Kodi kupempha chikhululukiro, kubwezeretsa ubale?

Ife tonse tikudziwa kuti n'zovuta kupempha chikhululuko kuchokera kwa anthu wapamtima anthu wathu ankakonda. Aliyense akhoza kuiwala ngongole, koma osati kwa iwo omwe ali owakonda kwa ife. Aliyense mosavuta akuti lino ndi matsenga mawu - "pepani" osati amene akumuyembekezera kwa ife kwambiri. Kodi njira kupepesa, popanda khama, ndi mopanda tsankho kwa awo kudzidalira?

Ngati pakati pa anthu ake amaoneka kusiyana amapusitsa, ndiye kupempha chikhululukiro, amakonda njira ed, kuti Mulungu kwa amapotoza manja ake, kwinaku akupempha ndipo ngakhale kumenya mutu wanga khoma. Chotero pemphero la chikhululukiro amapanga mbali inayo kuseka ndi kubwezeretsa ubale.

N'zosavuta kutseka kusiyana mu ubale, ngati ziphuphu chipongwe. Pankhaniyi tikulankhula za ziphuphu mu envelopu womata. Tikuyankhula zokhudza momwe kupempha chikhululukiro, akuchita zina kukhumudwa zabwino kanthu anthu. Mwachitsanzo, kusonyeza kwambiri tcheru, chisamaliro, kugula mphatso, asintha.

Kupezeka mavuto ndikofunika, kotero musati ngakhale kuganizira ngati inu zlyaschiysya anthu mokwiya kumukana. Izi ndi zamkhutu, chifukwa pa mlingo chikumbumtima kulapa watengedwa, koma kunyada salola kusonyeza chiyanjano. A pang'ono chipiriro, ndi mphatso wokongola akuswa kukana ndipo kulandiridwa ndi chiyamiko.

Njira yabwino kwambiri kupempha chikhululukiro - kalata kapena SMS-ke. Ndi mogwira mtima kuposa momwe mafotokozedwe m'kamwa, imene mawu okonzeka anatayika, ndipo mawu ake anapereka kapena zosakhutiritsa. Koma kalata adzakhala kuwerenga kangapo, ndithudi, ngati zilibe kugwetsera pa chiphaso. Pakuti mawu olembedwa chisoni za nkhaniyi ayenera zimachitika ndi malongosoledwe m'kamwa kuti kungakuthandizeni kukhulupirira munthu kuti anali kulemba kalata ndi mitima yoyera.

Mulimonsemo, mkangano bwino kuthetsa kuyankhula kwa mutu mtima. nkhaniyi (ndi mawu odekha, ndipo wabwino) ayenera kuthetsa vutolo, kuthetsa amanena amene anachimwitsa chokhumudwitsa kwa munthu wina. mfundo zonse, ndi zofunika kuti ndifotokoze bwino ndi bwino kwambiri. Pa nthawi yomweyo, inu simungakhoze kupempha chikhululukiro, popeza anamvera mfundo za zipani kukangana ndi inu. Ngati simupeza kumvetsa, ndiye ngakhale kusiya sanathetsedwe vuto, fotokozani mwachindunji, sizigwirizana ndi maganizo a mdani, kotero kusiya funso poyera. Gwirizanani ndi maganizo zosavomerezeka kwa inu kuthetsa nkhondo vis - ndiye maziko malangizo okhudza magulu atsopano.

The njira yabwino kwambiri kupempha chikhululukiro tonse tikudziwa ku m'badwo woyambirira, pamene ife chabe anadza kwa makolo anga kukhumudwa nafe ndipo anati: "Pepani Yehova. Chonde" Atanena mawu amenewa, chabe momveka bwino kuti kuzindikira zolakwa zawo. Inde, kumvera mnyozo, ndipo mwina ambiri a iwo adzakhala okongola, choncho sangakhale nthano ndi bwino kuti mukudziwa kuya kwa vuto ndi wokonzeka ake "kutetezera."

Ngati muli a gulu la anthu amene ambiri sangathe kukhululukira chikhululukiro, ndiye malo ako si kophweka, chifukwa zikukuvutitsani onse palokha ndi kutenga chilango awiri. Kosavuta kwa anthu, popanda kupita vuto akhoza kupepesa nthawi zana mu mzere.

Choncho, kupempha chikhululuko bwino!