Kodi anakwiya? N'chifukwa chiyani anthu oipa?

Munthu isiyana ndi nyama, mwa zina, kupezeka kwa osiyanasiyana makhalidwe. Mkwiyo akuwonetseredwa mwa anthu kulikonse kuti: kunyumba, pa msewu, pa mabasi ndi magalimoto, kuntchito, chikhalidwe, ndi abwenzi, etc. N'chifukwa chake nthawi zonse pazikhala munthu amene akufuna kumvetsa chifukwa lapamtima munthu amasonyeza waukali, kodi chikhalidwe cha zodabwitsazi. Ndipo ena madona makamaka zofewa ndi mtundu ngakhale kuyang'ana malangizo a mmene anakwiya.

Tanthauzo ndi zomwenso

Pakuti starters, mukhoza kuona kuti amatchula wouma kutanthauzira sayansi. Malinga ndi otanthauzira ndi ofotokozera ndiponso mabuku maganizo, mkwiyo - maganizo kapena maganizo a mkwiyo, malevolence, kupsa mtima msanga kapena mkwiyo chifukwa cha munthu kapena chinthu chimene kupewa kupeza munthu akufuna. Iwo akhoza umalimbana chinthu mwachindunji kapena gulu la zinthu zofanana, ndipo mwina alibe kopita yeniyeni. Pali mitundu iwiri: amene amadza zabwino pa munthu (mwachitsanzo, masewera) ndi zoipa (mwachitsanzo, chilakolako kuti avulaze thupi aliyense kapenanso kuchita zochita oletsedwa).

The Mwachibadwa kupulumuka

Nature kugwira ntchito mwakhama pa chilengedwe cha mwamuna ndi mawu thupi ndi m'maganizo. Zambiri zimene tsopano kuyitana maganizo komanso zokhumba, Ndipotu, china chirichonse koma achibadwidwe. Mwachitsanzo, kufotokoza maganizo awo zimene zikuchitika, anthu aphunzira kuseka kapena kulira. Ndipo kuti kuteteza malo awo mu gulu ndi dziko wankhanza, Homo sapiens sakanachitira mwina koma kukhala amacita nkhanza. Ndi mawonetseredwe a mokwiya ndi udani anathandiza makolo athu kusunga dziko nkhanza pamene tsiku liri anavutika moyo m'njira loona. Mwachibadwa Izi anasamutsa kwa munthu wamakono anatengera kuchotsa izo chodziwikiratu ndithu bwino. Ndipo ngati ndikofunikira? Popeza kuti pa zaka, kukhala amacita nkhanza, anafotokoza zapamwamba: zinachitikira, maloto zosachitika, kumvetsa chikumbumtima cha mapeto akuyandikira. Ndi zidule zonse zachilengedwe, titero, ndi anthu chibadwa.

Ife sitiri, ndi moyo ndi

Kodi anakwiya? Ndi yosavuta: kusintha chilengedwe! Kuti anthu kuzungulira chifukwa wamba waukali, nkhanza ndi mkwiyo. Mwachitsanzo, mwana kwa banja ndi malo osokonekera maganizo n'zokayikitsa kukula munthu wabwino. Ndipo si yekha odana ndi chikhalidwe zinthu monga mowa, mankhwala osokoneza bongo kapena opanga masewera. Angakule anakwiya mwana amene nthawi zambiri kufuula, zoipa kapena nkhondo. Mu akula, zonse ndi zofanana. Kamodzi mu malo a m'kalasi aukali, anzawo, mabwenzi kapena anansi, anthu Willy-nilly Amasintha vutolo. Zonsezi chifukwa chiwonetsero cha chibadwa chomwecho, chibadidwe chikhalidwe: kuti apulumuke, mwina koma kukhala amacita nkhanza.

Usakhale - kupha!

