Kodi kupanga chikondi

mgwirizano umene chifukwa chokonda, ndi nambala inayake mapazi. Pa gawo loyamba la chikondi Mukungoyamba kudziwana ndi kupeza amene ali ubwino ndi kuipa, etc. Komanso, tisaiwale kuti anzanga koyamba siteji mwamtheradi si limakhumudwitsa wina ndi mzake, monga mmene zingakhalire mu awiri amene amakhala kwa kuchuluka mokwanira lalikulu la nthawi.

Ubale bwinobwino kukhala ndi kufika mlingo lotsatira zofunika kanthu ya anthu chikondi. Monga ulamuliro, chifukwa cha kusintha kwa msinkhu wina timakhala ndi anayambitsa atangomwalira ndiko chiyambi cha kugonana. Koma, mwatsoka, ndi momwe apange chikondi, si anthu onse mukudziwa. Koma izi zikhoza tikonze. Pali gulu lalikulu la mabuku amene angathandize anthu kuphunzira kusankha chikondi. nkhaniyi anasonkhana pafupifupi onse zinthu zofunika pa nkhaniyi.

Kuyambira moyo kugonana, mwamtheradi achinyamata onse basi kudziwa zambiri ndithu za mfundo zothandiza kuti chikondi. Tikumbukenso kuti chinthu chofunika kwambiri kuziganizira masitepe oyamba pamwamba pa moyo wapamtima, ndi kukhala ndi chidaliro mu chibwenzicho. chakuti khalidwe limeneli adzalola abwenzi kuti akhale omasuka ndi mnzake mu bedi.

Kudziwa mmene kuthana ndi Sachs, chikondi tifunika kufufuza mndandanda wa zotheka kuika. chakuti malo oyenera lovemaking zidzathandiza achinyamata kukwaniritsa zosangalatsa pazipita ndi kukondwera bedi. Dziwani kuti udindo mmishonale ndi munthu wa bwino. Izi zingathe kufotokozedwa chifukwa chakuti mwamuna wake pafupifupi akukumbatirana wina ndi mzake. Kutanthauza kuchita zonse mofanana pa tsiku loyamba. Mu udindo uwu munthu lagona pamwamba pa mkazi. Choncho, udindo uwu, ndi nthumwi za kugonana mphamvu akulamulira ndondomeko lonse. Mtsikanayo Pankhaniyi akuona wodzidalira.

Izo zikhoza kuchitika kuti nthawi yanu okonda woyamba kusankha kuchita kugonana mkamwa. Mu nkhani iyi, "69" malo kupsa bwino. Zimenezi adzalola akazi kukumana zilakolako za wina ndi m'kamwa ena. Kukachitika kuti anayambitsa chiyambi cha moyo kugonana msungwana chabe, angabweretse "wokwera" chasintha kwa nthawi yoyamba angapo wachikondi. Kuwonjezera pa pamwamba zikhoza kutchuka yaikulu udindo "doggy-kalembedwe". Pankhaniyi, kanthu amapita ku kugonana wamphamvu. A mndandanda wa zinthu zimenezi kudzatithandiza abwenzi bwino kudziwana ndi "ichi" ...

Kudziwa mmene kupanga chikondi, mwamuna ayenera kumvetsa kuti ayenera kukhala ukapolo kwambiri bedi. Apo ayi, izi ndi amadza zoipa kwambiri pa ubwenzi alipo. Pali wina, otchedwa, lamulo kuti n'kofunika kuganizira zinthu, ngati okonda abwenzi anaganiza zoyamba kugonana. Ngati achinyamata kale anayamba ubwenzi wapamtima, chifukwa iwo kugonana mwamsanga ndipo mowiriza akhoza kukhala zachilendo ndipo ngakhale chodabwitsa bwino chimene chimapangitsa kuti moyo wawo pamodzi zosiyanasiyana pang'ono. Koma kwa awiriawiri wongokhazikitsidwa yabwino wosakanikirana kugonana pazikhala mu malo omasuka ndi abwino kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, mu chipinda cha nyumba yake kapena chipinda cha hotelo.

Palibe kukaika kuti achinyamata pamene angoyamba kukonza ubwenzi kukachita siteji latsopano kugwirizana ndi isanayambike kugonana. Koma, mwatsoka, osati aliyense akudziwa kuti izi ndi zofunika kukonzeketsera. Nkhani m'nkhani ino kudzakuthandizani kumvetsa chikondi, mmene angachitire ndi koyamba chikondi.