Kodi mungapeze bwanji chiyembekezo mwa inu nokha?

Munthu ndi dziko laling'ono limene liri ndi lingaliro la zabwino ndi zoipa, ubwino komanso osati bwino. Pamene tipambana ndi nthawi yobwerera, timamvetsetsa. Anthu omwe safuna kumva zowawa pamayendedwe awo auzimu amawaiwala kapena amaphunzira phunziro lawo. Anthu omwe amaganiza molakwika, amatenga mabala akale kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo amakhulupirira kuti alibe mwayi mu moyo.

Timapanga mavuto ambiri ndi maganizo athu kumoyo. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti ngati mukufuna kuti munthu akhumudwe akhoza kukhala ndi chiyembekezo, ndiye kuti muyenera kudzigwira yekha. Kukhala ndi malingaliro abwino pa moyo kumathandiza machitidwe ophweka, kokha muyenera kuzichita tsiku ndi tsiku!

Zochitika zabwino. Kumapeto kwa tsiku lanu, tchulani mwachidule ndikuyesera kukumbukira zosachepera zitatu zabwino zomwe zakuchitikirani. Zingakhale zochepa chabe - mwachitsanzo, panjira kwanu mumamva usiku, kapena madzulo ndi theka lanu lachiwiri mumapita kukayenda ndikudyera zokometsera zokoma kwambiri za ayisikilimu, kapena munayamikiridwa ndi munthu wosadziwika bwino. Patapita nthawi, mudzaphunzira kupeza zabwino mwa masiku anu onse - ndipo ziribe kanthu ngati zikukuyenderani bwino. Iwo amene amagwiritsa ntchito njirayi amanena kuti masabata awiri boma la maganizo limakula bwino.

Sokonezani maganizo oipa. Anthu ambiri amaletsedwa kukhala ndi moyo wodzaza ndi zovuta, kukumbukira maganizo ndi zochitika. Timaoneka kuti tikumira mkati mwawo ndikumira. Ngati mumadziŵa bwino vutoli, phunzirani kusinthana ndi chinthu chabwino pamene mutayamba kuganizira za zoipa. Musalole kuti maganizo ndi maganizo osokonezeka atenge. Mu malingaliro anu, ziyenera kufotokozedwa momveka bwino kuti ndinu wokhoza ndipo mukhoza kuwongolera njira yoganiza. Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti patapita masabata atatu munthu amakhala ndi chizoloŵezi chosadzipangitsa kuganiza za zoipa. Koma muyenera kuchita izi nthawi zonse, choncho, chitanipo kanthu.

Kusinkhasinkha kudzakuthandizani. Ngati kuli kovuta kufotokozera maganizo olakwika kuti akhale abwino, ndiye yesetsani kusinkhasinkha. Chizoloŵezi chakummawa chimathandiza kuthetseratu ziwalo zamaganizo, koma ngati mukuchita masewera tsiku ndi tsiku.

- Khalani pansi, khalani chete, penyani pa kupuma kwanu. Pang'onopang'ono muwerengere kutsogolo kuchokera 10 mpaka 1, yerekezerani kuti mupita ku banki kukaona bwato. Mukusankha kuyenda pamadzi, pewani boti kupita kumadzi ndikulowa mmenemo. Tengani koloko ndikuyamba kuyendayenda.

- Mukuona kuti botilo ndilolemetsa kwambiri ndipo ndilovuta kwambiri kuti muyambe kuyang'ana, mukuwona matumba ambiri olemetsa pamsana wa ngalawayo, chifukwa chake zimakhala zovuta kuti mutenge.

- Mwapita kumphuno ya ngalawayo ndikunyamula thumba loyamba ndi mawu akuti "Nkhawa" ndikuponyera pansi, zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta, koma china chake chimalepheretsa.

- Mwapitanso ku matumba ndi kutaya yotsatirayo, ndi kulembedwa kuti "Mantha", zimakhala zosavuta kuti muyambe, koma pali kukana.

- Ndilo kutembenukira kwa thumba lomaliza. Nthawiyi ndi thumba lolemba "Kudzichepetsa".

- Tsopano ndiwe mfulu, ndipo mukondwera kuyenda, mosavuta mumadzi.

- Tengani mpweya wozama, pang'onopang'ono kutuluka. Phunziro la kusinkhasinkha latha.

Maganizo abwino. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti omwe samamwetulira, sangathe kuganiza bwino. Pa nthawi yomweyi, nkofunika kuti kumwetulira kukhala woona mtima, osanyengedwe. Koma ngati maganizo ali oipa, kapena wina wakuuzani chinachake choipa, sakufuna kumwetulira. Momwe mungakhalire?

Akatswiri amalangiza kuchita zimenezo. Tsekani maso anu ndikumbukira zomwe zimakupangitsani inu kukhudzidwa mtima: mwana, chinyama chodabwitsa, chodabwitsa, chiwonongeko ... Zotsatira zake, mumakhala kumwetulira, mtima wanu udzakhala wabwino komanso maganizo oipa amachoka.

Musawope kukhala osiyana. Kukhala wodalirika sikukutanthauza kuyang'ana pa dziko kudzera mu magalasi owala. M'malo mwake, munthu ayenera kuzindikira chowonadi monga, popanda kuchepetsa ndi kuposerapo makhalidwe abwino a zinthu. Nthaŵi zina ndi bwino kukhala wopusa, kukhala ndi maganizo ovuta, koma nthawi zina mumayenera kudzikondweretsa, kusintha kwabwino. Mwachidziwikire, munthu ayenera kukhala wosiyana, mogwirizana ndi chidziwitso ndi zofuna za nthawiyo. Ndiye mudzamva ufulu ndikusangalala ndi moyo.