Achinyamata lero mwa maso a Muscovites

Achinyamata lero ... chomwe izo ziri? Tsiku lirilonse ife tingathe kuona zinthu zosiyanasiyana mu njira ina pankakhala achinyamata ndipo ngakhale onse, tikhoza kudziwa tanthauzo loyenera.

Poganizira nkhani ya achinyamata ambiri, ine ndinachewuka kuti Muscovites, kupeza mmene mumzindawo wathu amakhulupirira achinyamata lero mu mphamvu yake kusintha dziko kukhala labwino. Anafunsidwa anafunsidwa mafunso monga: "Kodi mukuganiza za achinyamata a lero? "Ndipo" Kodi mukuganiza kuti achinyamata a lero kusintha mkhalidwe wathu? ". M'badwo wa kafukufukuyu ranged kwa zaka 16 mpaka 60, ndiko kupereka mayankho ku mafunso anthu a mibadwo yosiyana. Zodabwitsa, mu lingaliro langa, anali anthu achikulire analankhula za achinyamata a lero, ambiri mawu, chabwino, ndi achinyamata anzawo omwe anapereka mayankho negative.

Ambiri, anthu okalamba, ananena kuti achinyamata, makamaka achinyamata Moscow, yogwira, tikupita chitsogolo, Mokhumbira mwa nzeru zawo. Mwachitsanzo, Marina Ivanovna, ndi pensioner, wotchedwa wamng'ono wokongola, kotero kuti amatha kutsindika mbali yabwino. Pa kusintha boma, mayi anaona kuti achinyamata angathe kupanga dziko lathu bwino, koma choyamba, zimadalira munthu. Ngati achinyamata akulimbana wokhoza, wochenjera, iye akhoza zabwino mu dziko lawo.

choncho anali ndi yosiyana ndi achinyamata. Mwachitsanzo, Lisa (18) akukhulupirira kuti achinyamata ambiri, kuti amenenso limabweretsa yekha, amene amachoka ake, koma kuchita izo siziri kwenikweni chilungamo ndi wamakhalidwe njira, ndiko chilankhulo chomveka, "ndi pamutu." Ngati achinyamata ambiri akhoza kusintha mkhalidwe wathu, iye amayankha okhazikika - No. Atsikana Catherine ndi Nastya (onse pa 16) imatengedwa wachinyamata wamakono kwambiri, ngati kuti akufuna kutenga kwambiri zikuwonjezereka masiku ano, koma monga ife tikudziwira, njira iliyonse iwo analandira ndi osiyana. anafunsidwa zina amatchedwa achinyamata lero zambiri olaula, kotero kuti sadziwa kuchita zinthu. Pa kusintha kwa funso boma likuyankhidwa mu negative. Ngakhale kalelo ndi nzeru za Socrates analankhula za achinyamata: "Ana lero chikondi mwanaalirenji; iwo saphunzitsidwa bwino, alibe ulemu kwa ulamuliro, palibe kulemekeza akulu awo, zokonda zapatsidwa yokwanira, ndi kulongolola .. Ana tsopano olamulira ankhanza, si antchito m'nyumba. Alibenso adzauka akulu kulowa. Iwo perechat makolo, miseche ndi anzawo, maswiti asamadye kwambiri pa chakudya, atakhala ndi miyendo yake anawoloka, ndi kunyogodola aphunzitsi awo. " Iwo anatenga Zakachikwi oposa zinthu sanasinthe. Iwo mwina asintha si anthu okha, ndi makhalidwe awo?

Mu malo oyamba, ndiye, kodi achinyamata, izo zimatengera maphunziro ndi chilengedwe. Banja kuti amasamalira chitukuko mabuku a mwanayo ndi izikandichitira yoyenera, amalima munthu amene ali ndi cholinga, kulemekeza anthu ena, koma izi sizichitika nthawi zonse. Tizikumbukira otchedwa "umalimbikira", "golide unyamata". Mwa iwo, palibe makhalidwe abwino, zonse chimazungulira ndalama ndi chakuti mugule iwo. Anthu ambiri anamva za chodabwitsa msewu anagona, mwachitsanzo Atakwera pa breakneck liwiro. Ambiri, ndi khalidwe la "golide unyamata" lomwe lili makolo "kuchokera pamwamba", lomwe lili ndi Zopatsa ana awo amakonda.

Izi zikutanthauza kuti achinyamata onse ayenera kupeza cholakwika? Mu lingaliro langa, ayi, chifukwa pali achinyamata amene ali kalikiliki moyo wapoyera, kupanga miyoyo ya anthu chidwi.

Zonsezi pamwambapa akusonyeza kuti achinyamata kuyesa kusintha tsogolo, koma sikuti kupereka zonse kupanga kuipa awo, komanso anthu amene akufuna kusamalira anthu amene sangathe mokwanira ngoziyo kuti mu boma, lomwe ndi mosavuta kusamalira. Choncho, m'pofunika choyamba, kukhala anthu ndi likulu kalata, ndiye chirichonse chikhala bwino mu miyoyo yathu.