Nchifukwa chiyani akulota imfa ya abambo ake? Timaphunzira!

Nchifukwa chiyani akulota imfa ya abambo ake? Masomphenya amenewa, ndithudi, ali ndi mitundu yoipa, imasiya kusweka ndi ululu. Ngakhale mabuku ambiri olota maloto alemba kuti malotowo ndi chizindikiro chabwino kwambiri. Choncho musakhale wokhumudwa ndikuganizira zachisoni. Ndibwino kukumbukira zochitika zonse za kugona, kotero kuti mutha kumasulira momveka bwino zomwe mwawona.

Zofunika zoyambirira za kugona

• Chifukwa chiyani akulota imfa ya atate wake, ngati ali moyo? Masomphenya amenewa amamupatsa chimwemwe ndipo, ndithudi, amakhala ndi moyo wautali. Ngati muwona maloto ngati abambo anu akudwala, ndiye mukudziwa: ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino. Posachedwa adzachira ndikuchira bwinobwino.
• Ngati nthawi zonse mumatsutsana ndi abambo anu, simungapeze "zofanana", ndiye kuti malotowo akuti muyenera kusintha chilichonse kuti chikhale chabwino. Izi ndizo, nthawi yafika pamene pakufunika kuyanjanitsa, ndikugonjetsa kusagwirizana. Tiyeni tizindikire kuti tsopano, mwa njira, osati inu nokha komanso atate wanu mwakonzeka kupanga chiyanjano. Choncho, pakalipano, chiyanjanitso chidzakhala chopweteka kwambiri kumbali zonse ziwiri.
• Nchifukwa chiyani akulota imfa ya abambo ake? Masomphenya awa ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa achinyamata. Kugona ndi chizindikiro kuti ndi nthawi yoti musiye kuchita zinthu mopepuka, zingakhale zovuta kwambiri kuti ziwonetsedwe m'tsogolo.
• Ndipo kodi loto la imfa ya abambo ake ndi lotani? Masomphenya omwewo angakhale chizindikiro chakuti mwanayo ali ndi nsanje kwa amayi kwa papa. Musapitirire nazo zakumverera, chifukwa cha izi, pangakhale mavuto, kukonzanso kumene kumatenga zaka zambiri.

Nchiyani chingalepheretse maloto?

• Ngati mu maloto bambo adamwalira ndi matenda opweteka, ndiye mukudziwa: masomphenya awa akulosera kuperekedwa kwa munthu yemwe ali ndi cholinga chofunika kwambiri.
• Ngati muwona bambo yemwe adamwalira kale, mverani malo anu. Kodi anthu onse ndi odalirika komanso oyenerera? Mwinamwake iwo sayenera kukhala odalirika kwambiri? Mavuto azachuma angabwere chifukwa cha mabwenzi osokoneza malonda. Yang'anani bwinobwino malo anu onse. Kuphatikizanso, maloto ngati amenewa angakuchenjezeni kuti malonda omwe mukufuna kuti awononge adzakuwonongani (komanso ochuluka) kwa inu ndi anthu ena. Zosankha zanu zidzakhala zovuta chifukwa cha ndalama zawo.

Kutsiliza

Tsopano inu mukudziwa chomwe imfa ya abambo anga ili. Monga mukuonera, masomphenya osakondweretsa sangathe kuwonetsa zoipa, komanso zabwino. Koma mulimonsemo, muyenera kukhala tcheru ndipo musachite zinthu zopusa.