Kodi tiyenera kukhala ndi ukwati lonjezo?

Mu West, pali mwambo wokongola: nthawi ya ukwati, wansembe akulowa manja ndi mitima ya achinyamata kulowa m'banja, iwo wina ndi mnzake lumbiro. Kamodzi mwambo anali nafe, koma kuvala mtsinje mwambo mu ofesi kaundula kwambiri osati wogwidwa ndi zinthu mphindi touchingly wapadera. Koma, inu mukuona, pali chinachake chapadera ichi!

chifukwa lumbiro

N'chifukwa chiyani ndinapatsidwa izi lonjezo ukwati? ndicho chikhalidwe ndi chiani? Iwo anali ankaganiza kuti mabanja si kulikonse, koma kumwamba. Ndipo pa mwambowu achinyamata mmene Mulungu kuti mumtsimikizire amavomereza lingaliro lake, chifuniro chake chabwino kwa banja. Ukwati Lonjezo anali wakuya, tanthauzo pafupifupi wopatulika. Mkwati ndi mkwatibwi anapereka mawu a Ambuye, iye sakanati abwerere mzake, sadzakhala adzaswa pangano lake. Iwo ndi okonzeka kukhala limodzi ndi kuthandizana osati munthawi ya chisangalalo, ulemerero, ulemerero.

Aliyense ukwati lonjezo kuphatikizapo - ndi lonjezo kuti sangathe kuthyoledwa. Izi patsogolo pa guwa, iye anatsindika kuti mkwati ndi mkwatibwi kupanga stepi ino dala akufuna kukhala pamodzi ndi chisoni, kuti azithandizana mavuto ndiponso matenda ndi kudutsamo moyo dzanja mu dzanja mpaka anamwalira. Okonda ambiri ndimakhala pamwamba akukokomeza ndipo kwambiri chapamwamba kuzindikira maganizo awo. Iwo amaganiza kuti chikondi ndi iwo ali, palibe koma atasiya mu moyo. Kumene, impulsiveness ngati alipo mu lemba umene lumbiro ukwati. Komabe, banjali kuupereka si wamphamvu kwambiri, komanso wina ndi mzake, titero, kachiwiri kuvomereza chikondi, ndipo uyu ndi lalikulu kukambirana mitima. Kusinkhasinkha mmene ndi zimene kunena, kutola "iwo ndi ambiri" mawu oyenerera, mnyamata ndi msungwana (wamwamuna kapena wamkazi) ndi kupenda ubale wawo, kachiwiri n'kutiuza nokha ndi bwenzi anali kusanthula kale. N'chifukwa chake ukwati lonjezo, mawu ake - kuzindikira dala ndi kuzindikira mokweza okhawo amene angathe kukhala wolimba theka la wina. Mwina, nuance ili ndi tanthauzo lalikulu la miyambo ndi.

Lumbiro vesi ndi prose

Ndi chimene chingakhale ukwati lonjezo? Mu vesi ndi prose, olimbikitsa, chimatsogoleredwa, wapadera, achipembedzo ndi akunja. Ambiri ndi izi: "Ine, kotero ndi choncho, Ine Inu ngati ndi zimenezi, mkazi, ndipo ine ndikukulonjezani kuchengeta, kukonda, muziona iwe moyo. Ndikulonjeza kukhala wokhulupirika kwa inu, samalani ndi wofatsa thandizo kunyumba, chithandizo pa nkhani onse ndiponso nkhawa. Ndikulonjeza kukhala wabwino ndi wolungama atate kwa ana athu, kutenga mbali mu anakulira. Ndimakukonda monga mkazi, Ine kumulemekeza monga mkazi wake, woyang'anira banja moto wathu, continuer mtundu. Zikhale chomwecho nthawi zonse "kapena lonjezo ukwati mu ndime:

"Ndimakukonda, wokondedwa wanga,

Ndikulonjeza pafupi,

Kuthandiza mu zonse, chifukwa ine ndikudziwa,

Kodi moyo wovuta!

Tsiku ndi tsiku lililonse akusowa:

Ndi matenda ndi mavuto.

vuto lokha Akola,

Amene ali amphamvu, aliuma, kulimbika!

Ndimakonda amphamvu anu,

Ine angayerekeze, chifukwa ife tiri tsopano - banja!

Ine ndidzakhala wokondwa ndi ine,

Ndipo nanu - Ndine wokondwa "!

Mugulu amadza ndi lokha chifukwa ndilo mawu a lumbiro lake. Ingokhalani woonamtima, ndi kulankhula kwa mtima, akupereka mawu amodzi, khalani kuti mapeto!