Kulankhulana lotha: ntchito, mitundu ndi mitundu

Lotha kulumikizana - wapakamwa mawonekedwe a kulumikizana, omwe amagwira ntchito zingapo:

• mfundo ndi kulankhulana, ndiye zikutanthauza kulankhulana pakati pa abwenzi;
• zolimbana ndi kulankhula, monga pali chitukuko cha malamulo ndi makhalidwe;
• affective ndi kulankhula, monga Ngokhoza kulenga kumaliseche maganizo.

Zotsatirazi mitundu kulankhulana lotha.

Choyamba, ofunda, pamene palibe wofuna kudziwa ndi kuganizira makhalidwe ndi umunthu wa interlocutor wake. Ndipo anakumana alipidwa "chigoba" rigor, ulemu, madano, kudzichepetsa, chifundo, etc., komanso muyezo ya manja, mawu, nkhope. Timatha kubisa mmene lenileni ndi maganizo kwa interlocutor wake.

Chachiwiri, wosazindikira lotha kulumikizana. Mu mtundu uwu wa kuwunika ikuchitika ndi munjira ina chofunika kapena ayi. Ngati mukufuna kulankhulana naye, kukhudzana yogwira naye, koma ayi - amawateteza kapena kupewa.

Chachitatu, zinchito-udindo lotha kulumikizana, ozikidwa pa chuma chawo kwa bwenzi (kapolo wamkulu wa wophunzira-mphunzitsi, wogula-wogulitsa). Mu mtundu uwu wa "ntchito" zoyembezereka kuyeza ndi malamulo, njira ndi ochititsa kulankhulana malamulo. Choncho, ameneyu ndiye gwero la ntchito chikhalidwe cha dongosolo chachiwiri.

Chachinayi, malonda kulankhulana kutanthauza kuti inuyo muyenera kuganizira makhalidwe a umunthu, ndi zaka, chikhalidwe ndi maganizo a interlocutor lapansi. malonda nthawizonse aonekere, lachiwiri - ndi divergence zotheka wa maganizo ndi malingaliro. Pali zolinga izo Cholinga kukwaniritsa pangano lililonse substantive.

Chachisanu, wauzimu lotha kulumikizana. Kulumikizana uku kumachitika pakati pa mabwenzi apamtima ndipo amapereka kukambirana pa nkhaniyi iliyonse. Othandiza adzatha pomvetsetsana ena kayendedwe, nkhope ndi intonation. Chonchi kulankhulana lotha zingatheke ngati mbali kudziwana wina ndi mzake bwino.

Chimodzi, mtundu aboma kulankhulana ali kukwaniritsa miyezo anavomera anthu anapatsidwa. Mu ndondomeko amalankhulira anthu, osati zimene iye amaona monga ulamuliro adzalankhula ndi zimene tiyenera kuchita zina. Chikhalidwe wakudziko mtundu zosiyana za kulumikizana ndi kukhalapo kwa wapadera ubwenzi Code: mwanzeru ulemu, chilolezo, azikondedwa chisoni.

Seventh, achiwembu lotha kulumikizana ndi chipilala chojambulidwa kupindula interlocutor lapansi. okondedwa A amene ali ndi zolinga zofanana, adzatha ntchito zosiyanasiyana njira - osyasyalika, kusonyeza kukoma mtima, mwamantha, akuyendeni pansi, chinyengo.

Mu kuwerenga maganizo, anthu awa a mitundu kulankhulana lotha:

• Motelo;
• mpheto;
• kukambirana.

Motelo lotha kulumikizana ndi authoritarian, malangizo mawonekedwe yaikulu mnzanuyo kuti kulamulira khalidwe lawo ndi kulikakamizira kanthu. The peculiarity wa kulankhulana cholinga nezavualirovana. Pofuna kukwaniritsa ntchito imeneyi malangizo, madongosolo, zofuna ndi zofunika.

Mpheto ndi mtundu wamba kulankhulana lotha, imene imakhudza padzuwa la interlocutor kuti tikwaniritse zolinga zobisika ndi zolinga. Koma kuchokera naye abisala, kapena china m'malo ndi wina.

kulankhulana kukambirana amaganizira unsembe komanso maganizo a interlocutor lapansi. Inamangidwa pa maziko a malamulo a mogwirizana. Ndi za maganizo maganizo mu kuyankhulana; bezotsenochnoe amaona mnzake wofanana ndi ufulu kuganiza ndi kusankha; pamaso pa nkhani yosonyeza kukambirana.