Kodi kuchotsa chikondi?

Chikondi - kumverera kwambiri pa moyo wathu chizolowezi. Zinali iye amene anatipulumutsa ife tsiku lililonse, kaya ndi chikondi chotani izo - makolo, mwana, ziweto kapena mnzanu. Chabwino, ngati ndinu kapolo wa kumverera uku, musawafulumizitse kuganiza mmene kuchotsa chikondi unrequited, chifukwa moyo amatiphunzitsa kwambiri, ndipo ngakhale oterowo ululu amathandiza kukhala wanzeru.

Kodi kuchotsa chikondi? Funso limeneli liukitsidwa amene ali simukudziwa mmene reciprocal cha osankhidwawo, kapena kale anapeza kuti kumverera uku Mudzambweza yekha mavuto. Unrequited kapena ngoletsedwa chikondi kumabweretsa kugona usiku, akudwala kusauka kwa maganizo ndi ululu, ndipo masana kuyenda wachisoni ndi mtima wodzikonda. Kodi maganizo kwambiri, kutaya mtima ndi kuwawa kubweretsa funso "momwe tichotse kum'konda, amene sakhoza ndi kutha osangalala?". Ngati muli ndi chidaliro kwathunthu kuti chiyembekezo ayi ndipo sangakhale, nkhaniyi ikuthandizani inu ochepa nsonga ndi zidule.

Kodi kugonjetsa kuchotsa chikondi unrequited? Kuyamba ndi kuyamba, mmalo mwa kukhala kukhala ndi kuganizira mmene kuchotsa chikondi, yesani kupeza malo mu mitima ya osankhidwa. Kumbukirani kuti ngati chikondi chimenechi wathedwa, ndiye posachedwa kapena mtsogolo chimatha palokha, ndipo mu malo ake akubwera latsopano, okongola ndi zamatsenga kumverera kuti adzakupatsani mapiko ndi kupanga zoonanso pa dziko.

Choncho, kuyamba kuukira pa mtima osankhidwa kapena wosankhidwa. Phunzirani zizolowezi za wokondedwa, kuyesera kuti adatengedwa iye ndi zimene amafuna. Ngakhale ngati mulibe ziwayendere bwino zinthu zatsopano ndi luso sati adakana. Komabe, mu nkhondo iwo, kuyesa kuti asataye maganizo awo ndi zolinga zawo. Lidzasinthidwa connoisseur a pa sewero, kapena kuphunzira kuchita pirouettes pa ayezi rink, musaiwale za chiyani chidwi kwa inu. Apachiyambi, kupambana komanso m'maganizo kukopa kukukondani mu malo oyamba, ndipo ngati inu kuwasandutsa semblance palokha, ndi chodziwikiratu kuti amene angathe chidwi. Ndiyeno funso "momwe tichotse chikondi?" Kodi kukhala zogwirizana kwambiri. Chidwi kulankhula, kudziwa anzake chidwi chidziwitso chawo, kukhala moyo wa kampani. Ndiye inu ndithudi ndi mwayi uliwonse kupambana chikondi reciprocal. Komanso, kupeza mabwenzi atsopano ndi bwino ndi chinthu choyamikiridwa pafupi, inu posachedwapa angakhumudwe mwa iye.

Yesani kupeza zinthu zatsopano, kukumana ndi anthu atsopano. Pozungulira. Kuzungulira ziwalo zina zambiri anyamata kapena atsikana amene akuyenerera chikondi chanu ndi chidwi. Pozungulira. Kodi kuchotsa chikondi? Zapamwamba chibwenzi ndi munthu wina. Komabe, mu nkhani iyi, yesetsani kusewera mmene anthu ena akumvera, akuyesera kuti nsanje amene mwini mtima wanu. Mwina amene ali pafupi ndi inu, timafunika chikondi chanu ndi mtima zambiri kuposa m'mbuyomu osankhidwa.

Musaganize kuti popanda voti, mukhoza kupitirira. Ndikhulupirireni, chikondi unrequited palibe amene wamwalira, ndipo ngati iwo afa, kupusa.

Musataye wanu kudzidalira, kumulera ngati nsembe ya chikondi. Osati manyazi kutsogolo kwa aliyense, chifukwa patapita kanthawi, chikondi wapita, ndi maganizo manyazi chikhalire. Musachite amadalira aliyense. Kumbukirani kuti ngati inu sanathe kuona zimene munthu alibe malo mwa moyo wanu. Ndipo mwamsanga kuzindikira kuti simuyenera ngati munthu, liwiro adzatha kutsegula mtima wanu kwa zinthu zatsopano, zomwe mwina pafupi kwambiri ndipo akuyembekezera kokha chizindikiro pang'ono inu.

Sikuti kuganiza momwe tichotse chikondi. Muyenera kutsegula mtima wanu ndi moyo kwa chimwemwe ndi mtendere! Kukonda ndi kukondedwa!