Chilankhulo thupi: njira zimenezi kungakhale kovuta kwa mbuye, koma khama kulipira

Monga kamodzi anati mfiti nyanja Ursula (ofanana ndi ku "The Mermaid Little"): "Musachepetse kufunika kwa thupi." Ndipo iye anali mwamtheradi zolondola.

zidule Mwachitsanzo, kumwetulira losaiwalika, kuphunzira ndi ntchito tsiku lililonse n'kosavuta. Ena angathe kuyambitsa mavuto kuphunzira ndipo amafuna ena luso. Komabe, iwo akhoza kukhala yaikulu ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale anthu amasankha mtengo.

Nawa eyiti njira chinenero thupi zovuta kuti adziwe, koma khama lanu kulipira.

"Mirroring" interlocutor ndi

"Akalirole" munthu amene inu kulankhula - kenako abwereza zomwe iye amachita. Movement, malo thupi. Ndi kovuta, makamaka chifukwa ngati "mirroring" kuti overdo izo, woyimba amaganiza kuti amasekedwa akukunyodolani iye.

Komano, molondola anaphedwa tsenga kumakhala kosavuta kupambana.

chikhulupiriro gait

Ngakhale kuti aliyense akuganiza kuti iye amayenda ndi chikhulupiriro, izi sizichitika nthawi zonse. Ena waulesi gait ndi slouch, ena kuyang'ana womangika ndi kutsekedwa.

Ndipo kwake ndi kovuta kutsatira: ndi mawu amene mukumva mu kujambula uno wokha, ndipo nthawi iliyonse inu ndikudabwa ngati izo ziri inu. Koma ngati inu muyesera vutolo, ena adzaweruza inu monga munthu wolimba mtima komanso mtima.

Diso kukhudzana: onse maso anu

Pali anthu amene amavutika kuti akhalebe diso kukhudzana, ndipo makamaka kuyamba kuyang'ana molunjika mu diso. Kwa iwo, ndi chosakhala ndi wovuta. Koma kwenikweni, zimathandiza akulumikizana ndi ali woposa "athamangadi" kapena view muyaya nkhawa maso.

Leyl Laundes m'buku lakuti "Kodi kulankhula ndi aliyense chilichonse," limalangiza tiyerekeze kuti maso anu glued kuti interlocutor wake penapake yomata. Pa nthawi inu azolowere ndi kusiya kusunga ndi ulamuliro, ndi luso lanu lolankhula adzasintha.

lotseguka kaimidwe

Posadziwa chochita ndi manja anu, anthu tuck iwo m'matumba kapena anawoloka pachifuwa pake, kotero amalimata ku interlocutor lapansi. Koma Subconsciously chimakupangitsani kuganiza kuti akubisala chinachake. Open kaimidwe ali yokha ndi kulenga nyengo ya chidaliro.

Modekha, koma bata

Fidgeting nthawi yodziwika ndi anthu osaona mtima kapena amene ali ndi mantha. Ngakhale sindimakonda interlocutors awo.

Komabe, pofuna kukhadzikika ndi kugwira mosavuta chimodzimodzi kuti overdo ndi Usaigwedezere konse. Koma maudindo apamwambawa sizikuwoneka omasuka ndi woposa "kusaka".

Kupeza bwino - kuti ndi njira yabwino imeneyi.

kaimidwe

Makolo anali bwino, berating chifukwa hunched anu kumbuyo. Achiyesa achiyesa, koma "usathe" pa mpando Mwachitsanzo, mu kuyankhulana ndi - chizindikiro cha chipongwe. Pa nthawi yomweyo yosalala kaimidwe kuoneka ngati chizindikiro cha luntha, chitsimikizo ndi chidaliro. Izi zimathandiza osati pa misonkhano boma.

Khala molunjika ndi chizolowezi si kophweka, koma ubwino ntchito.

chanza

"Waulesi kugwirana chanza" - ndi kugwirana chanza kwambiri, kwambiri amanyansidwa ndi zosasangalatsa onse. Izo zimapangitsa munthu kuona kufooka yekha. Gwiranani chanza ayenera kukhala omasuka kutsegula maso ndi kwinaku akumwetulira. Ndiye ntchito.

Zodabwitsa ndizakuti, mu nkhani iyi kwambiri m'pofunika kudziwa muyeso, chifukwa chakuti ndi olimba chanza amaonedwa monga mokwiya.

slowdown

Munthu mantha, iye amayamba kuchita zinthu mwachangu ndi kulankhula kudya. Koma zochita yeniyeni ndi wosakwiya kubala kuganiza bwino. Munthu kuyankhula mu mayendedwe mpandawo amadziwa chimene iye akulankhula za - maganizo agona mu malingaliro athu.

Ngati mukuona akupeza "gawo", siyani, kupuma kwambiri ndi kusunga womasuka kwambiri ngati nkotheka. Kotero inu ngati munthu woyenera, osati dzulo wobiriwira mwana.