Kodi kulabadira mwamwano ogwira ntchito ndi mabwana

Masiku ano, anthu olemba ntchito, kupereka mndandanda wa amafuna kuti antchito kuthekera, anasonyeza Kusoweka, pakati pa zinthu zina, ndi bwino kwambiri potengera anzawo mmene angachitire nkhawa. Kuchokera pamenepa, n'zotheka kunena kuti misempha inu vytreplyut pa ntchito imeneyi. Mulimonsemo, yesani kuchita izo. Ndipo chitani macheke pa mtendere maganizo pa kuyankhulana loyamba: mafunso zosayenera, akuponyera coarse mawu, kuwonjezera mawu, etc. Ndipo ife kupirira, ayizembe, kukhala ozizira, chifukwa ntchito ndi chinachake ofunika. Ndipo chabwino, ngati pambuyo kuyankhulana ndipo ndidzalandira inu kwa maganizo ntchito pa.

Koma si nthawi zonse zimachitika. Nthawi zambiri kuti anzake ndi woyambitsa kuyamba kudana kuyesa izo mwa njira imeneyo okha adzapulumuka ndi chotsatira kuntchito. Ngati munthu wogwira ntchito latsopano si amakonda kukwera mawu ake, iye amadziwa momwe kuyankha chipongwe. Nanga bwanji munthu amene ali ndi chikhalidwe wolobodoka nkhongono ndi wachisasati ndi mosavuta anataya pamene wake "ululu"? Pa nthawi ngati zimenezi, iye amaiwala dzina lake, osanenapo chakuti, pofuna kuti ayankhe chokwanira chipongwe. mawu onse monga kuuluka kwa mutu, ndi "lithandize" abwera pokhapokha "baiting" kanthawi pa. Atanena izi mu ubongo linayamba kulowerera malingaliro wochenjera. Mpukutu nthawi miliyoni mu malingaliro anga za mmene zinthu ziliri, munthu amayamba mwadzidzidzi kwambiri zimene mungachite, momwe kuyankha chipongwe, ndipo chisoni kwambiri kuti sangachite chilichonse ndi "stupor" pa nkhondo. Pamene mawu ukupita, "lingaliro wochenjera akubwera pambuyo."

Koma kuti tiimirire yekha monga chinachake kutero. Inu simungakhoze tiyeni wina mwamakhalidwe
kuwaseka. Pa nthawi imene munthu sadziwa mmene kuyankha mwamwano mu mtsempha chomwecho, zamaganizo amalangiza amachita njira ya mumayendera otchedwa. Njira imeneyi ndi imodzi yabwino, ndipo ambiri Chofunika, osavuta kuthetsa iliyonse nkhondo. Kwenikweni ake kwagona kuti munthu chinaperekedwa ku kuukira zonse, pokhalabe ndi unflappable kwathunthu, bata, ndipo ngakhale mphwayi, ayenera kugwirizana ndi mawu onse adiresi wake. Simufunikanso kusonyeza mokwiya aliyense, ngakhale amafuula pa inu. Mwachitsanzo, anakwiya kulephera kukonzekera. Inu kuwonetsa mavuto mphwayi kugwirizana, iwo amati, inde, ndine wolakwa, sindinkafuna kukwaniritsa dongosolo. Mdani kuyembekezera zinthu zosiyana kwathunthu, afika weniweni "yopuma chitsanzo" ndipo alibe kupeza yankho. Ndi chilichonse chonenera watsopano chabe kugwirizana mawu ndi kulankhula mokweza zimene chitonzo. Pasanapite nthawi yaitali, koma munthu ena Musiyeni kulankhula ndi "umboni wosweka" ndipo idzagwa kumbuyo.

Tsopano inu mukudziwa momwe iwe sindimawakonda anthu achipongwe. Koma ndi bwana kukhala pang'ono ochenjera, ngakhale si koyenera kuti mantha. Mulole iye amafuula, kunayamba ndi kuponyera mu mapepala anu - kuzizira wanu chiphwanye Changu wake. Ndipo pamene iye potsiriza ndatopa kukuwa wake, bata ndi kukhala ndi chidaliro kamvekedwe, kumupempha kuti salinso kulankhula nanu motere. Palibe sizipanga zifukwa, kufunsa monga bwana tsopano kuti zinthu zomwezo, koma mwakachetechete ndi mosamala, popanda kutengeka kwambiri. Ngati wotsogolera anayamba chide ndi timu, kumuuza kuti: "Umuna Semenovich, monga momwe ine ndikumvera izo, nkhaniyi nkhawa Munthu langa ndi inu. Bwanji tikambirane maso ndi maso? ". Kotero inu Musataye aliyense wa nkhope yanu, palibe kulemekeza akuluakulu.