njira kwambiri inefficient kusamalira. Samalani zipangizo zina kasamalidwe - chilimbikitso. Chepetsani atumiki ntchito ndi mabonasi ntchito, malipiro kuwonjezeka, kutchuthi, maphunziro refresher.

Anzanu kuchokera kunyumba

Ndi mtundu uwu mpheto tili ana aang'ono. Zikuonekeratu kuti mwana safuna kuchita chirichonse chimene iwo akufuna makolo kachitidwe - timakagona oyambirira, kavalidwe mwansangala, kupita kunyumba usiku. Pamene mayi kapena bambo kumvetsetsa mfundo akhala wotopa, anagwiritsa ntchito njira imeneyi, monga zoipazi. Izi bwino - mwanayo yomweyo kumvera. Koma njira zoipa, chifukwa zakukwawa chakukhosi lamkati. M'malo zoipazi n'zomveka kubwera kwa kuuzidwa ndi mwanayo, mwa kulankhula kwina, kukambirana.

mwachidule

Kumene anzawo - ndi mtundu ntchito ya chikoka pa munthu, monga inu tithandize ankafuna. Koma tisaiwale kuti munthu, amene wakhala opanikizika, anataya mumamukhulupirira ndi wofunitsitsa kugwirizana m'tsogolo. mtundu uliwonse wa kuthamanga chifukwa munthu kuchita motsutsana ndi chifuniro chake ndi kukhumba, ndi chifukwa njira iyi ya mpheto akhoza kuwononga ubwenzi kapena banja.