Ndi nthabwala chiyani? Muli nawo iwo?

The Izitu n'zovutitsa, wosakhazikika, monyoza, olamulirawo - mfundo zambiri zimene zingabweretse kumwetulira. Koma izi si unsembe wa nthabwala, monga ambiri amaganizira. Postulates sayansi monga kuwerenga maganizo amati izi ndi zitsanzo za zida kuti adziteteze. Ndipo kodi nthabwala ndi amene ali nawo? Tiyeni tifufuze.

Kuyamba lembani zimene mungachite nthabwala:

- zabwino ndi zoipa;

- Black ndi zoyera:

- woonda ndi zamwano;

- chonyezimira ndipo pomwepo.

Atafufuza, asayansi ubiquitous (olemba, akatswiri, luso azambiriyakale, zamaganizo) amaona kuti anthu ndi nthabwala, luso kuganiza mwanzeru associatively ndipo mophiphiritsa. Pamene njira ya nthabwala mwachindunji amadalira maphunziro. The zambiri erudite munthu, ndi slimmer ndi n'kakang'ono nthabwala. Tikawonetsetsa anthu osachepera ophunzira ngati nthabwala zopanda moona, osati makamaka kuganiza moyenera nthabwala ndi otani izo akuti kuyambira pa amene adaseleula motere naye.

Kumvetsetsa zimene nthabwala, luso m'kagulu anthu mokoma mtima zindikirani mbali zimaseketsa wa moyo:

- Anthu amene alibe wanthabwala, amene amangoyankhula sindikumvetsa chiyani zoseketsa, kotero nthabwala ndi sindimakonda. Iwo ayese nthabwala ndi bwino kucheza - iwo ali ndi zolephera zake.

- Anthu amene sindikudziwa momwe nthabwala, koma amadziwa nthabwala ndi kumvetsera kwa iwo.

- panyengo omvera amadziwa nthabwala, kubwereza anthu ena makoti kusangalala ndi aphorisms, anecdotes, ndipo ngakhale milandu moyo.

- Waluso umunthu, Olemba nthabwala zawo, aphorisms, anecdotes, amene ndiye kuchoka wophunzira wina ndi mzake.

- Anthu amene sikuti mukudziwa zomwe nthabwala, komanso ndi lonse ya makhalidwe abwino a oseketsa. Komanso, iwo amatha kufalitsa nthabwala pa maalumali: kuuza ndi kufotokoza chikhalidwe ake, amene mawu anapanga nthabwala, ndi Fotokozani mmene kudziwa zoyenera, wachisomo ndi modabwitsa zosangalatsa.

Mwa njira, chikhalidwe cha nthabwala ndipo anaphunzira madokotala. Iwo adaphola kupeza koonekeratu: kuseka kumalimbitsa chitetezo anthu, kumathandiza thupi kuti machiritso ndi maganizo maganizo athu, kutalikitsa moyo. Koma kuti aziona kuti ndi chidaliro ndipo amatha kuseka pang'ono moona mtima. Zikuonekeratu kuti mophiphiritsa nthabwala si onse anapatsidwa pa kubadwa.

Kungakhale chilakolako ndi mwayi onse kuphunzira. A nthabwala akufotokozera! Onani Comedy, azithunzithunzi zino, kuwerenga nthabwala, Zotengera ndi zidutswa zoseketsa. Koma osati ntchito zipatso choseketsa gwero, ndi kuyesa kuti tisanthule iliyonse nthabwala amva. Yesetsani kumvetsa njira yake ya momwe kunapezeka? ndi ubale causal zaloŵerera chiyani? Kodi anabweretsa kumwetulira: zoseketsa mawu, ndi ambiguity za nkhaniyi, ntchito mawu?

Yambani ndi nthabwala kumanena nthabwala. Ndi thandizo lawo, inu mosavuta kupewa zotheka zovuta mokambirana ndi munthu chidwi inu. Ndiyeno kuphunzira momwe kumbukirani nkhani ya zogwirizana kukambirana anecdote izo zikanakhala fanizo yabwino kwa kukambirana, ndipo adzakupatsani inu zambiri zosangalatsa zimene mtima mwa omvetsera chifukwa njinga.