Sankhani mmwamba wamkazi: malangizo ndi zidule

Kumene, mkazi aliyense akufuna kusambira mu Kuthokoza ndi Sitiperewedwa tcheru wamwamuna. Komabe, mwatsoka, osati aliyense akhoza kudzitama za mphatso wobadwa mwa kukopana. Pofuna kukwaniritsa bwino ndi zosiyana kugonana bokosibode - luso chinsiriro. Poyamba njira chinsinsi ankafuna yekha wamwamuna, koma tsopano kugonana chilungamo, nayenso, kufuna kudziwa mmene kukwaniritsa awo pa chikondi kutsogolo.

N'chifukwa chiyani izi zonse zofunikira?

akazi bokosibode zolinga zawo. Ngati anthu kawirikawiri kufunafuna mkazi mwamsanga kwa iye mu kama, ndiye madona ena abwino Azidzazifuna. Choncho, akazi ayenera adziwe izi:

• Komwe phungu abwino?
• Kodi kuti ndizolowere?
• Kodi kudzapeza ntchito zithumwa zawo?
• Kodi kusunga tcheru Monga izo?

Mayankho a mafunso amenewa lili bokosibode wamkazi. Nsonga anapereka pansipa chingatithandize kukhala katswiri woona ku chinsiriro.

maziko

• Phunzirani kuugwira nokha. Zikuwoneka njala nkhandwe yekha m'mbuyo ofuna lingathe malo mu mtima mwanu. Chibwenzi ndithu chidwi dona, amene mwa kukhoza kwa ankamwetulira ndiponso khalidwe mwachibadwa.
• Kunena tiwonana anzake. Zonse thandizo inu chirichonse. Komanso, alenje awiri zambiri kusankha wovulalayo umodzi. Zimenezi zingachititse kuti koopsa. Njira - si wolemetsedwa ndi kusungulumwa wozingwa. Mwachitsanzo, mukakhala pansi pa tebulo mu cafe ndi kuwerenga magazini kapena uthenga kuonera pa Intaneti.
• Samalani ndi amene amabwera pa! kapena atsikana angathe kulakwitsa iwo kupezeka chizindikiro. Yesani kuphunzitsa zosangalatsa ndiponso zabwino, koma pa nthawi yomweyo akugwira pa maso otetezeka mtunda.
• Sankhani-akazi Komabe, ngati mwamuna, zoika chiletso okhwima pa uchidakwa. Palibe chonyansa kuposa tipsy dona Kulola nthabwala zonyansa ndipo inunso mtima. A mayi ngati zinthu zikuoneka kuti khalidwe hypersexuality ake, koma zimenezi si zoona.
• Musavutike kukondweretsa anthu ndi chidwi. Wokwanira amatchula zambiri pang'ono kuposa ena. Motero, munthu akhoza kukhulupirira kuti alipo mlenje, osati inu. Pankhaniyi, masewera adzakhala chabe.
• Luso ndikukhudzana. Ndikhulupirireni, kuwala matupi kukhudza zingachititse namondwe wa maganizo. Kuti "kupanga" munthu osati kuvina theka wamaliseche pa mowa.
• Umadzikondera wekha Choyamba. Yochokera chikhulupiriro, inu kukopa abambo woyenera effortlessly.
• Yesetsani kumvetsa zimene mukufuna kwa mwamuna makamaka. Muyenera kukopana? Kamvuluvulu chibwenzi? ubale? Atapangiratu ichi, kudzakhala kosavuta kumanga njira.

Kuyesetsa kuti?

Bokosibode wamkazi kumafuna resurfacing makhalidwe ena omwe makamaka kugonana ndi amuna. Ena mwa iwo ndi izi:

• Kupanda mokwiya.
• Initiative (amtengo).
• Wodzilamulira.
• Looseness mu dera wapamtima.
• Ufulu ku tsankho.
• Luso lomvetsera kuti interlocutor lapansi.

Ena amwayi mwachibadwa kupereka mphamvu kukopa tcheru wamwamuna. Komabe, si onse tingalandire makhalidwe chibadidwe molondola. Monga ichi ndi kuphunzitsa bokosibode wamkazi. Nsonga chinsiriro ndi zofunika osati kuloweza, komanso kugwiritsa ntchito bwino.

