Osanena kuti zinthu izi 20 anzanga!

Kulankhulana ndi anzawo kuntchito, kumene, chofunika kwambiri. Ndipotu, zikuthandizani inu osati kuti unwind ndi kudziwana bwino kuposa anthu lotsatira amene nthawi yambiri, komanso kukupatsa waphindu. Komabe, pali zinthu zina zimene anzanga kuti si koyenera, chifukwa kungapangitse kuti panachitika zoipa. Choncho, timapereka kuti tipeze zinthu 20 sayenera kulankhula kwa anzake.

"Kodi malipiro anu?"

Izi si unprofessional kokha, komanso ndi wosayenera funso. N'chifukwa chiyani muyenera zimenezi? Mukufuna akudandaula kuti mutu wa chakuti ndalama zochepa? Kapena M'malo mwake, mukufuna kulankhula kwa bwanayo m'malo mwa anzake pofuna kutsimikizira iye kuonjezera malipiro ake?

"Kodi ine kubwereka ndalama?"

Ambiri a ife kamodzi pa moyo wawo pamene afika ntchito anasonyeza kuti chikwama kumanzere kunyumba. Pankhaniyi, ndi zabwinobwino kubwereka pang'ono mnzake nkhomaliro. Komabe, ntchito molakwika kukoma anzake. Ndipotu, kamodzi mulibe ndimangoima akubwereketsa ndalama, koma adzaleka kulemekeza inu.

"Pa mawu anga!"

Moganizira zomwe iwe unkanena choonadi pa mphindi, akhoza ufalikire. Kotero, anthu akhoza kuganiza za chiyani, ngati inu muli nawo mtima nawo nthawi zina.

"Kodi mwamva? ..»

Osati mophweka pa nthawi kupewa miseche pa ntchito. Komabe, zimenezi ziyenera kuchitidwa, chifukwa ndemanga zoipa za munthu ndi anzawo ku ntchito adzapanga inu muyang'ane mu maso a omvera ndi woipa kuposa munthu inu mukuchikamba. Komanso, n'kutheka kuti chinthu miseche amadziwa za mawu anu kuti akhoza kuwononga ubwenzi wanu.

"Ndimakonda izi mathalauza kukhala pa inu"

Kuthokoza ndi yoletsedwa. Komabe, tiyenera kuganizira mozama zimene mukufuna kutamanda. Mwachitsanzo, pokambirana maonekedwe a anzake ankaona unprofessional. Komanso, anthu ena amaliona zachipongwe.

"Kotero ngati inu nthawi zonse mavuto"

Mitu monga chipembedzo, ndale, ndi maphunziro a ana, nthawi zina tumphuka nkhani pakati pa anzake. Komabe, mu nkhani palibe sangathe kupereka ndemanga zoipa za anthu amene amatsatira izi kapena kuti maganizo. Izi si unprofessional, komanso kunyozera kwambiri kwa iye.

"Kodi inu ndi pakati?"

Kumbuyo funso limeneli mocheperapo kukhala yankho positive. Ngati mnzake amachita kwenikweni pakati, ndiye inu mawu ofanana kwambiri kukhumudwa naye. Ndipo ngati lilidi mu malo osangalatsa, si koma kukhala okonzeka kukambirana ndi anzake. Choncho, kulemekeza zinsinsi za ena musavutike iwo mu njira iyi.

"Pepani kundivutitsa"

Bwanji mukunena chimene kwenikweni wina? Ngati inu muli kwenikweni chisoni chinachake chimene zisanachitidwe choncho, kaya bwino ndiye musati apange izo? A njira yabwino ndi kutembenukira kwa mnzake ndi mawu akuti: "Pepani, muli miniti?".

"Ndikuyang'ana ntchito ina. Kodi mukudziwa munthu wina amene akufuna antchito? "

Zokambirana za mapulani amenewa ndi anzake akhoza kuwapanga iwo mwachibadwa kuyamba kutalikirana inu, chifukwa iwo adzadziwa kuti posachedwapa simudzaliranso kukhala mbali ya gulu. Komanso, mwina mosadziwa kutchula izi kwa bwana wanu. Izi kusintha kwa zinthu angachotsedwe chakuti mudzakhala zipolopolo kale kwambiri kuposa anakonza.

"Inu mukuona totupa izi? Mawa ndipita kwa dokotala kupeza zotsatira za kuwunika "

Kupatulapo mnzanuyo kapena makolo zimavuta munthu akufuna kumva kapena kuona nkhani iliyonse pa ukupeza. kukambirana malire pa nkhani ndi anzake kukambirana mutu kapena chimfine.

"Ine ndikuganiza ..."

Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu amenewa zili zovomerezeka, koma ngati mulibe umamukhulupiriradi chinachake. Choncho ngati mukufuna kuwomba wotsimikizika, musagwiritsire ntchito msanga choncho, ndi kungonena, mwachitsanzo: "Msonkhano chidzagwa mawa pa firii koloko."

"Ndikudabwa kuti akukufunsani kuchita chimodzimodzi ulaliki"

zosinthika china cha mawu akuti: "unali ine!". Tiyeneranso kupewa zosonyezera chikondi. Professional a inu muti munene, "Mwagwira ntchito!".

"Inu m'malo mwa ine pamene ine kumasuka ku Caribbean?"

Sikuthandiza nthawi owonjezera kulabadira wanu ogwira nawo moyo wapamwamba. Zimenezi zingachititse mkwiyo ndi nsanje ndi kuwasindikiza ndi Woyerekedwa.

"Ndipo ine ndawaitanira?"

Musaiwale kuti ndinu munthu wamkulu. Palibe afunika akakupemphani kuti zochitika zonse. Kuganiziranso kamodzinso, kodi ndinu wokonzeka kuyankha funso limeneli.

"Kodi mukufuna kucheza mlungu limodzi?"

Chotero njira akhoza kukhala osayenera kugonana. Choncho ngati mukufuna kuwona mnzake, kumufunsa iye ngati iye akufuna nanu pa mlungu.

"Palibe adzaona ngati ine ichi mtsuko wa nyumba khofi"

N'zokayikitsa kuti khalidwe ukhala anzake monga china kuba. Choncho musadabwe ngati mapeto mudzataya kumukhulupirira ndi ulemu.

"Ife anadzuka munthu mu bedi!"

Sikuti kudziŵitsa anzawo zokhudza moyo wake, makamaka chikondi.

"Iye akhaba lingaliro langa"

Mwina mnzake wanu kapena mutu wa zotsatira n'kukagwiritsa ntchito ya manja anu. Koma osati kuwauza aliyense. Ndi bwino kukambirana ndi munthuyo mwachindunji.

"Kodi ine kubwereka perefyumu wanu?"

Ili ndi funso wovuta kwambiri. Pofunsa izo, inu kusuntha kuchuluka kwa ubale akatswiri omwe si yoyenera.

"Ine akambirane kampani imeneyi!"

Ngati mukufuna kupeleka mlandu ndi mabwana awo, kukambirana ndi loya koma osati ndi ena. Mofanana ayenera zimakhala ndi ulemu ndi kupitiriza mokhulupirika kugwira ntchito zawo, popanda kukokera mu nkhani anzake.