Nthawi zambiri atumiki amakhala anaopa atsogoleri awo ndiponso kukambirana pakati pawo malamulo ndi malangizo, ndi mlandu pokhala kwambiri mwamakani. Kodi n'chiyani chinachititsa zimenezi? Pali mayankho ziwiri. Poyamba, anthu ambiri mphamvu kwenikweni openga. M'malo mwake anachita chinthu chatsopano, kukhala ndi kuphunzira, iwo musankhe wodzilamulira watero likuvutika manyazi ena. Zonse kugogomeza ukulu wake munthu amenewa amaona bwino, wolimba mtima. Muzu wa khalidwe zambiri lagona analeredwa zolakwika kapena maganizo ochuluka ana kapena unyamata. Koma pali njira ina. Mwachitsanzo, mnyamata, wanzeru ndi wokongola wantchito mwadzidzidzi yoikidwiratu mphunzitsi wamkulu dipatimenti, amene amagwiritsa ntchito dazeni madona aang'ono, osati kwambiri umafuna ntchito yopindulitsa. Kapena ofesi ali yekha amuna amene sakhulupirira kwambiri mutu mu siketi. Inde, silidzakhala Lofewa pogonjetsa gulu ndi kupeza ntchito, ndipo mwina iye adzasankha njira zimenezi, momwe anakwiya ndi kupanga Kumvetsela okha mantha.

Komabe madzi kuthamanga kwambiri

Nthawi zambiri, anthu okwiya chosafuna, chifukwa cha mavuto ena. Mwachitsanzo, munthu anakwiya pambuyo ntchito inawathera wake wokondedwa, kapena zinatha ntchito. mokwiya wake ndi udani angalunjikitsidwe aliyense amene amaona amachititsa zolephera ndi dziko, ngati zimayambitsa nkhani sangakhoze akuwachititsa aliyense. Izi zikhoza kuchitika ngakhale ndi limodzi musanayambe zochitikazi chidaliro ndi kusangalala.

Kapena chitsanzo china: lokoma, wofatsa ndi wodzichepetsa mtsikana anakwiya pambuyo aponya wokondedwa, ndipo anapita kwa bwenzi wake ali mwana. Kutembenuka kwa mbewa imvi mu hule weniweni zimachitika nthawi zambiri chifukwa chikondi unrequited kapena mtima wosweka limodzi ndi zokumana amphamvu kwambiri maganizo, kumene kudzutsa yathu yozindikira maganizo ili matalala.

zokhumba zosachitika kapena maloto kugwa mwina kusintha mkhalidwe maganizo a aliyense mwamtheradi, ngakhale wina wokoma mtima kwambiri ndiponso ochezeka.

Yapamwamba zizolowezi maganizo

Ngati wina anadandaula kuti, "Ine anakwiya, kuti simukudziwa pa mfuu chonse ndi chidani," etc., ayenera kulangiza munthu uyu kuti anthu amaganizo amodzi. Mwina pakati pawo, iye akuona bwino ndipo anali ndi chidaliro. Masiku ano, n'zosadabwitsa, ndi yapamwamba kukhala aukali ndi chibwenzi. Intaneti magulu lonse la hermits amene sanali kukhulupirira mu mphamvu ya chabwino, koma kuyambira ali mwana kukhulupirira kuti zoipa anzeru, sioneka, wochenjera amphamvu.

Mkwiyo - wabwino kapena woipa?

Choncho, chifukwa munthu akwiyila, kumene. Chotsani ndi zimayambitsa ndi chikhalidwe cha chodabwitsa lapansi. Koma kodi zoipa - kukhala zoipa? Zonse zinalengedwa mwa chirengedwe, ali ndi tanthauzo ndi cholinga. Nthawi zina mokwiya n'kofunika kupulumuka kwa munthu kapena olimba a boma maganizo. Ngati mukufuna kuyambitsa namondwe wa maganizo, pali njira zambiri momwe anakwiya. Choyamba, n'zotheka kudzionetsa mu zinthu zosasangalatsa kwambiri ndi kuisewera iyo mu malingaliro anu kutenga mukufuna. Ngati m'maganizo sichitha ndi chikakusowani, tiyenera kuyesa njira yachiwiri. Kuti tichite zimenezi, muyenera anazungulira nokha ndi zikuchitika: monga pa TV kapena nyimbo amene amayambitsa akumukana bwino, kusintha kutentha mu chipinda kuchepetsa omangika kapena kuvala zovala wovuta. Pang'ono ndithu nthawi - ndi anthu ndi "misala ngati galu."

Mu nkhani imeneyi, chinthu chachikulu - kudzimva mchimake. Inu simungakhoze kuugwira mtima, ndipo m'pofunika kuwapatsa njira, koma ngati mkwiyo ndi kale brims pa, zingakhale pang'ono kuletsa Changu Mwachitsanzo, kuchita masewera monga masewera kapena kulimbana, kusiya mivi, kulasa osiyanasiyana kuwombera, kapena, pa zikachitika, kuposa mzinda m'nkhalango yowirira kwambiri ndipo kufuula kwa dziko zimene ndikuganiza za izo.