zinsinsi bwino

• Yesani nthawizonse kukhala pamaso. Mabwenzi atsopano, kukhala omasuka kukambirana. Kusankha amatanthauza malo a nthawi ufulu. Ngati inu ndimalota za akulu munthu wokongola, sayembekezera kuti akakomane naye iye mu laibulale.
• Yanganilani maonekedwe awo. Kumbukirani: kukumana ndi chinthu chimene mukufuna, kungakhale posakonzekera. Wangwiro maonekedwe, zosavuta kumwetulira ndi maganizo abwino - apa ndi kudzathandiza kwanu kosatha.
• Khalani katswiri pa kuwerenga maganizo wamwamuna. Kudziwa zimenezi kudzakuthandizani kuti adziwe kwathunthu wamkazi bokosibode. Phwando adzakhala sizithandiza ngati mulibe Kuganizira ndi nthawi imene kunena ndi kuchita.
• Matamando - nyambo yabwino. Ngati munthu walandira Kuthokoza ku adiresi wake, iye akuzimirira kutali. Komabe, apa kutsatira muyezo. Kotero chidwi woyera nsapato kapena kukonza suti adzachititsa chisokonezo kwambiri. Praise inu amuna a zochita zozizwitsa ndi thandizo yake. Ngati inu sindimakonda matriarchy, mkazi bokosibode kudzakuthandizani kumanga ubale ndi munthu kotero kuti iye adzakhala Knight wanu, ndipo inu - dona wake wokongola.
• Yesani nyimbo mu timaganiza mofanana ndi mukufuna kugonana wamphamvu. Ichi ndi yabwino yoti kubwereza kwa manja ake, kalankhulidwe, kuyenda. Ndi khalidwe ndi kudzilimbikitsa akazi bokosibode. Koma samalani: buku bwino kutengedwa ngati mnyozo ndi.

Elena Gamayun. "Female bokosibode»

Mogwirizana ndi Alice Elena Andreeva Humayun anapereka mpambo wa galimoto. Buku ali kutchuka wautali kwambiri chifukwa lili ndi malangizo othandiza mogwirizana zambiri pa kuphunzira kuchuluka kwa chinsiriro. "Amayi bokosibode" - buku limene limafotokoza njira chotsimikiziridwa chibwenzi, zimene zimathandiza kumvetsa kuwerenga maganizo a anthu ndi kuwulula zinsinsi za mmene kukopa osankhidwa bwino.

Nsonga kwa ubwino

Elena Gamayun muli njira kukwaniritsa bwino pa tsiku loyamba. Chinsinsi cha loyamba: mkazi alibe nthawi kugometsa. Chirichonse anaganiza ndi mphindi zingapo, nthawi zina masekondi chibwenzi. Chinsinsi awiri: kwambiri anatsimikiza pa tsiku loyamba. Ndi pa izi - oyambirira - siteji munthu aganiza, mogwirizana ndi zimene kukhazikitsa ubale. Ndipo ngati mumasonyeza Mwachitsanzo, kupezeka wapadera, musati tizidalira buku lalikulu.

anayendera

zochitika zosiyanasiyana moyo adzakuthandizani kumvetsa ngati mnzanu woyenera munthu. Wina njira - Yang'anani kuwolowa manja. Ndi Mulimonsemo sizikutanthauza osaganiza owonongedwa chikwama munthu. Koma monga ulamuliro, waumbombo kwambiri osati gawani ngakhale ndi zana rubles. Pitani ku cafe a. Pamene kulipira mosamala mmene munthu amalowerera ndalama. Yochititsa manyazi chifukwa cha molakwa anayesedwa kapena kuika nkhani chofufuzidwa ayenera mukuganiza.

Ngati chinachake khalidwe la amuna inu wochenjera, Musataye nthawi pachabe. Wapatali anu mphamvu kugonana, musataye munthu ake osadalirika. Zikatero, ngati pachabe, irritability, tearfulness, ndi chipwirikiti si yaitali kubwera.

Kusokonezedwa mkati mwathu

Elena Humayun limanena kuti akazi ambiri ndi khwekhwe, mapulogalamu kusungulumwa. kamangidwe kake wapadera - bokosibode amayi njira kulola kuchotsa zotchinga anaika. Choncho, kodi kupewa kukhala osangalala ndiponso timawakonda

• "Munthu wolemera ndithu mwachinyengo. The ndalama zoyipa! Munthu pa galimoto yabwino? Mofananamo, bandit! "Chotsani maganizo amenewa. Bizinezi anthu - olimbika pa ntchito ndi udindo ndi anthu anzeru.
• "Kupeza woyamba ndi kosatheka." Kugwiritsa kudzichepetsa - msewu komwe, koma sizikusokonezani kulimba mtima ndi khama.
• "Ine ndine wosakongola." Umadzikondera wekha ndi zolakwa zonse. Ndikhulupirireni, ambiri a zolakwa zanu zokha zindikirani inu!
• "Nthawi ikutha, Ndikufuna kukwatiwa mwamsanga." Akazi wakulungama muyenera kuteteza osachepera chakuti mkazi ndi udindo kwa ana tsogolo bambo ndi iwo adzatero. Ikani pa mtima wosangalala, osati maganizo a ena.

Pomaliza

Kumbukirani: chinthu chofunika kwambiri mu ntchito iliyonse - kugwirizana. Ntchito pa nokha, bwino!