Kodi Sankhani wantchito?

Wantchito ndi wantchito - chida chofunika kwambiri kwa amayi achichepere

Poyamba, kuthandiza amayi wakhanda lofunika. Akuyesera kuchita zonse nokha, osati posachedwa yekha kutaya lotsiriza la mphamvu zake, komanso muli kupempha thandizo. Kuwonjezera apo, anasonkhanitsa kutopa kumabweretsa chikhalidwe maganizo, ndiponso mwina maganizo omwe boma ndi zosavuta kupanga kusuntha zolakwika ndipo amavutitsa mwanayo.

Mwina wothandizira abwino akhoza kukhala agogo a ana akhanda. Koma ngati inu mukukhulupirira izo, komabe chimakusangalatsani, ngakhale ngati kamwana, pa siteji iyi ya zochitika akadali bwino kukana thandizo lake. Kamwana makolo ndithudi mufuna kumva kwathunthu wachikondi, choncho ndi bwino kukhala munthu wabwino ndi zinachitikira kusamalira ana, koma ena amene amadziwa malire a ukali mfundo mwanzeru.

A njira zabwino adzakhala kukatenga mdzakaziyo kapena namwino. Ndipotu, ngati ntchito zake kukhumudwitsa inu, mungathe mosavuta mbali ndi izo. Ndi achibale zinthu ngati kusuntha n'zosatheka. Onani kuti wantchito adzatola kampani wapadera.

Pakuti nthawi ndi bwino uitane wothandizira? Izo zimatengera zinthu zosiyanasiyana:

- pa nkhalidwe yau ndalama

- pa chikhumbo chanu palokha

- thanzi la mayiyo ndi thanzi lake

Pamene mwanayo akukula, mayi kuyambira kupezanso mphamvu ndipo iye akhoza kuchita ntchito zambiri. Komabe, ngati ngakhale 2-3 masabata pambuyo pa kubadwa, mukuona ofooka, yesani kupeza njira ndi kugwira wothandizira kwa nthawi yaitali.

Amayi ambiri achinyamata kuopa kuti osatetezeka sangathe kusamalira mwanayo. Choncho, pofuna kupeza ndi luso ndi tichotse nkhawa, imene nthawi mudzatha azolowere amalangiza mwana.

Nthawi zina chigweranso kuti mayi wachitsikana iye uzigwirizana ndi mwanayo, koma ndi pafupifupi munthu nthawi zapakhomo - kutsuka kuyeretsa ndi kuphika. Pankhaniyi m'pofunika uitane wothandizira nthawi 1-2 sabata. Kuwonjezera pa kuthandiza pa nyumba, iye angathe kukhala ndi mwana wanu monga inu mwina zinthu zofunika kuchita, ndi kunja komwe.

Monga anamwino, iye osati kukhala mthandizi kwambiri makolo, komanso kuthandiza mwana kuti adziimire paokha ndi kulangidwa.

Nthawi zina yabwino kuitana wantchito yekha usiku chifukwa ana aang'ono kaŵirikaŵiri kudzuka. Koma mu nkhani iyi, m'pofunika kupereka nthawi mwana masana, kotero iye ntchito kwa munthu watsopano. Kaya ubwenzi wanu ndi anamwino, sayenera kusinthidwa nthawi zambiri. Pemphani antchito izi bwino kudzera akulembedwa bungwe apadera kusankha housekeepers.

Age wantchito si yofunika kwambiri, chifukwa mu malo oyamba, munthu wa ntchito imeneyi ayenera kukhala ndi khalidwe labwino ndipo adzatha kutenga pamodzi ndi ana.

Mulimonsemo, munthu sayenera kwambiri kukwiya, ngati izo m'mavuto onse mwanayo ndi makolo.

Pamene nomination wantchito kapena wantchito kale wobvomerezeka, m'pofunika kudziwa ake ndi malamulo onse, malangizo za ulamuliro wa tsiku m'banja. Ndi yabwino kuti kukhala ndi kope wapadera, amene adzapatsidwa: zinkachitika tsiku lililonse mwana, zinthu zimene mwanayo akhoza kupempha manambala a foni a misonkhano mwadzidzidzi ndi anansi ake, komanso mfundo kuti mlendo n'zovuta kukumbukira nthawi yoyamba, monga: komwe ndi zimene mabodza m'khitchini, kumene inu kusunga matawulo ndi nsalu bedi, momwe kuyatsa osinthasintha machitidwe osiyana m'nyumba.