Mosalakwitsa - mwayi uwu kapena sangathe?

Mukufuna chilichonse kukhala changwiro? Inu kuwononga nthawi kusintha mosalekeza: maonekedwe a ntchito m'dera lanu, anzanu ndi achibale? Mwina mungaganize kuti "sanali abwino" sudzakhala chikondi? Mosalakwitsa ... ulemu uwu kapena vuto lalikulu? Ndikwabwino kuti alimbikitse ndi kuwakulitsa, kapena muyenera kuthana nazo?

Ambiri a ife anapereka tokha ena, nthawi zambiri mfundo zapamwamba kwambiri. Makolo ena ku ubwana anaphunzitsa kuti muyenera nkhondo chikondi, kukhala bwino, anzeru, mwakhama. Winawake nthawi zonse kuyesera kupikisana ndi anthu ena patsogolo pawo mu zonse, njala kuzindikira ndi kuvomereza. Mosalakwitsa - kuthamangitsa ichi kwambiri kwa abwino ndi mumangire. Zingakhale ntchito (ndipo nthawi zambiri pamaso pa anthu ena, amene kuona zotsatira za zipambano wathu kapena ntchito), ngati sanazichite kwambiri mavuto mkati.

Monga nditaona mmene zingamvekere, mosalakwitsa - chopinga mu kuzindikira kuthekera kwathu. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa yosavuta kuti kufunafuna ungwiro, nthawi zina tiyenera kuiwala za chinthu chachikulu: za moyo weniweniwo, za cholinga cha ntchito zathu ndi nkhawa. Timakhala sakhala ogwira. ngakhale pamene titsiriza ntchito limodzi, ife akubwera kumbuyo kwa izo, kuwona kodi kapena adzasintha kwa bwino. Chifukwa, ife mulibe wokhutira ndi ntchito kuti ife Corp. wopanda mathero, ndipo "ungwiro". Timagwira pa ntchito yathu ndi ntchito wautali kuposa kutero.

Nthawi zina patsogolo osati si bwino zimene agwira ntchitoyi kwa, komanso kuwononga kuyesetsa mwana wosabadwayo. Mwachitsanzo kukanakhala, kunena, ulaliki wa ntchito. Ife timaganiza kuti nkhaniyi sanabadwe zidzaululika kwathunthu, ife timafika bogged pansi mwatsatanetsatane wosatha ndi kuwonjezera mfundo, maumboni ndi ogwidwa. Chifukwa cha ntchitoyi wotaya chilungamo chake ndi kumva. Kumbukirani kuti kwambiri bwino - mdani wathu weniweni wa zabwino.

Mosalakwitsa - amadziwikanso kuyembekezera nthawi zonse kwa kamphindi "changwiro". Chimene, osalephera, sichidzatha, koma popanda zomwe sitingathe kusankha. Izi angayerekezedwe ndi mawu akuti "kudikira nyengo pa nyanja." Nthawi zonse padzakhala chinthu chimene inu mukhoza kudandaula: n'zosatheka mitambo, dzuwa akhungu, ndiye ozizira kwambiri, mosaneneka otentha. Tigwiritsitse zinthu zazing'ono, timaiwala zakhala zazikulu chithunzi.

ena Kuvuta Kodi amapanga mosalakwitsa? Izi mavuto ndi kuchuluka nkhawa. Tingayembekezere kuona patsogolo iwo padzakhala ndi mantha ndi vutolo kwa iwo. Zimakhala Munthu akamakonda kupewa mavuto zotheka. Komabe, mavuto ambiri kuti mwina konse kuoneka kapena zopandapake. Mosalakwitsa mu kuwerenga maganizo ankaona kwenikweni pamaso pa mavuto kuti amapanga. Ngakhale khalidwe zimathandiza kufunafuna abwino ndi kukhala bwino, kukhumudwa mosalephera. Ndipo kenako kukhumudwa, timafuna kwachabechabe, imfa kudzikayikira.

Kodi kuthana ndi mosalakwitsa ndiponso ngati kuchita izo? Ngati malowo ndi kuthi khalidwe la gwero lachisokonezo obsessional, misala chingathandize ena. Komabe, munthu adzatha kuchita zambiri okha. Koma lekani kuchita zinthu mosalakwitsa, ndi kuphunzira kusamala chikhalidwe chawo.

Phunzirani kuyang'ana pa chithunzi lonse, kupeza chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Yesani kuti mosamalitsa kutsatira dongosolo. Mwachitsanzo, ngati kuphedwa kwa malonda mwasankha maola 2 pambuyo yopuma, musalole mwatsatanetsatane zosafunika ndi umapezeka namzeze inu ngakhale theka tsiku. Phunzirani ndi kunena nokha, "Lekani." Inde, inu mukudziwa angwiro zinthu kapena polojekiti kuti mukhoza kuwonjezera chinachake ndi kusintha. Koma tisiyanitse zinthu zomwe mwakwaniritsa ndi cholinga ankafuna. Ngati zikhale mbali yaikulu kuyesa kusinthana n'kumakachita chinachake. Mwina ntchito akuponya diso atsopano, inu mukuzindikira kuti chirichonse chiri kale zabwino mokwanira.