Kodi inu nonse mukudziwa za nampsopsonetsa?

Ngakhale nampsopsonetsa kawirikawiri amaona kuti ndi mawu achikondi pa chibwenzi, kafukufuku wa sayansi wavumbulutsa ntchito yofunika kwambiri ya kukupsopsonani. Asayansi ena akunena kuti Kumpsyompsyonana amalola kuti anthu asa- abwenzi osiyanasiyana, onse pa mlingo wa achibadwidwe unachitikira kusanthula mpweya, malovu, khungu kapangidwe. maphunziro ena amasonyeza kuti nampsopsonetsa kuwonjezera mlingo wa malemeredwe, zingachititse kugonana. Komanso, akukhulupirira kuti chimpsopsono zingakhudze tanthauzo la kuphatikana, kuchepetsa nkhawa, kuwonjezera kudzidalira ndi moyo wosangalala.

Kuphunzira kundipsompsona ntchito

Asayansi chikondi kuthetsa kudzera, kotero kuphunzira udindo wa nampsopsonetsa pa moyo wa munthu, iwo anafika bwinobwino: anali nawo gulu la anthu 308 ndi akazi 594 zaka 18 kuti 63. Ophunzira mafomu mafunso, anayankha mafunso angapo okhudza mmene chipsompsono motani maganizo a, zochita pa nkhani zosiyanasiyana, anapanga lonse poona khalidwe la ubwenzi ndi okondedwa a.

Monga mbali ya gulu kafukufuku ndi zamaganizo kuti mudziwe sotsioanaliticheskoy awo lathu. A zambiri chidwi linaperekedwa kwa mlingo umene anthu amakonda nthawi zina nsinga yochepa poyerekeza ndi mabwenzi yaitali (mwachitsanzo, uchatniki kuyankha funso "angati osiyana abwenzi inu anagonanapo kamodzi kokha?"). Pomaliza, membala aliyense wa gulu imawunikidwa msinkhu wawo wodzilamulira pempho poyankha mafunso otsatirawa awiri: "Kodi mukuganiza kuti anthu ena anganene chiyani chikoka thupi lanu" ndipo "Kodi ukuganiza kuti anthu ena kuganiza kuti ndinu achigololo (kugonana)?".

Kundipsompsona kuti aone kufunika kwa mnzawo

Ofufuzawa anapeza mfundo zosangalatsa: anthu amene amadziona kukhala okongola, kuposa chikondi kumpsompsona, kuposa anthu amene kusadzidalira. Komanso, wodzidalira ophunzira anayankha kuti kukopa awo kuti munthu amakhala kusintha pambuyo chipsompsono woyamba, pamene mamembala diffident wa gulu sankaona kofunika.

Izi zimaonetsera kuti munthu amene kudzidalira, kusankha kwambiri imakhudzanso ena pankhani yosankha naye. Pankhaniyi, ntchito ndi kumpsompsona ziyenera okondedwa.

mogwirizana kundipsompsona

ofufuza anapeza kuti wamkulu pafupipafupi nampsopsonetsa ubwenzi wakhala zogwirizana ndi khalidwe la ubwenzi ndi kuti kukhala ndi mnzako kuti ophunzira kusonkhana ndi "zabwino" ndi chimpsopsono, anatsimikiza zabwino kwa iye.

ofufuza anapeza kuti anthu ophunzira amene ali ndi chidwi mu ubale yaitali, anaona kuti kundipsompsona ndi zofunika isanayambe ndi pambuyo kugonana, pamene anthu amakonda kwambiri kulankhulana yochepa, chinapangidwira allocated chimpsopsono makamaka musanayambe kugonana. Olemba anamasulira imeneyi ndi umboni wakuti chikondi kungoganizira. Makamaka, zikuoneka kuti kundipsompsona si ntchito yokhayo yotumikira galimoto, koma kulola angapo kuti ndi nthawi yabwino ndiponso kulimbikitsa ubwenzi.

Kumpsyompsyonana ndi udindo chilakolako chogonana ndi kugonana oyambirira

N'zosadabwitsa kuti pa phunzirolo ofufuza akutsutsa ndi kungoganizira za malemeredwe chifukwa okhawo amene ankafuna kuti ubale yochepa, ofunika chipsompsono chabe musanayambe kugonana. Ophunzira amene ali ndi chidwi mu ubale yaitali, anaona kuti kundipsompsona n'zofunika ndipo nthawi zina. Choncho, ntchito ya chimpsopsono si ogonana malemeredwe.

Pomaliza

Cacikulu, zotsatira za kafukufuku zikusonyeza kuti chipsompsono pazifukwa ziwiri: kupenda abwenzi osiyanasiyana, ndi kukambirana pakati pawo. Choncho, kukupsopsonani - ndi kuposa mawu akuti thupi chikondi kwa okondedwa anu.