Kodi mosavuta kuzindikira mpheto a. 7 zizindikiro zimene zinatichititsa kuganiza

Pomwepo kukhumudwitsa, osati zonsezi idzakhala yophweka. Chinthu chofunika kwambiri kulankhulana - mungawononge maganizo anu, ndi kuti kumafuna maphunziro ena. Kuzindikiritsidwa ndi mawu mumtima mwanu - ndi cholepheretsa kwambiri polankhulana, chifukwa maganizo akhoza kulimbitsa - kuika chizindikiro ofanana pakati pa Ine ndi malingaliro anu, tiyenera kulola munthu wina manipulator n'zosavuta kusintha nkhani kubwerera pamzere olondola. Pofuna kupewa izi zisachitike, inu muyenera kuyang'ana aziwatsatira. Kupitiriza mosalekeza. Poyamba kudzakhala kovuta, mudzagwa maganizo, koma ndi mindfulness mchitidwe akubwera.

Koma ndi nkhani, koma lero ine ndikufuna kulankhula za mmene akumvera yeniyeni ndi zizindikiro onena mpheto lapansi.

Chirichonse akubwera ndi zinachitikira. Ndipo phunziro yabwino ndi vuto yake. Ngati mukuona kuti wina watenga mwayi pa inu, kapena mokakamizika kulandira "sangathe" yankho kwa inu, tangoima ndi kuganizira mmene zinthu mnzake, ngati mmene Achititsa kuti unali wapadera kukambirana kuti. Kupanga mapeto ndipo si mwatsatane pa mafupa okhaokha womwewo nthawi ina.

Ine ndidzakhala lembani zizindikiro za mpheto (osati onse) kuti adzapanga mukuganizira mu mkangano.

1. anachitazi

A chizindikiro Mmenemo choonekera chomwe chimasonyeza mpheto lapansi. Ngati mukuona kusapeza pa kugonana, n'zotheka kuti amaumiriza inu, kukupangani inu okayikitsa, kutsutsa kapena kalekale kuthawa ayankhe.

2. Usawope kuchita zomwe

Mu nkhani iyi, manipulator akuchonderera kudalira kwanu pa maganizo a anthu ena. Amene akufuna kumva zimene iye boor wodzikonda analowa yonyansa, osati wolungamitsidwa chikhulupiriro, ndi zina zotero? Aliyense.

3. Wolakwa

Ohhh, ndi amakonda tsenga la manipulators, akaonekere kwa mphamvu ya kupalamula. Wozunzidwayo akuyamba kudziikira kumbuyo, ndipo misozi awo "cholakwa" ndi njira zonse zomveka osati kwambiri. The aligorivimu ndi losavuta:

• Mosamala mlandu anthu
• (Mungathe kuponya akayamba kuvuta)
• ?????
• Phindu !!

4. "mokondera" zinthu

Pafupifupi alankhulane, alankhulane angathe kuonedwa kuti zokambirana malonda. Kanyumba ali ndi mfundo zake ndi mavuto amavomera kulemba pangano. Choncho, chiŵerengero "winnings - amalipiritsa" sayenera mapendekeredwe mbali ya bolodi. Ngati mukuona kuti akusiya kuposa apeze - Chenjezo!

5. Posintha udindo

Ngati ndinu wotsimikiza kuti udindo posankha zochita, kwa kanthu ndi inu ... chenjerani! Kawirikawiri ife ndiribe ngongole iliyonse kwa munthu aliyense, ndi zochita atengedwa mogwirizana. Choncho kwenikweni chifukwa chiyani muyenera kusankha pa nthawi ino? Makamaka mantha ali pamodzi ndi nkhambakamwa za kusowa nthawi.

6. interviewee amapereka maonekedwe a kusowa nthawi

Chenjezo! kusowa nthawi zambiri - monga yonyenga. Yopuma. mphindi imodzi kapena ziwiri palibe udindo wapadera kusewera. Ndikuganiza bata. Nthawi zambiri n'zotheka mwayi chisankho anachita masiku angapo.

7. Infantile anachita

A chizindikiro Mmenemo choonekera. Kulira, waukali, mkwiyo ... Osadandaula, komanso n'zotheka mpheto. Zilowerere yopuma ndi kukhala bata.

Kamodzi, pa foni, muona imodzi ya mphamvu, za amene ndalankhula, amayamba ndi mfuti ndipo mukuganiza: Kodi Sanyengerera ine?

Zabwino, ndipo Musataye maso!