Kusakhulupirira anthu, kapena bwanji kupulumuka kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna wake?

Waltz Mendelssohn, ziyembekezo chikondi ndi maloto duwa kugwirizana ndi wokondedwa - zikuwoneka posachedwapa zinali zenizeni. Ndipo apa pali chifukwa - kukhumudwa, ululu ndi kufufuza yankho ku funso lakuti: "Kodi kupulumuka kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna wake?".

A sewero bwino, sichoncho? Komanso, osati bwino, komanso zachilendo. Malinga ndi kafukufuku, osachepera 60-70% ya anthu kusintha akazi awo. The zifukwa zosiyana, koma zotsatira zake zambiri wosavuta ndi banal: misozi mkazi, nsanje, ufa ndi akundizunza ganizo: "Kodi moyo pambuyo kusakhulupirika mwamuna wake?".

Kawirikawiri ena nthumwi wamkazi pambuyo kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna wake sanapatsidwe nkhani imeneyi. zochita Choyamba zambiri amakhala kuwerenga kuti ndidziwe lithe wompereka Iye. Kumukhumudwitsa ndi kuchititsa kuti bondo zochita zake. Koma chanzeru mkazi sayenera motsogozedwa ndi maganizo ndi malingaliro. Njira, makamaka amene angathe kulisintha moyo wonse uyenera kukhala anzeru ndipo onetsetsani kuti mwadala. Sikuti vuto ili mu mtima, monga moyo wa m'banja ndi mfundo zosasangalatsa cha kusakhulupirira - osati kukhumudwa yekha. Kwambiri m'moyo, palinso kufunika kupeza ndi kwenikweni kuyang'ana pa iye. Mwina mamba akadali kuposa kwa kuteteza mabanja? Ndipo popeza mlandu woukira boma kumira mu chirimwe kapena m'mbuyomu? Mulimonse mmene zinakhalira, zimene zinachitika amakhalabe chenicheni, ndipo ena nsonga sadzakhala superfluous kuthetsa: "Kodi kupulumuka kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna wake?".

Choyamba, m'pofunika kuyesa kuti "kukoka nokha pamodzi" ndi kusiya kuganiza za chimene icho chiri - mapeto maloto ndi kugwa wathunthu wa zamoyo zonse. Ayi. Moyo ndi mwamuna kapena ayi - izi sizingatheke kupeza zithumwa zake. Ndi kutha moyo wake pambuyo kusakhulupirika mwamuna wake sikuthandiza. M'malo mwake, basi ayenera "wodzisunga" tione zinthu.

Choyamba, ndi bwino kuyang'ana kwa mwamuna wake, ubale wake ndi zimene zinachitika ndi kuyesa kuti tipeze za mapulani m'tsogolo. Ciwembu, nawonso, ndi zosiyana. Zimakhala kamodzi ndiponso mobwerezabwereza. Kupulumuka ndi kusintha basi kwambiri umodzi mosavuta. Amene si zolakwa achilendo? Ngati mwamuna poyera chisoni chimene chinachitika, kumupempha kuti andikhululukire, mbaleke kupita kukakumana naye? Ndipo pa nthawi yomweyo akuyesa kwenikweni kuyang'ana zinthu ndi amayesetsa kukhazikitsa chifukwa cha mwambo umenewu zosasangalatsa, kupitiriza kanthu kuthetsa nkhaniyo. Choncho, chilakolako kukhululuka ndi kusiya chirichonse mu malo, koma apa pagona nsomba: "? Ndipo mmene kuiwala kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna wake". Anthufe - chinthu chodabwitsa ndi aliuma, palibe - palibe, ndipo amabwerera wakwiya kuti. Chinthu chachikulu - osati "kupachika" pa izo ndi kuti kukulitsa nkhaniyo. Atakambirana ndi mwamuna wanga kamodzi vuto, si nthawi zonse kubwererakonso. Izo sizigwira mpumulo mwina iye. Mu mphindi ya "kudza kwa zapitazi" achipange pofuna kusintha maganizo pa okoma ndi kukumbukira mphindi okongola kuti anali ndi munthu uyu. A njira zabwino adzakhala kuwonjezera kukongola ndi chikhumbo mu moyo wanu: kamodzinso chikondi madzulo, kupita kokayenda yekha ndi kukumbukira zakale nthawi ikuthamanga, kuti akondweretse mwamunayo yosalephera kukongola, kupanga chisamaliro - njira tsiku ndi zonse. Chotero zabwino zinthu zazing'ono kudzakuthandizani chododometsa ku malingaliro zolunda ndi kusintha moyo kumbuyo pamzere olondola.

The zosinthika chachiwiri mlandu woukira boma (mobwerezabwereza) kumafuna mavuto ndi zotsatira zake. Izi njira ali ngati "kawiri-lupanga lakuthwa konsekonse": mwamuna akhoza kusintha nthawi zonse ndi akazi osiyana popanda akukumana nawo chikondi wapadera, ndipo mukhoza atengedwere kutali ndi mdani kuti mapulani ake ena - chisudzulo, ndi kutamandidwa. Koma pali sayenera kotero kukhumudwa. Yankho la funso: "Kodi kupulumuka kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna wake," ndithudi kumeneko. Monga tanena kale, moyo wa munthu kapena popanda iye ali zithumwa zake. M'pofunika kuvomereza mfundo ya kuthetsa ukwati zimayamba yesani kupeza cholinga cha moyo wake, kukumbukira kuti moyo popanda cholinga - akungotaya nthawi. cholinga ana anu waukulu akhoza kukhala mu nkhani iyi. Iwo zoperewerazo ululu mtundu wa imfa. zolinga zina zingakhale zotsatirazi: "Zinthu nokha kuti mumaikonda" - muthanso chizolowezi woyenera inu, ndi kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yawo izo - ukhoza kukhala ndi chizolowezi ndipo ankakonda chidwi ntchito. Muzicheza ndi anthu ndiwe wosangalatsa - nthawi yocheza ndi iwo, kukongoletsa moyo wanu. Ndipo ambiri Chofunika - kuyang'ana zabwino m'moyo. Iye ali, inu muyenera kupeza izo. Kukumbukira zimenezi komanso kuti apeze yankho ku funso lakuti: "Kodi kupulumuka kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna wake," palibe Chinsinsi asanakwatire kuthetsa vutolo. Zochitika munthu ndipo ali quirks yake kuti ayenera n'komwe kuti chifukwa nokha kupweteka ndipo musawononge moyo wanu.