Kodi kuletsa mtsikana ali okongola?

Mugone Achikondi si nthawi zonse pamene tikufuna. Anagonjetsa Changu, ndi chidwi mu achinyamata kuyamba kuganiza za momwe kuletsa mtsikana. Ndi kokha pa koyamba zikuoneka zophweka. Koma zoona zake n'zakuti zinthu siziri mophweka ... Misozi akayamba kuvuta ndipo nthawi zina sizimadziwika antics girlish kaŵirikaŵiri zimayendera ndondomeko kulekana. N'kotheka kuchepetsa zithunzi izi zosasangalatsa, Usadzipweteka kudziwa mmene kuponya mtsikana.

Choyamba, tiyeni onetsetsani kuti ndi oonadi chokhumba chanu ndi bondo pambuyo sangakhale naye iye. Chabwino, ndiye inu muyenera kukhala olimba mtima kutenga kutitimira. Pa nthawi yomweyo tiyenera musaiwale golide ulamuliro wa asiyane: "ponya msungwana ayenera kuti sanali chakukhosi inu." Ndikhulupirireni, izi ndi zofunika kwambiri. mikangano zosafunika mavuto ndi otsutsa inu anthu pa nthawi ino safuna aliyense. Kukhala wochezeka pambuyo kulekana kovuta, koma n'kotheka. Ndipo ngati muli munthu wololera, ndicho chimene inu kuyesa kuchita. Pankhaniyi, kukumbukira kuti ali ndi inu kudzadalira mmene ululu kwambiri ndipo ganizirani adzakhala nthumwi ya kugonana chilungamo. Mukhumudwa ndi mukunyoza ake sikuthandiza. Nkwapafupi kwa lino palibe amene adzatero.

Sikuti pamene kuganiza za momwe kutaya mtsikana, akuyesera kuti apeze njira kuthawa kukambirana mwachindunji ndi iye, ndipo kutero, ngati mawu ukupita, "kumbuyo kwake." Ndipo ngakhale kuti si kwapafupi, Frank kucheza naye Tete-à-Tete kapena "diso kwa diso" - njira Onetsetsani kuti vutoli. Phunzirani kukhala wolimba mtima nthawi zonse ndipo kulikonse. Ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe wanu wakale bwenzi kuwawa, kenako iye angayamikire izo. Mnyozo ndi mawu wosakhutira pa nthawi - osati ogwira bwino. Sikuti kudziŵitsa mtsikanayo kuti chifukwa lagona akutsanzikana ake, ndi kuti iye akuvutika basi inu mukuyenera. Ndi bwino kuti "kutenga itapita" ndipo anafotokoza kuti chifukwa lili kokha mwa inu, ndipo palibe cholakwika mwa asiyane. Bwino kulola mtsikana amaganiza kuti inu - munthuyo si okhazikika ndi inu zovuta kwa nthawi yaitali ndi ubale ndi wina aliyense wa atsikana fairer.

Ganizilani chilichonse chimene ndi mawu tipanga bwanji kuponya mtsikana. Ndipo onetsetsani kuti kusankha okha kumanga ndondomeko ya asiyane: zichite mwamsanga, chabe kuwadziwitsa wake wa kampani yakeyo kusankha kusiya kapena kupereka nthawi yake kuti aganizire kuti ndikuuzeni inu ndi kuyesa wosangalala mawu opweteka ndi zochita zawo: manja kutonthoza (mwachitsanzo, stroking manja), wachifundo mawu ndi zina zotero. Apa ndi pamene inu muyenera kusankha nokha. Malangizo imeneyi ndi yovuta kupereka mosalephera chifukwa izo si kuwawa kudziwa za makhalidwe anu yosadziwika ndi mbali ya mtsikana.

lingaliro ndi kuponya Munthu, komabe sasiya inu? Kenako pang'ono nsonga. Kamodzi kwa nthawi zonse mwamphamvu kumvetsa kuti ngati asankha kusiya, Mulimonsemo sangathe chiyembekezo ndi mtsikana kuti akadali zotheka kuti abwerere. Muyenera ndithudi kutsimikizira ake kuti palibe mmbuyo ndipo sangakhale ndi cholimba wanu chisankho ndi osasinthika. Ngati mtsikana m'chiyembekezo mudzakhala nthawi kuitana mwano ndi mwano si koyenera, kutaya chubu - komanso. Naye mokoma mtima, koma nthawi iliyonse ine anamulola iye adziwe kuti lero - ndiwe chabe bwenzi lake. Kupereka kukumana ndi modekha, koma momveka anauzidwa kuti zimenezi n'zosatheka ndi lopanda pake ndithu. kulimba wanu ndi kulimbikira - athandizi anu okhulupirika mu nkhani iyi. M'kupita kwa nthawi, chiyembekezo wanu wakale bwenzi amaziralira ndi kuyitana anaima.

Chabwino, mapeto tikufuna kunena kuti kutenga otsimikiza mtima choti nadzawasankhula kugwirizana ndi chibwenzi chake, kuganizira mmene kutaya mtsikana wokongola. Inde, ndi wokongola. kanthu za mwamuna weniweni ayenera kukhala monga choncho. Zidzakhala 1: 0 mu mtima wanu ...