Kodi mukudziwa kuti m'bale mwamuna wanga - mbale wako?

Banja lililonse Russian amagwiritsa tsiku ndi tsiku chabe matanthauzo angapo ku zovuta ndi mizu yozama zaka zimakhalira terminology. Atatsala pang'ono pa February utasintha, ambiri a mabanja a Russian Ufumu anali aakulu pafupifupi onse achibale moyo pamodzi m'nyumba imodzi kapena pafupi wina ndi mnzake. Lero, zinthu zikuwoneka kwathunthu njira zosiyanasiyana: miyambo mfundo banja mu Russia ano Ikatha tsiku lililonse zochepa.

Ndipo lero, ambiri a ife amavutika kusankha ndi munthu amene. Kumbali ya mabanja mbadwa Russian ali mwapang'ono kwambiri, ndipo anagwira banja ife timachitcha kale "madzi odzola chiwiri" simungathe amaonetsera ubale wawo, kuti: "? M'bale mwamuna - ndiye ine".

Pofuna kukumbukira mosavuta amene ali m'bale wa mwamuna wake kapena mlongo, mkazi wanu, muyenera kupeza bwino chikhalidwe wakale wa banja pakati pa abale ndi azilamu omwe anapezeka dzina lake mu Russian. N'zochititsa chidwi kudziwa kuti mawu akuti "m'bale apongozi" anabwera zinenero m'mayiko a ku Ulaya mu Chisansikiriti, lomwe limatanthauza "mwamuna chachiwiri," chifukwa ngati mkazi m'masiku amenewo anakhala mkazi wamasiye wa cholinga chake anatenga pa mapewa ake, m'bale wake, ndipo iye anapita mpaka iye nyumba ndi ana ake onse.

banja mwamuna ndi latsopano apongozi

Pambuyo banja anali okwatira ndipo analumbira kukhala limodzi mpaka mapeto a masiku ake, latsopano unit wa anthu, achinyamata, magulu atsopano pa wina ndi pa dzanja ena. Kuthana ndi kuti dzina la m'bale kapena achibale a mwamuna, anagula mu banja, muyenera kukumbukira kuti banja, amene anaonekera mu wamng'ono atakwatirana, amatchedwa azilamu ndiko kuti, abale mwa ukwati, osati magazi.

Malinga wakale mwambo wa banja lanu, mwana azitenga mkazi wake kunyumba makolo ake, anthu pafupifupi onse banja lake. Choncho amene amagwa ndi mnyamata mbuye? Ambiri mwa achinyamata amadziwa kuti makolo mwamuna wake - ndi apongozi ndi apongozi, ndi mkazi wa mwana wake kwa iwo - wamkazi kapena mtengwa. Mpongozi - mlongo mwamuna watsopano, koma m'bale mwamuna - m'bale apongozi mkazi wake wamng'ono.

Pambuyo achinyamata ayamba latsopano chibale ndi zimakhalira pachibale terminology kuphunzira za zingwe, iwo sangapezekenso kudabwa ndi mafunso monga: "? Kenako m'bale wa mwamuna wake - awa ndi ndani" kapena "mlongo wa mwamuna wanga ndani?". Komanso, ambiri amene akuda chidwi funso ili, kuyatsa chilakolako kulenga wathunthu awo banja mtengo wa banja.

N'chifukwa chiyani kuli kofunika kuti tizisungitsa mtendere m'banja

Pali milandu pamene makolo, m'bale kapena mlongo, mwamuna - ndi mutu weniweni kwa mkazi wina amene ayenera kukhala ndi banja mwamuna m'nyumba imodzi. Pankhaniyi, si koyenera kuti kukulitsa nkhaniyo. Muyenera yesani kuthetsa mkangano mwamtendere ndi mwachete koma ndi bwino kusuntha ndi mwamuna wake mu nyumba osiyana, pali kuthekera.

Musaiwale kuti madera amenewa olekanitsidwa ndi mabanja achinyamata kuyamba ndi ufulu, posapita nthawi adakali kumbukirani achibale awo ndi apongozi ndi kumvetsa kufunika kwa luso bwino ndi mpongozi, m'bale apongozi ndi apongozi. Onse iwo kukhala agogo, azakhali ndi amalume, ndi chiyaninso chimene kukhala yofunika kwambiri makolo kuposa m'banja lalikulu ndi ubwenzi umene kukula mwana wamng'ono?