Direct - munthu kuyambira ali mwana?

Kodi inu munayamba wovuta kwa mwana wanu, amene mungafunse mokweza kuti: "N'chifukwa dona kotero mafuta?" Kapena "N'chifukwa chiyani amalume palibe tsitsi pa mutu wake?" Ambiri mwina, inde. Ana amakonda kuchita zinthu okha, ngati palibe malamulo a malamulo ukali civility.

Choncho, munthuyo - ndi amene "amadula choonadi chiberekero" mu nkhope ndi akuti zimene iye akuganiza. Kodi zabwino, kaya ntchito zimenezi mwachindunji mu dziko ano? Ife kulankhula za mu positi.

Kumene pakubwera immediacy

"Ife tonse anali mwachindunji kamodzi" - mawu akuti zikumveka pafupifupi wachisoni, chifukwa yosavuta kuti pali pang'ono yomweyo mwa akulu. Childhood - pamene kulota, chikhulupiriro zozizwitsa, mukamamasuka nawo ndi kuwauza omasukirana. "Direct" - ndi zabwinobwino ana zimaonetseratu pamodzi ndi wosatha "chifukwa" zonse padziko ndi yogwira masewera. Komabe, dziwani kuti mwamsanga eyiti kwa zaka khumi mwana wotaya woona mtima. Anayamba alira ndi anzanu, kukhala chete, ngakhale ngati muli ndi mafunso, kusunga chinachake mu malingaliro ndi sakusonyeza malingaliro awo. N'chifukwa chiyani tikutero? lophweka. Makolo, aphunzitsi, ndipo atazunguliridwa ndi aliyense mwana kuuzira iye kuti munthuyo - izi ndi zoipa. Khalani odzipereka - kutanthauza kukhala wopanda ulemu, wamwano, cholakwika. Pakuti ndithu zomveka m'mbali funso mwanayo akhoza kutsina, mbama, kumuuza iye wotseka. Akuluakulu kusimba mwanayo kukhala oona mtima, ndipo anamulangiza angaphunzire msanga malamulo a dziko lino. Ndipo chotero immediacy mwangwiro adzathetsedwa ndi m'malo mwa chinyengo.

Immediacy akuluakulu

Monga anati Elena Ermolaeva, akulembayo ndi mwachibadwa - makhalidwe amenewa sverhelitarny, ndipo iwo si angakwanitse aliyense. Ndizo zoona. Chinsinsi ndi stereotyped athu dziko sakonda omasukirana ndi kuona mtima. Ndife kwambiri zachilengedwe aname, kunena bodza chete kuposa kukhala mwachindunji. Izi mwina chifukwa sukulu ubwana. Komano, ife tsopano ndiyeno onani zotsatira za immediacy. Anthu kutsegula kumva wophweka kwambiri, zosasangalatsa, pafupifupi mantha ndi sindimakonda. Tiyerekeze kuti takumana adzati zimene timaganiza, kwa mabwana ake, tescham ndi mayi, aphunzitsi, anthu oyandikana nawo ngakhale makolo? Musaganize kuti mawu onse adzakhala achipongwe, ndi maganizo chabe. Ayi, anthu kuopa choonadi, koma chifukwa anthu ambiri wakonda kusunga yokha chete "mu chiguduli ndi." Direct munthu akhoza kukhala ndi kusangalala ndi kupanda "zolinga zobisika", koma nkomwe osangalala ndi mmene anthu ena amaona.

The downside

Anthu ambiri amasokoneza akulembayo ndi backlinks khalidwe. Ngati immediacy - ndi zachilengedwe, silitanthauza chirichonse cholakwika kwa woyandikana nyumba, amaika kuphweka, kumalire ndi dziko mwamwano - ndi zoipa khalidwe khalidwe.

makhalidwe amenewa ndi ovuta kusakaniza. Direct munthu amakhala moona mtima, ine sindinayambe kufunsa kwambiri ndipo asakhumudwitse munthu. Iye sakunena dona zonse "ndi kudzipereka": "Ndinu mafuta," koma sangachoke maganizo ake pamene anafunsa za izo. anthu Direct kuseka, kulira, khalidwe monga limafotokoza mtima, osati makhalidwe societal. Ham, snapper moona zovulaza anthu, sumabala anthu kanthu kabwino kapena yowala.

Ubwino immediacy

Kotero, kumvetsa mfundo, ndi Ndizachidziwikire kuti immediacy amenewa. Koma pali zothandiza khalidwe liti? Zilibe kuwawa kutsogolera khalidwe la munthu wa ulemu kwa anthu ake? N'zokayikitsa. Zoonadi, kumverera kwenikweni sangathe kuwononga kapena kusokoneza. M'malo mwake, munthu mwathu yekha pamene iye sangathe kunena zimene m'maganizo ndi mumtima wake. Munthu - ndi amene akufotokozera, amalipira msonkho kwa kukhala palokha ndipo potsiriza, chimwemwe. Khalani zachilengedwe ndi yomweyo.